When you encounter difficulties in doing things, do you want to go forward or backward?

1, what should I do if I encounter difficulties?

Difficulties are a boulder on the road. You must overcome it and move it away before you can succeed.

Difficulty is the iceberg to reach the other side of the ideal. You must overcome it and crush it to reach the other side of the ideal.

The difficulty of reaching the top of the mountain is also intertwined. You must overcome it and cross it to reach the top.

Where there are ideals, there are difficulties.

What will you do in the face of difficulties?

I read an article called "Practice Smiling", about an American baseball player who retired at the age of forty and decided to find another job to start his career again. He saw in the newspaper that many companies were looking for salesmen, so he applied, but because he didn't have a charming smile, he was rejected one by one. But he was not discouraged. After returning home, he found many photos of stars to hang at home, practiced smiling at them, smiled in the mirror every day, and even practiced smiling when talking to others, so that many people thought he was mentally ill, but he didn't care and practiced smiling as usual. After numerous failures and exercises, he finally has a charming smiling face. When he came to a company he applied for with a charming smile and confidence, the manager said, "I decided to hire you" before he spoke. Later, he became a salesman with an annual salary of $5 million. When people asked him the secret of success, he said, "Smile is not born, it is practiced, as long as you have perseverance and perseverance".

"How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain?" This American story tells us: When we encounter difficulties, don't complain, but face them bravely. As long as we have perseverance and perseverance, even if it is congenital deficiency, defects can be changed through our own efforts. When I face difficulties, I will definitely experience all kinds of difficulties in my life! There are many difficulties. Frustration and failure are both difficulties. Of course, I have experienced all kinds of difficulties. To overcome difficulties, we must first have a firm belief: I learned to ride a bike when I was a child. I will fall off before I ride out at first, but I don't admit defeat. I've been trying. Finally, I can ride for three or four meters, and I fell down before I was so angry. I thought to myself: I can ride it out already. With more practice, I can ride it well! So I continued to practice, and finally I was able to ride about 20 meters, but I still fell. I began to feel a little discouraged and wanted to give up. At this time, I saw several children who were as anxious as me riding bicycles. They ride very well, and I envy them. I hope I can ride as happily as they do, which strengthens my belief and keeps practicing. So I kept practicing and falling.

To overcome difficulties, we should not only have a firm belief, but also face them with an optimistic attitude:

I used to get good grades, often in the top five, and I was often praised by teachers in my class. Until the sixth grade, my grades began to decline, and I was no longer praised by teachers, and I was not in the top five in my class. Once a mid-term exam came, I didn't do very well in the exam, and my grades were below average. I am sad. I poured out my heart to my good friend. He didn't do well in this exam either, but he is always so optimistic. He said to me, "The result of this exam means nothing. There are many opportunities in the future! Don't always face it with the mentality that I didn't do well in the exam, but with the mentality that I will be better next time, so that I won't be too sad and can help you better tide over this difficulty! " I was greatly encouraged by his hearty words. I will be optimistic in the future. Really, no matter the exam or other difficulties, I am no longer sad because I did badly in the exam.

To overcome difficulties, in addition to your own belief mentality, sometimes you need the care of others, even if it is just a word, you can overcome difficulties! ! !

What's the difficulty? Difficulties are a step towards success; What's the difficulty? Difficulty is a "golden key" that opens the door to achievement! ! !

I believe that as long as we remember our firm belief and optimistic attitude in the face of difficulties, we will certainly overcome them, I believe we will! Come on, my friend, don't give in to difficulties, don't give in to difficulties! !

2. You will often encounter all kinds of difficulties in your life. Some people choose to take detours, while others choose to face difficulties and overcome them. Although the second person is difficult to do, he gains much more than the first person. People who take detours will not do great things because they dare not face any difficulties. How do they face the greater difficulties in life? At that time, if they choose to take a detour, they will lose a lot. Those who face and overcome difficulties solve them. Of course, every effort pays off, so he gets the joy of success and a lot of knowledge.

On one occasion, the teacher said that homework is an endorsement, and I hate it when I get bored. As soon as I got home and finished my other homework, I jumped on the bed and slowly began to recite. But half an hour, an hour and two hours have passed, and I still don't know each other very well. I'm so anxious that I don't want to recite or sleep. When my mother saw me like this, she accompanied me on my back, and soon I could recite it. I have gained something by overcoming this difficulty. I know how to recite is actually an idiom-perseverance, these four words. Don't think about anything else, just think about how to recite it, and it will be solved in a moment!

A reporter once interviewed a girl who was admitted to eight famous universities in the United States. The reporter asked, "You are realizing your dream" > What should I do if I encounter difficulties in dreaming? "She replied," Determine what you want to do, simplify other things, concentrate and persevere, and then the difficulties will be solved. " The reporter asked again, "What did you get by overcoming difficulties? "She:" I gained confidence and courage, and my ambition is getting higher and higher. "So a person who is admitted to eight famous universities in the United States always succeeds by overcoming difficulties to gain confidence, courage and ambition. So, when you encounter difficulties, you get a chance to be tested. Don't miss it, but face it and learn more.

There are many ways to solve the difficulties. It is believed that every difficulty and problem we encounter now must have appeared somewhere in the world and someone has found a solution. What we need to do is to find this solution. Or tell yourself: the most difficult time is often when you are about to succeed. You can also pick up a celebrity biography and see how the protagonist got through the difficulties. There are too many solutions. In short, you only need to believe one sentence: "There is no hurdle in life!" Do it.

The difficulty is only temporary, and you will regret it for a lifetime if you choose a detour; Choose to face it, and you will gain knowledge. It's up to you

3. Overcome difficulties and overcome yourself _

I used to be a very timid girl. Too timid to be afraid of mice, too timid to sleep alone, too timid to stand on high and leave their parents.

I remember before I was five years old, my father took me to climb Xiyan Mountain. But every time, I skipped and came back sobbing. Until I was five years old. I'm so excited that I can finally spend my summer vacation. Because I can sleep until ten o'clock and play until ten o'clock. The next morning, my father pulled me out of the date with Duke Zhou and "ordered" me to get dressed and put on sports shoes. I was dragged to the foot of the mountain by my father with doubts.

"ah? Dad, no way, going to climb the mountain again? " "That's true, or when will your acrophobia be cured?" Although I was very, very reluctant, I didn't want my father to go home and torture me, so I had to bite the bullet and take my father's hand and climb up step by step. As the steps up the mountain were relatively gentle, we were halfway up the mountain at once. At this time, a temple appeared in front of my eyes, which was the place where I stepped back countless times. One stood in front of the temple, with ten high and steep steps. I can't help looking up. God, I'm still "intimidating" the two stone lions above! Dad saw my fear and used a "provocative" tone: "What, are you still afraid?" If I had known you were so useless, I wouldn't have brought you here. "It really worked. I was taken in by my father:" Who said I couldn't climb up? "Today, let you see the true skill of your precious woman."

I dragged my father a step forward. One is a piece of cake, two are really easy, three are ok, and four are ok. Seeing that I was almost in the middle, I cried with an "ah". Dad always said, "Don't be afraid, I'm still here!" " "But I am still embarrassed to say," I can't go up. I'd rather stay here. " When my father heard this, he immediately threw me aside and pretended to be angry and said, "All right, stay." Say that finish, he immediately took a few steps, I had to move forward with trepidation. Tourists look surprised and happy like us strange women. I, angry and anxious, can't wait to rush up and punch my dad on the thick fat layer. At this time, my father said in despair, "Would you like to come up? Then go. "Gradually, the ground is getting farther and farther away from me. Unconsciously, I have reached the door of the temple. The two stone lions also looked at me kindly at this moment, as if there were a little encouragement and congratulations in their eyes, and more, they were gratified.

Suddenly, my father patted me on the shoulder. Naturally, my head turned back. This major doesn't matter, so that I, a acrophobia, almost slipped and fell down the steps. Although I said "not afraid" in my heart, my body still shook unconsciously. Dad gently covered my hand and let me take a few steps forward. I did it. I don't know where I got the courage. I pushed away my father's hand, opened my eyes wide, looked at the tourists below and thought about my mountain climbing experience. I can't help liking this condescending feeling. At this time, a sense of accomplishment welled up in my heart.

Now that I am grown up, I can go up and down freely on the Xiyan Mountain, and I can even trot home from the narrow path. As I get older, I can stay at home alone for one night. All this is because I am afraid of mountains, which has benefited me a lot: don't be afraid of difficulties, only by working hard to overcome them can we reach the peak of glory.

4. Everything can't go smoothly in one's life. When doing things, you will certainly encounter difficulties and setbacks. It doesn't matter. What matters is how you will deal with difficulties and setbacks or give up. Or go forward? I met with difficulties in learning to swim, so I resolutely chose to go ahead!

I remember it was in the summer vacation of one year, and I saw the swimmers on TV swimming around in the water like a duck to water. I thought swimming was easy, so I asked my mother to sign me up for a swimming class.

I am very happy in my first class. But when I came into contact with water, a chill spread all over my body. The water is so cold! "But the first class is not in the water." I comforted myself. But I don't want to practice. After all, I have never been in the water. I only "flopped" in the water a few times and was pulled up by the coach.

When I got home, my mother said to me, "Give up if you can't." But instead of doing it, I made up my mind to practice hard.

At first, I stood on the platform and dared not jump into the water. The coach pushed me into the water behind me. I can swim slowly. Sometimes when swimming, the movements will be deformed, and some people will laugh. I, however, ignored them and practiced hard, thinking: I'll see you laugh after practicing. After class, I'll stay a little longer and let the teacher tutor me alone. After a few days, my swimming skills have been greatly improved.

On the day of the exam, I went with confidence and passed the exam easily. At that time, the people who laughed at me turned laughter into applause, and I was extremely happy. My teacher praised me and my family praised me, especially when I went out to swim in the future. Many people looked at me with new eyes. I think I gave up at that time, and the consequences were unimaginable.

From this incident, I understand a truth: it is impossible for a person to face difficulties and setbacks in his life, but he should face them correctly and keep working hard, never back down. When you succeed, you will find that you have changed from a trivial grain of sand to a dazzling and priceless pearl. But the premise is to pay. Isn't there a song that sings well, "the sun is always after the rain, and there is a clear sky on the dark clouds." So is life.