Hunter system of Taobao hunter

Hunter system is a flow chart of male-female communication between Taobao hunters and their students based on street fighting, flogging, daily making friends and love, which is based in Guangzhou on October 20, 2007.

Hunters are the earliest in the circle of "practicing dating science", but the hunter system is the latest in all kinds of theories, which shows the hunter's patience and sincerity. The four theories of hunter system include: three answers and three questions, hunter voice network, hunter short message map and hunter relationship promotion matrix.

Three answers and three questions (what to say after the opening)

There are two major problems in chatting up people. One is afraid to say, and the other is that I don't know what to say after I say it. And "two" is the great cause of "one". In the primitive state, people tend to ask questions frequently (commonly known as "auditing") in order to get information from each other and expand the topic. In reality, based on the insecurity when meeting for the first time, the other party is also in a state of protecting themselves and carefully releasing information, which often backfires. "Three answers and three questions" do the opposite, grasping three questions that strangers care about each other when they first meet: "What are you doing here?" "What do you do?" "What's your name?" Take this as a starting point, edit your own materials in advance, take the form of "first answer and then ask" in the conversation, and throw out your own essence materials in order to expect the other party to have a wonderful response. "Answer" comes first and "question" comes last. With the spirit of "if you want to take it first, you must give it first", we can achieve the balance of information exchange and break the ice for interpersonal relationships.

Hunter voice network (what to say when chatting up a date)

There are a lot of "I don't know what to say" topics in chatting up, dating or normal social activities, which leads to a large number of walking dead words, such as mind reading, humorous jokes, horoscope, cold reading and so on. Based on the "three questions and three answers", Hunter's telephone network adopts NLP's "parallel method of pushing up and cutting down" from everyone for more than 20 years.

Hunter SMS map (from SMS to dating)

"It's easy to strike up a conversation, but difficult to follow up" has always been a difficult problem for many strike up a conversation. Hunter's SMS guide fills the gap in chatting and follow-up, builds a bridge between chatting and dating, clearly outlines the complete picture from the first message after receiving the number to the date, reserves the gateway, presupposes various situations, and operates according to the rules, so that sending messages without a clue becomes as interesting and traceable as an introduction.

Hunter relationship promotion matrix (from friends to lovers)

In the process of developing from a friend to a lover, being issued with a "lover card" and a "death confession" is a painful experience for many otaku. Hunter's relationship promotion matrix uses four key factors in male-female communication to form two matrices. If we put the relationship between men and women in the matrix, we can clearly see the progress, fill the gaps and land safely. Or in the case of disparity in strength, give full play to various favorable factors, issue a reasonable blow, and improve the success rate.

See the micro-knowledge, grasp the macro-interaction from small changes, follow the map and accurately grasp the love process; (This has a lot to do with whether the hunter is a laboratory doctor. )

According to the figure, according to the strategy to operate each level, you don't need to know any principles, just compare them. At the moment when all kinds of theories are flying all over the sky, it is tantamount to creating a clean stream of practical reference.

Applicable people: like hunters, simple, honest, shy, introverted, talented and inarticulate. The hunter told everyone: there is no need to change your personality by force. Facts have proved that you can't change it. Those who go with it prosper, while those who go against it are confused.