What I didn't understand until I was 30, you know?

Today, let's talk about studying, making money and working. Understand these truths, life can take many detours less.

First, think about what you want to do in the future. There are hundreds of graduate students in the journalism departments of these three schools, and the recruitment quota of better media units may be only a dozen each year. As an undergraduate and interdisciplinary person, why do people want me? Think about what you want to do in the future as soon as possible. It doesn't matter if the major is wrong. You can also go to the internship or postgraduate entrance examination, and it will be too late to think about it when looking for a job.

Second, make good use of your university for four years. Have you ever had a decadent college life? To tell you the truth, my college life is very expensive. I just spend almost every day in the dormitory, playing plays or reading novels. At that time, I didn't think it was a big problem, because everyone was the same, taking classes or taking exams together every day, but in fact, our starting points in life were completely different. These students have their own advantages and are usually better at acting.

Third, all the difficulties are temporary. It's sad to turn it off. Turn it off, and you can finally solve the problems that can't solve you. The fourth is to accept your own ordinary. Do you have this idea that you will be great in the future? I have been looking for my dream, dreaming that I can do something great one day, but by the age of 30, I found a cruel fact, that is, I have no dream and no love. Don't feel anxious or blame yourself, because love is a scarce resource, and only a few people are very lucky. But for most of us, it may be difficult to find true love all our lives. So now I accept that I am an ordinary person, but this does not prevent us from continuing to work hard. We can still do what we can and do it well.

Fourth, don't worry about making money. It is good to make money, but in fact, for people in their twenties, this sentence is poisonous. When I was in college, I regretted doing a lot of part-time jobs, such as setting up stalls and being a tutor. A monthly income of more than 65,438+0,000 sounds good, but I have a friend who is a German major and has taught himself to be proficient in English since he was a graduate student. He took 30,000 to 40,000 yuan for the scholarship alone, and went directly to a well-known foreign company after graduation. The starting salary exceeds all the odds and ends I have earned in recent years. My friends, when you are in your twenties, the most important thing is your production tools, such as mastering a foreign language or a skill. Only when the production tools are improved can we make money in the future.

Fifth, expand and grow outward. In fact, when we were in college, our contacts and knowledge were the widest. Your classmates all come from all corners of the country, so it is different to enter the society. But go out more and communicate with real people, so that your career will not get narrower and narrower with age.

Sixth, less fantasy. There is no if in life, but every step we take now constitutes the future and determines where the wind of our life blows. I find that life is a process of being hammered slowly. At one time, we all felt very angry. We thought it didn't matter if we didn't do it today. We thought it would come true in the future. We thought all my daydreams would shine and come true in the future. But as you get older, you will find that many fantasies are illusions, and many dreams have become extravagant hopes.

If you have any idea or goal now, do it at once. Don't always fantasize that there is still plenty of time. Our future is not as long as we thought.