How can we change the present situation of family work?

Hello, after reading your description carefully, I personally think that what you are most confused about now is family problems. You yourself said that you were spoiled by your parents since childhood, so sit down calmly and talk to your parents about your thoughts.

Your parents don't approve of your going to work in other places and say cruel things. Why? Because they can't see the beautiful side of you. You said yourself, they treat you like a child. They are afraid that you will suffer, because they sympathize with you and you are their only one. Has your usual behavior also proved to them that you won't make a difference when you go out? Then you should start with small things from now on and let your parents feel your maturity and independence.

I can see that you are a filial and kind person, only a little less manly. Now that you realize that you feel guilty about your children today, it shows that you are mature and can stand on your own feet.

What do you think when you listen to the cruel words of your parents? Are you really afraid that you can't go out alone? If so, you can't blame your parents for restricting you too much. If you hear this, you are just afraid that your parents will be angry. Then tell your relatives who trust your parents what you think, and let them persuade them that their parents will understand and support you. Think about it. Which parent doesn't expect their children to succeed? I sincerely wish you and your family harmony and happiness!