Is it shameful that people over 35 are still looking for jobs through the recruitment platform?

Shame, people who know you but are lukewarm to you think that you have lowered their level!

Shameless, your closest relatives think that as long as you are not decadent, finding a job through the recruitment platform is just a way!

Shameless, this hurdle in my heart is very sad!

Shame? To understand this perspective, it is necessary to divide the problem into two parts to analyze, whether to lose one's own person or others.

People who abandon others, lukewarm people, will not help you when you are down and out! "Aunt, I'm here to pay New Year greetings to your family. You can't walk around during the city closure. "

"Come, why do you mention so many things? Come into the house and have lunch here. By the way, I heard from your parents that you got a promotion and a raise, and the salary was quite good. "

"No, I'm afraid my parents are worried. I lost my job because of the epidemic. Now I submit my resume online ... "

"Well, by the way, I suddenly remembered that I was going out to do something in the morning, and I was going out soon ..."

When you understand, you will know who you lost when you lost your job, let alone your relatives. You know the so-called friends, colleagues or classmates. If you know that you are still looking for a job through the platform when you are middle-aged, then even if you take the initiative to invite them to dinner, it is estimated that people may not have time.

Of course, at this age, if you still look for a job like this, you can only say that you are really a failure, let alone 35 years old. Even after the age of 30, the workplace will enter a situation where you don't advance or retreat, and you may be replaced at any time. There are no headhunters and friends to help you at this time. I can only blame myself for not helping others when the scenery is infinitely beautiful. Of course, from the perspective of interest exchange, it is worthless.

No shame, only your closest relatives love you! Home is a warm harbor, and the support of your family is your motivation. Whether you are passively unemployed or actively naked resignation, people will face the reality that there are fewer and fewer job opportunities in middle age.

From the perspective of enterprises, although you are experienced, educated and capable, your salary is high, you are not self-motivated, and you can't afford to work overtime at night. China is short of people for everything, so most resumes will sink into the sea, because many enterprises don't even give you the opportunity to interview, and being abandoned by the times is a reality that you have to face. Unless you lower your figure and expectations, you may feel such a sense of loss.

However, your family will not be ashamed of you. After all, working outside, especially men, is the pillar of your family. Many reports have said that corporate executives make a living as takeaway brothers. Of course, there is no difference between work and money. After all, people earn money by their hands, but there are high and low levels. Don't be persuaded. The better you mix, the worse the people who flatter you, but you are not good at mixing, let alone people. It is estimated that your family's prosperous wealth will leave you.

If you lose yourself, can you overcome this hurdle in your heart? Asking this question, whether for friends or for yourself, shows that it is embarrassing, just because you are thick-skinned and need what some netizens call comfort. But it can be clearly said that people are not related to you, and it is against your will to tell you that you are not ashamed. I guess you feel fake and not ashamed, but you really left it at home, otherwise you can put your own pictures and materials on it, or let one try.

Many people will say, how can you find a job without submitting your resume through the platform? Is it difficult to run the talent market every day?

I have to say, bring disgrace to oneself, anyone who has been over 35 and submitted his resume online knows that many companies have a hard time with their age. When others don't know you, of course, they just glance at your resume. Many HR only look at age and education, and people don't even look at the so-called work experience.

It's not the fault of job seekers who can't find a job over the age of 35, or there are too many people and cheap labor, so employers have nothing to hide. Look at some developed countries, all of which are planning to postpone retirement. As long as you want to do it and can do it, the company still respects personal wishes, and we are in the golden age of our lives and completely unemployed. This is a shame, a shame at the social level.

At this age, if you still want to go to the workplace, you definitely need friends to push you, headhunters to pull strings, and if necessary, take the initiative to spend money to let others recommend you a job, because this will overcome the embarrassment of age to a certain extent. As for submitting a resume through the platform, it is waiting for him. It is not excluded that you will not meet Bole, but the probability is very low.