Why are there so many single female teachers?

Many of my lovers are female teachers, more of them are single than married, and some of them are single after divorce. I talked with them about the issue of being single, and the answers they gave me were divided into three categories: First, if the three views are inconsistent, I would rather be single

The special nature of the teaching profession is that it must keep pace with the times and learn , otherwise it will be easy to fail to keep up with the ever-changing needs of the times, so the activity and change of thinking are particularly strong.

If you are a man, it is a good thing to have an active mind, but once a woman becomes active, it is very easy for a man to be unable to catch up, and she will not be able to achieve a consistent three-dimensional view with the man around her.

It is difficult to be consistent in thinking, which leads to difficulty in communication in life, marriage will be stranded, and singleness is inevitable. Second, be self-sufficient and not afraid of being single

There is no doubt that female teachers have a salary. Precisely because they have a stable salary, they do not need to marry a man in order to dress and eat. Third, being in a group means being forced to be single

It is undeniable that some female teachers want to get married, but they cannot do so for the sake of face. The reason is women's vanity.

If there are one hundred teachers in a school, there will be at least sixty female teachers. And the biggest pain when there are more women is to compare with each other. If twenty female teachers all marry into wealthy families, cars and mansions, the remaining forty female teachers will inevitably remain single. Unless they can also marry into wealthy families or even marry an emperor, they will definitely remain single.

We are both women, and I am no worse than her. Why can’t I marry a very rich man? Finally

Single female teachers would rather have a lover or share someone else’s husband than get married, for the above three reasons.

I am a front-line teacher. Don’t tell me, there are quite a few single older female teachers.

There is a teacher who was born in 1979 and is 41 this year. She was single when I came here, and she is still single after almost ten years. When she first came, there were not many young female teachers in our school. Many old teachers introduced her to her, but none of them were suitable. When I came, she was in her 30s. At that time, some people said that she should introduce someone to her. She was not willing to get married for the second time. After a few years, she was willing to get married for the second time, but it was hard to find someone to get married for the second time. Later, she said that she was not willing to find someone to get married for the second time and raise children. Later, it was also difficult to find someone to get married for the second time and raise children. . I feel that I missed the best time to find a partner in those years, and it is more difficult to find a partner. In fourth-tier cities like ours, it is generally difficult to find a partner if you are over 30 years old.

There is also an 88-year-old and an 89-year-old who have been looking for partners on blind dates. The circle of teachers is relatively small. They are all introduced by colleagues, and the women who are teachers have their own personalities. It is also relatively stable. I like to look for people who are well-established and have stable jobs. This is a limitation. However, in our local area, a man who has a well-established job, owns a house, and is a bit more mature is very popular. New people come to the company every year. , the young men are not worried about the partners, they have been digested within their own units, and the remaining ones either don't have a house, or are really ugly in appearance, so the teachers are naturally unwilling.

Female teachers, firstly, have relatively high academic qualifications. Like our unit, there are many young teachers who are graduate students. Women with high academic qualifications pay more attention to their spiritual needs when looking for a partner. Not willing to make do with it. Second, the income is stable, and the requirements for finding a partner are slightly higher, as I said before, but such men are very popular in our local area. They choose from women with stable jobs, and naturally they tend to be more beautiful. Therefore, it is generally easier to find a partner with pretty female teachers.

This is my personal opinion, I don’t know if it is a common phenomenon.

There are many factors that cause female teachers to be single, but the biggest factors are environmental and geographical location, fierce social competition and their own requirements. I summarize the following points:

① The geographical location reduces the opportunities for some female teachers and kindergarten teachers to come into contact with gay men, and marriage matters are delayed.

Everyone knows that education work is a job that requires patience, meticulousness, and seriousness, and there is no room for sloppiness. Therefore, most teachers, especially those in kindergartens and elementary schools, are lesbians, and there are very few male colleagues. In addition, young people in rural areas have gone to cities to work.

Female teachers and kindergarten teachers in remote rural areas and deep mountainous areas have more difficult and heavier workloads than those in prosperous areas with good conditions. There are few nurseries there. Teachers are responsible for lunch and lunch breaks for students. At the same time, we also need to tutor students in their studies. Every time classes are over, a certain teacher is responsible for taking care of the students. They will not be able to return to school until a parent picks up their children. There are even some female teachers who send their classmates home. This will take more time. At the same time, it reduces the chance of finding the opposite sex.

② Society is fiercely competitive, in order to protect jobs and jobs. Female teachers also face various assessments and upgrade exams. This also prompts teachers to spend more time studying relevant materials. At the same time, female teachers have to spend more time tutoring their classmates, improving students' grades, and pursuing better admission rates.

As we all know, children in kindergartens and primary schools are still a few years old and still growing. They can be said to be a group of "ignorant children". To take care of and educate children well, you have to have the patience to work hard enough and spend more time teaching. As a result, individual teachers fall in love and have less time and opportunities to interact with gay men.

③The female teacher is single due to her own reasons. Some female teachers put forward stringent requirements for male marriage. For example, the male is required to be of moderate age (similar to the age of the female), fair and wealthy, about 1.7 (8) meters tall, handsome, with a straight body, a high degree of education, a diploma, a car and a house, etc. It makes some men out of reach and stay away from their children.

In addition, some female teachers are driven by financial interests. Use the holidays to participate in teaching activities in various tutoring classes and work as a tutor in order to increase your income. Procrastinating like this will delay the time to talk about marriage.

Of course, in addition to the above reasons, there are also unpredictable factors that cause many female teachers to be single. For example, divorce, widowhood, and illness are also among them.

The phenomenon of many single female teachers mainly occurs among primary and secondary school teachers in economically underdeveloped counties and towns. The root causes are as follows:

First, the teaching profession is stable and the employment opportunities are relatively large. Most of the girls apply for normal colleges. After graduation, most of them return to teach in primary and secondary schools in counties and towns. . Take Xuzhou City as an example. In recent years, the counties (cities) under its jurisdiction have recruited hundreds of teachers every year, and more than 70% of them are women.

The second is counties (cities) and towns, which have few employment opportunities and low salaries, making them naturally unattractive to college graduates returning home. At present, administrative institutions in all counties and towns are basically full, and only a few civil servants and public institutions are recruited and admitted each year. There are also very few college graduates employed in small private enterprises. Even if dozens of non-teaching positions are recruited every year, women account for a large proportion.

The third category is non-normal university graduates who prefer to work or make a career in large and medium-sized cities. Unless it is difficult to find employment in large and medium-sized cities and boys from relatively good families have no choice but to return to the county to engage in some unestablished jobs. Personnel agency work. It is more difficult for boys who come from peasant families to find employment in their hometowns because they have no interpersonal relationships in the county.

Fourth, young female teachers are a special group with cultural knowledge. When looking for a partner, they will definitely require that the partner be a college graduate with a relatively stable job. Suitable young men are indeed scarce, resulting in a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women. Often, in every unit where there is an unmarried young man, there are dozens of girls whose parents ask people to introduce them to them.

In fact, it is not easy for young women in government agencies and institutions at the county and town levels to find a partner. There are many older, unmarried women. It's just that female teachers are the largest professional group in counties and towns, and the large number of single women makes them more prominent.

Nowadays, there are more and more single female teachers in small counties, and there are a large number of leftover women. The reasons are as follows:

1. Personal factors, some female teachers are withdrawn and unsociable. , his behavior is not easy for people to accept, and he has certain character flaws

2 There are too few outstanding boys in small counties now, and the ratio of men to women is seriously imbalanced. Girls look down on those who are worse than themselves in all aspects. Boy, so I have been single

3 Girls must get married or settle down before the age of 28, otherwise the older they get, the harder it will be to find a partner

4 Most Girls have unrealistic ideas and have too high requirements for men's external conditions, such as height... If they can't find their goals, they would rather stay alone. As a result, they are getting older...

5 All in all, it is caused by a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women and is caused by historical reasons

There are many single female teachers. This is mainly related to the teaching profession and her own values. The overall situation is reflected in the following points: First, the ratio of male and female teachers in the school is unbalanced, and the circle is relatively narrow.

Relatively speaking, girls are more likely to choose teaching as a career, while boys are more willing to choose challenging jobs.

If female teachers have not found a partner before entering the teaching profession, then after arriving at school, since there are relatively few male teachers in the school, and most of the male teachers already have partners or are married, single women will not find a partner. It is more difficult for teachers to find a partner.

In addition, teachers’ communication partners are basically limited to the school circle, and there are few opportunities to meet boys outside the circle. This makes finding a partner a luxury for single female teachers. Second, although female teachers have stable jobs, they are often too busy to take care of their families.

The profession of female teachers is more popular than many professions outside the system. The job is stable and the income is guaranteed during droughts and floods. For girls who like stability, teaching is an ideal career.

But from another perspective, although female teachers have many holidays, their working days are still relatively busy, especially middle school female teachers.

Except for weekends or holidays, female teachers basically leave early and come back late. If they get married in the future, these female teachers will often be too busy to take care of their families.

This makes some boys reluctant to choose female teachers as partners. Third, some female teachers are more persistent.

Most rural families like female teachers, but because the men do work outside the system, most of them are young people who go out to work.

Female teachers and these young people are not equal in terms of academic qualifications, and secondly, their professional circles are different. Even if they are grouped together, they have to live in different places. Female teachers generally do not consider this group of boys.

For some outstanding boys, such as those who are bosses or those who are starting a business, because it is difficult for them to get in touch with female teachers, they are basically socially isolated. The female teacher could not find the ideal partner in her heart and was unwilling to lower her requirements, so she could only spend her time slowly.

If single female teachers want to be single, on the one hand, they should use weekends and holidays to participate in more social activities to increase the chances of contact with their ideal partner; on the other hand, female teachers can also find opportunities through blind dates, friendships, etc. If you are a suitable partner, try to get out of singles as soon as possible.

I think there are more single female teachers for the following reasons:

1. Occupational reasons

The profession of teacher is not as good as the previous ones, but not as good as the low ones. If you are a teacher in a public institution, you will have a fixed monthly salary and holidays. If your family conditions are better, such female teachers will have a higher vision and will inevitably be picky. At the worker level, they are basically not If you know how to find someone, in other industries you must look for the best of the best. If you can’t find one, you’ll have to go it alone.

2. Personality reasons

Due to professional reasons or occupational diseases, some female teachers always have a tone or attitude that makes people feel like they are talking to students or parents. Female teachers also Not all men like it. Therefore, it may happen that a female teacher falls in love with someone else, but others do not fall in love with her. If you meet a serious female teacher again, she will definitely scare others away.

3. Mentality reasons

After all, female teachers are also people who have read N books. Among them, except for some pedantic thoughts, with the development and progress of society, especially Young teachers are very "open" in their thinking, and this "open" is a compliment. They would rather do less than abuse, and would not live in the same place for the rest of their lives. As long as they live happily, why do they have to get married and have children?

4. Family reasons

Just like some people with marriage phobia, if their parents’ marriage is not harmonious, it will inevitably affect their children. Of course, teachers are among them. In this group, teachers are also cannibals. In addition, they have some education and ideas, are self-sufficient, and can live a comfortable life without relying on men.

5. Other reasons

There are other reasons that will also affect the problem of female teachers being single. For example, they are career-oriented people. Their ideal is to establish a career first and then start a family. The turmoil caused a delay in her marriage; in addition, the princess was too ill, relied too much on her parents, did not want to independently shoulder the responsibilities of the family, and matured late mentally. Although I am not a single teacher, I found that there are indeed many older single female teachers in the school.

Let’s start with a junior high school near us. There is a Chinese teacher who is 36 years old and well-known in the school. One of the reasons is that people are beautiful and tall. The second reason is that the teaching level is high and he is the backbone teacher of the school. When she was in her 20s, matchmakers came to her in droves and introducers kept coming. She looked at them horizontally and vertically, looking up, but no one was particularly satisfied. Time flies, and now she is over 30. There are traces of time on her beautiful face, and there are fewer people to introduce her to her. However, her criteria for choosing a spouse remain unchanged. She will not marry anyone who is not a single civil servant or a man with a successful career! But as a girl aged over 35, her choices became smaller and smaller. She couldn't do anything high or low. Seeing that she was getting older, she simply didn't worry anymore. She said to herself that she would rather be single than give in. Come to think of it, I live a pretty cool life every day.

Let’s talk about the two 30-year-old girls in our school who are also struggling with marriage issues. First of all, they all hope to find a civil servant with an undergraduate degree, because civil servants have a stable career, high income, and a certain status in society. However, many civil servants in government departments now are either young or have girlfriends as soon as they start working. They are really in demand and rarely wait for others to introduce them, so the choices are narrow. They have graduated several years ago, so you can make it for yourself. As an older woman, finding a partner becomes a headache.

Besides, the teacher circle is relatively closed, and there are not many opportunities to take the initiative to meet outstanding men. Although female teachers generally have undergraduate degrees, stable income, and good careers, they have a sense of superiority in choosing a partner. But some civil servants or some outstanding men are more popular. They like to choose girls with quality and stable jobs, but they prefer young and beautiful girls. Therefore, young and good-looking female teachers are more popular among men.

Secondly, as a teacher, you have a stable salary and two holidays. Female teachers are especially popular, so they generally have high spirits and high vision. When it comes to finding a partner, you will never settle for anything less than non-public servants, men from public institutions or those with successful careers.

Therefore, some men with potential are ignored. If you put yourself in a trap, you will also miss some good boys. When you get older, it will be too late to regret, and you will be delayed.

In addition, teachers all have occupational diseases. Sometimes their tone of voice or attitude is not very gentle, and some imperative language also appears in life. They treat their boyfriends as students and give orders, which boys cannot accept. Therefore, although the career and income of teachers are stable, some boys do not like to find teachers. They feel that teachers have too strong personalities and cannot be coddled. Therefore, many female teachers have become older single women due to their personalities. In modern society, people are avant-garde in thinking. As long as they live a happy and comfortable life, why not be single? Marriage must not be settled, happiness must be created by oneself. I am @青青子嫣.

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I am a primary school teacher and have been working there for four years. I am 28 years old this year and will soon be 29. I have the best say in this matter. I think the main reason why female teachers can't find a partner is that their social circle is too narrow and they don't know anyone, there are too few male teachers in their profession, and most male teachers don't want to find female teachers. Alas, my family is urging me to get married every day. I also want to get married, but what should I do if I can’t find anyone?