What do you think of "daughter-in-law, give your prenuptial suite to my youngest son to marry"?

In this world, what I fear most is not a mediocre life, but being drowned by greed, and human nature will eventually be swallowed up by greed. Such people will spend their whole lives calculating gains and losses, and often end up with nothing.

Unfortunately, most people don't understand this truth. They calculate gains and losses on various occasions, thinking that they have caught the fate by the throat, and the result often becomes the laughing stock of life. In daily life, such people often show their true colors in marriage events and eventually pay the price for their greed.

Marriage is a combination of love in many people's minds, so for many couples, marriage means happiness and cannot be linked with other bad things, at least before entering marriage. However, life is very realistic and always cruelly breaks people's expectations, because only happiness that has experienced the test of wind and rain will be cherished.

The biggest test in marriage is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although not living with my mother-in-law can avoid many unnecessary disputes, after all, the other party is the man's parents and is related by blood. Marriages approved by the other parents are often more likely to be happy, otherwise they will undergo more tests.

Therefore, we all advocate that we must go to each other's home to see each other's family background before marriage. Many people have a misconception that we are looking at each other's family environment. In fact, what we want to see is the character of family background. If you have a bad personality, even if the other party has Jinshan Yinshan at home, you will inevitably suffer hardships when you get married. If the other parents have a good personality, even if the family environment is average, the future marriage will be very smooth.

For those in-laws who have ulterior motives and make various abacus before marriage, it is better for women to stop loss as soon as possible, because once women get married, it is easy for them to be in a passive position in marriage, especially for women with weak personality, but it does not rule out that some women choose to bravely resist, so that women can often take control of their own marriage and will not be easily bullied.

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When Vivi Lin and Chen Qiang were together, their parents strongly opposed it, but Vivi Lin was used to being independent since childhood, and she didn't listen to her parents for many things. She was used to making decisions by herself. When a woman is in love, she often loses her mind easily. Lin Weijian believed that Chen Qiang was a reliable man, and even after Chen Qiang betrayed her, she recognized it.

On the issue of marriage, we are always used to opposing our parents. We always feel that our parents don't trust us, and we always have to prove it to our parents. In fact, as experienced people, parents always have a better eye for people than we do. Vivi Lin's parents think that Chen Qiang cares more about many small things than men. In Vivi Lin's view, this is only a small shortcoming of Chen Qiang. For a woman in love, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

My parents know Vivi Lin's character very well, so they can only go with her if they don't hit the south wall and don't look back. But their parents were still worried, so before they got married, Vivi Lin's parents bought a house for Vivi Lin, registered it under Lin Wei's name, and proved that it was pre-marital property before they agreed to get married.

Chen Qiang, of course, although uncomfortable, but as a man, what to say, the in the mind is always contemplating, trying to get Vivi Lin to add his name in the future, and Chen Qiang's parents, after hearing what Chen Qiang said, also feel profitable, and agreed to their marriage.

Vivi Lin didn't know at that time that the man he married was a complete hypocrite. When marriage becomes a calculation, it has already laid the groundwork for the future outcome of the two.

The husband's family gave a bride price of 88,000. After getting married, the couple went to live with their parents. Mother-in-law said, of course, the family should live together. In fact, Vivi Lin plans to live in his own house. Since her mother-in-law says so, she can't say anything.

Families live together and have different living habits. There must be a lot of friction. First of all, different eating habits and different schedules are enough to break out the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially the distribution of food expenses. Because a large family lives together, the mother-in-law offered to pay for the food. Brother-in-law doesn't have to give them money, because she is not married, but Chen Jiang is married. Of course, it is necessary to pay them. Vivi Lin thought it was reasonable and didn't complain.

But the following days are not so easy. My mother-in-law always leaves delicious food to her brother-in-law, never cares about Vivi Lin, and always thinks that the young couple pay too little for food. Vivi Lin is not a soft persimmon. He is naturally angry, so he can't help complaining to Chen Qiang. I didn't expect Chen Jiang to say that contradictions are inevitable when a family lives together. Just understand each other. We live at home and haven't paid the rent yet. Let's be content.

This makes Vivi Lin very uncomfortable. Obviously, she didn't want to live at home, but her mother-in-law begged them to live at home. Now, why? She decided to stop being angry with her mother-in-law and move to her own home. # Emotion #

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On this day, Vivi Lin had a little fever and went back to his room to rest as soon as he got off work. I didn't expect her to oversleep at once, and Chen Qiang didn't come home because of overtime. When Vivi Lin woke up, it was already eight o'clock in the evening and the family had finished eating. Vivi Lin had to go to the kitchen to cook something for himself. When she opened the refrigerator door, before she could find it, her mother-in-law's voice came over and said, "I'm cooking, you don't eat." Lin Weigang wanted to open her mouth to explain, but her mother-in-law said, "Make a good meal, invite you to eat, and still ignore me. My son married a daughter. "

Vivi Lin didn't feel well, so she didn't bother to care. She simply ignored her mother-in-law and went to find food herself. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law said, "Don't tamper with the things in the refrigerator. I bought it. It's useful. If you want to eat, call it takeaway! " Vivi Lin was very angry. He asked for food, so he said, "In that case, you can give me my food back. From today, Chen Qiang and I will not eat at home! " My mother-in-law didn't expect Lin Wei to say this, but she was speechless. At this time, Chen Qiang just came back. Mother-in-law began to cry first, saying that she had worked so hard to cook a good meal, but Vivi Lin refused. Chen Qiang was very angry and said that Lin Wei had gone too far. Her mother was so old and had to wait on Vivi Lin. How could she not understand this kindness at all?

Vivi Lin think Chen Qiang is very strange at this time. The man who keeps saying that he wants to give himself happiness, now this picture is very strange, which makes her feel scared. She said nothing more, but her heart was separated from Chen Jiangyou.

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Chen Qiang probably feels a little indefensible, and her attitude towards Vivi Lin is much better than before, but Lin Wei always thinks that Chen Qiang is a duplicitous person, which makes her question this marriage, and she dare not trust this man easily any more.

When she asked Chen Jiang to take out the bride price money, she realized that the bride price money had long been given to her mother-in-law by Chen Jiang. Chen Jiang's reason is that it is safer to put it in her mother-in-law's hands, so there is no need to be so clear. Vivi Lin was very angry and gave it to her mother-in-law. Secondly, Chen Qiang didn't discuss with himself at all. He treated her as an outsider. He and his mother-in-law are family. Vivi Lin felt that he had been set up.

She made up her mind to divorce, but before she could say it, her mother-in-law shamelessly made more demands. It turns out that my brother-in-law is getting married soon, and my mother-in-law has not prepared a wedding room for her brother-in-law, but the other party's request is not to get married without a wedding room. My mother-in-law made up her mind about the house in Vivi Lin before marriage, which was completely different from before. She smiled and said, "Daughter-in-law, give your suite to my youngest son before marriage." Hearing this, Vivi Lin only felt ridiculous and said, "He is not my son."

My mother-in-law hasn't stopped there, saying that when Vivi Lin is married to their family, everything belongs to them, including the house. Vivi Lin remembered that Chen Qiang had always said he wanted to add a name, so he had already figured it out himself. Vivi Lin looked at her mother-in-law and said, "You don't want to think about what you've done. You've been calculating me, bride price and food expenses. I won't say anything else, but if you treat me better, maybe I will." Mother-in-law listened, consciously indefensible, at that time was speechless.

But she didn't expect Lin Wei to be so cruel. She decided that Vivi Lin was just talking. After all, a woman can't get married when she leaves, but Vivi Lin packed her bags and left on the same day, and waited for her son at the divorce scene the next day. She also said that if Chen Qiang didn't agree to divorce, she would sue. Mother-in-law realized the power of Vivi Lin. She wants to marry a daughter-in-law for free, and also plans her house. Surprisingly, Vivi Lin didn't accept her at all.

It doesn't matter if a woman marries the wrong person. It is important to have the courage to get out of the wrong marriage. After all, life is long. Why ruin her life for the wrong person? Marrying a man who has calculated himself from the beginning is tantamount to betting his life. Such a man is not worth wasting your life.

Marriage should be that two people who love each other treat each other honestly and trust each other, so that they can live well. Marriage loses its original meaning if it is full of calculations. Such a marriage is not worth mentioning!

Therefore, when choosing the other half, you must remind yourself to love another man again, and don't forget to examine the other person's character. If you fail the test, you can't get married again, otherwise, in the end, you will only hurt yourself.