The nanny abducted the employer's son for 26 years, and the mother said that she would not pursue it. Is your mother broad-minded

I don't pursue it because my mother is big-hearted, but because she is a great mother, but because she knows how to observe others, take care of the overall situation and know the overall situation.

Indeed, abducting and selling other people's children is unforgivable in reason, affection and law, and it is also very unforgivable from the perspective of the child's biological parents. However, to take a step back, in any case, the nanny did not sell the child for the purpose of obtaining economic benefits, but worked hard to raise the child for 26 years. I also spent all my money to buy a wedding room for my children. As the saying goes, the grace of parenting is greater than the sky. Anyway, nannies do spend their whole lives with their children. There is no doubt about it.

Moreover, in the child's memory, there has long been no shadow of his biological parents. The nanny who has been with him for 26 years is the person he called "mom" for 26 years. "People are not grass, and practice makes people heartless." For this "mother" who has raised herself for more than 20 years, this child has a feeling of not giving up. Although blood is thicker than water, the 26-year-old upbringing can't be broken. As the child himself said, if the nanny "mother" is to be sent to prison, he would rather not recognize his biological parents.

Therefore, the mother of the child did not hold the nanny responsible for abducting her son, not because she had a big heart. But because we have to consider all aspects, after all, although our children are far away from their biological parents, they have grown up and can be reunited now.

If we pursue the responsibility of the nanny again, it will not change the fact that our son has been abducted for 26 years, and it will also hurt his feelings. It is possible to lose this son again. This time, I was able to find my son because the nanny took the initiative to surrender. And he raised another child who once mistakenly thought he was his own son.

"He who knows the times is a wise man", so the mother's choice is a comprehensive consideration after sizing up the situation. In order to better protect her children, it has nothing to do with her heart.

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