Husband: Thank you for having you in my life.

We have known each other for more than 20 years. How time flies. In retrospect, the first formal communication during college should be that we were on duty in a canteen together, and everyone washed their hands after dinner and wiped their hands with your clothes. I don't know what you were thinking. Do you think there is something wrong with this crazy girl? At the end of the semester, after self-study in the evening, we sometimes go back to the dormitory together, having more contact and chatting, and getting familiar with each other gradually. Later, we gradually became good friends in our studies. As a science student, I am really at a loss when faced with important courses such as revolutionary history of freshmen. Always ask you questions with an open mind. I am very nervous in every exam and often review until midnight. Fortunately, after the first semester, my grades were still satisfactory. I remember that I didn't get a scholarship at that time, but I missed sports and English very much. I don't remember if you received it. Later, I gradually adapted to college life, and won many scholarships, but also won three good students. When I graduated, I took the second grade exam.

We are all students who walk to school. Maybe this invisible bond also connects us. We still have undeniable pride in our hearts. We can go to college without the college entrance examination, and we still respect each other in our hearts. Later, I often studied together, and I had to choose my direction when I was a sophomore. I am very entangled, choosing economy or law. I don't know if I was influenced by you and chose the same economy as you. Because I am a science student, I think I can study math. And at that time, you said that you could study law at any time, and the economy would be different. I don't know if I made the right choice. You have been teaching economics for several years, and I almost forgot. Maybe this is fate. If I had chosen the law, I might not have a family now. We are two masters in the 96-level economic class, and we often compete with each other and are often praised by our teachers. I remember that we all got the highest score of 85 points in the political and economic examination in our sophomore summer vacation, and Professor Wang praised us well. That is, at the end of that semester, we fell in love and spent some time together, but at the beginning of the new semester I broke up for many reasons. I found that you have many small problems, but I didn't feel them when I didn't really touch them. Those problems were exposed after close contact. At that time, I was still a perfectionist and could not tolerate defects. Also, at that time, considering the future graduation distribution, I still had to stay in Siping, and you were going back to Jilin, so it was impossible to be together. As it turns out, you stayed in Siping and I went to Changchun. Sometimes fate is really willing to play jokes on us. )

Then we all spent the rest of our college life quietly. During this period, you had pain and depression, but we are all normal people and have no excessive behavior. In the third year of high school, I was busy preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. You help in the department and have no time to take care of each other. When I came back from the winter vacation, I failed in the postgraduate entrance examination and was ready to find a job. I participated in the interview of Changchun Dayang High School and passed it once. Now that I think about it, I shouldn't have participated in this interview. Later, you also participated in the interview of Zhejiang High School, but you were unsuccessful due to mistakes. Most students have found jobs one after another, but you have no information. I don't know whether it's maternity or work, but I'm starting to worry about you. Later, I finally got the notice of detention and helped you give advice in class over and over again. Finally, you stayed at school, and we came together again. The students laughed and said that we were in a yellow relationship, maybe. You stay in Siping when I go to Changchun. At that time, you suggested that I spend money on No.4 Middle School, but I didn't agree. After studying for so many years, I didn't agree to spend money to find a job, and finally chose to go to Changchun, so we started a year-long love. This year is our hardest year, and it is also a year to enhance our feelings. We have been running around Changchun and Siping. As long as you have time, you can go to Changchun to accompany me, and sometimes even send me to Changchun, and you will immediately take a bus back to Siping. More than a dozen 200 telephone cards and train tickets accumulated in a year are the best testimony of our feelings and have become the talk of our friends. During this period, we got the marriage certificate on May 28th, 20001year. One year after graduation, I resigned from Changchun to take the postgraduate entrance examination. This year, you worked part-time and accompanied me to study late into the night. Many things happen. In 2002, I was admitted as a graduate student in our school. I owe you this. Without your company and encouragement, I wouldn't have achieved what I have achieved today.

On July 6, 2002, more than a month after receiving the admission notice of graduate students, we held a wedding, and I became a happy bride. At that time, you sat and ran to meet me at my mother's house in the countryside, which was really enviable. Because I go to school full-time, my married life is a bit bitter, but it is also a relatively happy three years for us. In the second year after marriage, you were admitted to the graduate school of Northeast Normal University, and we started living in two places again. The difference this time is that you are in Changchun and I am in Siping. Those years were just gathering less and leaving more, but in order to study and live a happier life in the future, I can only endure such days. Good luck came on the eve of my master's degree. I successfully stayed in school to teach, and our baby was quietly conceived. Although it was not the right time at that time, you didn't graduate yet, and you still wanted to continue the exam, but since she knocked on our door, we should give her a good welcome. During pregnancy, although you are not often at home, you know that with my little life, a person is no longer so lonely. This is the crystallization of our love and the continuation of our life.

On June 8, 2005, 10, our baby daughter was welcomed. I still clearly remember the time when I was waiting for delivery in the delivery room. You've been with me since the labor pains started the night before. After a night of tossing, the bone seam is still only three fingers. Everyone suggested caesarean section. In order to alleviate my pain, and for our baby to come into this world quickly, you decisively signed the notice of family members. Soon, at 4: 35 pm, I finally heard the baby's first cry. The doctor sent the child to the operating room, and you couldn't wait to take the child away. You didn't let the aunt who stepped on the baby hold the baby, which shows how much you cherish this little life. When I came back from the operating room to the ward, you pushed me from my hand to the hospital bed, and your white shirt was stained with blood. Six hours after the operation, I lay quietly. After the anesthetic is too strong, the pain of the incision is really unbearable. You hardly slept with me that night. During those days in the hospital, besides cooking at home or buying some daily necessities, you always accompanied my mother and son, fed me, combed my hair, washed my face and helped me get out of bed. On the day of discharge, in order not to hurt my knife, you specially moved an armchair from home and carried me to the fourth floor with your sixth brother. Think about it then.

The happiest time for my daughter should be the six years before school, and it is also our happiest six years. During this period, you completed your master's thesis, completed the advanced study of Liaoning University in the first half of 2007, completed the evaluation of intermediate titles, and got our own house in the second half of 2007. Because grandma is in poor health, you have to study again, and I am busy in class. My daughter will be sent to kindergarten 19 months. Looking back now, the child is really poor, but it also exercises some of her abilities. In the four and a half years of kindergarten, except for very few occasions, we have been with our daughter, and the children have grown up carefree and formed a cheerful, sunny and optimistic character. We personally send our children to kindergarten and take part in all their activities. In order to participate in language classes and kindergarten performances, we also actively participate and practice with those who are not good at performing. We never fall behind and have performed in kindergartens and squares. Many people envy our happy family. When my daughter graduated from kindergarten, she performed in Hero Square. She also hosted, allegro and danced. This is really great. I know very well that my daughter can achieve today's achievements without your support and companionship. Without your strong backing, I can't take my children to play at will and participate in various interest classes. Whenever I go home, you have prepared meals. At that time, we were really happy.

The six years of our daughter's schooling are the most difficult for us. There are old people and little people in the world. Climbing a mountain is really difficult. Over the past six years, our opinions on educating children, attending interest classes and making up cultural classes have become more and more divergent. Coupled with my academic pressure and your work pressure, everyone seems to be in a crater, which may erupt at any time. Besides daily necessities, life is more about quarreling. Maybe this is the real life. Nevertheless, we are doing our best to run our home. In recent years, children have been in two classes, interest class and culture class, which has spent most of our time and energy. You are still our strong backing. Didn't a famous person say, "Life is alive, besides now, there are poems and distant places." Every winter and summer vacation, no matter how far away, we have to take our children out, which not only increases their experience, but also relaxes their mood.

This year, we are forty years old and have entered the age of no doubt. It seems that I have settled down a lot at once, looked down a lot, stopped pursuing those illusory things, grasped the real present, gained more understanding, reduced quarrels and returned to calm. This is the twenty years we have known each other, true, plain and happy.

Honey, thank you for accompanying me all the way in my life, and thank you for your tolerance over the years, including my nagging, gossip, unruly and unreasonable. I hope you can always tolerate me until I am 80 years old or 100 years old, and also tolerate our daughter as you tolerate me.

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