Why can aunt cleaning go into the men's room to clean? And uncle cleaning rarely goes to the ladies' room?

By my side, I often hear many boyfriends complain:

How can an aunt who cleans the men's room go in and out at will? ?

Many times, I saw menstruation in the men's room as if no one was looking in the mirror! ?

This is sexual harassment. We men need face, okay? ?

Aunt can go to the men's room. Why can't I go to the ladies' room? This is naked sexism.

I believe many people are troubled by this problem. Today we will analyze this problem in depth. Why does my aunt go to the men's room? Why can't I go to the women's room? Doesn't aunt constitute sexual harassment?

Why can't my aunt go into the men's room?

The default aunt does not constitute the sex subject.

The first reason is that we will acquiesce that aunts do not constitute sexual subjects.

In our common sense, we often think that women's attitude towards sex is implicit and introverted, especially for those aunts who seem to have no sexual desire.

Without sexual awareness, nature will not become the subject of sex.

Physiologically, the peak of female fertility is generally at the age of 25. By the age of 45, the possibility of giving birth will be greatly reduced, and sexual desire will also decline.

It's almost time to clean my aunt. Therefore, we also think that there is no possibility of sexual harassment in Auntie.

This is why the general company only recruits cleaners and aunts. Very rare.

Some people will say, but I just think my aunt's appearance in the men's room offends me. This is a kind of sexual harassment. Some people will say that aunts can go to the men's room and uncles can't go to the women's room. This is sexism.

Why can't my aunt go into the men's room?

In fact, in essence, this is not discrimination against aunts!

Because we discriminate against aunts who have no sexual consciousness, we don't regard them as women with sexual desire, but as objects without subjective behavior, because they are always in a passive position in sex.

My uncle will arouse women's awareness of being violated.

The second reason is that if you enter the men's toilet, it will cause women's awareness of being violated. From the perspective of psychoanalysis, this is a subconscious mechanism at work.

There is a certain biological basis behind this. Compared with women, men's fertility is lifelong, unlike girls, which basically stops after menstruation disappears.

Why can't my aunt go into the men's room?

Meanwhile, from a physiological point of view, women are relatively weak, while men are stronger and more aggressive.

Therefore, in the private space of the ladies' room, if the owner appears, it will psychologically cause women's sense of aggression.

This is how our laws are designed. For example, in civil law, only male harassment and aggression against women constitute sexual harassment and sexual assault.

However, there is no legal provision for harassment and infringement of men by women, or there is no relief in this regard.

All the reasons here show that men are more aggressive towards women, so they will awaken women's subconscious consciousness of being violated, so the owner can't go into the ladies' room.

Patriarchal culture is deeply rooted

Auntie can go to the men's room, and uncle can't go to the women's room. There is a more essential reason behind it, and that is the deep-rooted patriarchal culture.

The patriarchal culture has existed in China for thousands of years, although we always consciously eliminate the dross of this culture.

But it is undeniable that this culture still plays a role in today's life, and the topic we are discussing today is also the result of this cultural influence.

Why can't my aunt go into the men's room?

In the patriarchal culture, we expect men to be masculine and feminine.

This culture rationalizes men's aggression and castrates women's sexual desire and aggression.

Therefore, as an aunt without aggression and sexual desire, she can enter the men's toilet, while an aggressive aunt can't enter the women's toilet.

However, from a sociological point of view, this culture is also an oppression of men. Because men also have a weak side and need privacy; Some women also have strong sexual desire and aggression.

People in the middle of the gray area are always victims of discrimination.

This is what we share today.

Why can't my aunt go into the men's room?

We know that Auntie can enter the men's room because we default that Auntie has no subject of sexual behavior, only the object of sexual behavior; The reason why uncles can't go into the ladies' room is because they awaken women's subconscious consciousness of being violated.