Looking is not enough, I can only make it up with talent.

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Cheng Xinghua

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In today’s era of looking good, whether it is employment or starting a business, good looks are being created Following waves of eyeball economy.

Look at Lu Han, his cute face attracts the hearts of countless young girls, because of his words "Hello everyone, let me introduce to you, this is my girlfriend." It broke the hearts of countless girls, and some even committed suicide or even jumped off the building.

Although Dilireba was rumored to have an affair with Lu Han, her collagen-filled melon face and slender figure also touched the hearts of boys and girls, making many people crazy about her. .

In real life, people with good looks will always be more attracted to the opposite sex. And in employment recruitment, appearance is a special ticket to a good job, especially in some special positions, such as airlines, mobile companies, even if you want to be a soldier or a nurse, body shape and appearance , if you don’t meet the standards, you will be screened out directly, and you will not have a chance to show your talent at all.

People with good looks will be praised by everyone from childhood to adulthood, "Look at how handsome this child is." Therefore, such children will always be more confident, and have the opportunity to show themselves There will be more. Ordinary-looking children, especially those in adolescence, have more or less inferiority complex. They constantly look at themselves in the mirror from all angles, trying to find their most beautiful parts.

It is understandable that appearance is really important to a person.

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People's appearance is innate, and it will not have any impact because of your noble or humble background. Therefore, appearance, like health, is the fairest thing in the world.

People say that everyone is an angel sent to the mortal world by God. However, for ordinary people like us, it may be that the angel accidentally fell and broke it when he descended to the mortal world, so it became what it is now. I understand very well the sadness you feel at this time because of your appearance.

When I was a child, I was sallow, skinny, short, and had yellow hair. I looked like a little yellow-haired girl during my teenage years. Although I was not as rebellious as today’s children, I was very concerned about my appearance. Worried about it.

I often hide in my room and look in the mirror, feeling a lot of sadness in my heart. Why is my skin so yellow? I don’t know what would happen if my skin was whiter. And why are there so many black moles on the left side of my face? They are stuck on my face like fly droppings. They are so ugly that I want to peel them off. I even pinch them with my fingernails in the hope of getting rid of them. . At that time, there were no advertisements for moles everywhere like now.

Especially because I have low self-esteem about my height. Every time I enter a new grade, when arranging seats, the teacher always asks us to stand against the wall in the corridor of the classroom and then line up in order of height. I always think I sit in the back, but every time the teacher pulls me out and puts me in the front. So every time I sat at the first table without any suspense, and was often washed by the teacher's passionate spit.

But one day, I suddenly realized that height and appearance no longer seemed so important to me.

I remember that time I took the selection exam. Due to my hard work, my written test and interview scores were all ranked first, and I got a very competitive position.

That day, my mother said to me, have you discovered that your small stature is actually your most unique advantage. When you perform well, others will say, Hey, look at that little girl. Although she is small, she is really good. Precisely because of your specialness, others will have a deeper impression of you.

That’s not true. If you are a small person, others will not have high expectations of you, but when you perform slightly better, you will always be rated higher. This may be another kind of wealth given to you by God.

Since that time, I slowly began to pay less attention to the word appearance. Instead, put more energy into improving yourself. Although I don’t have good looks, I can be more valuable.

So, I studied hard and later started a business. I want to use my actual actions to prove that although I am not good-looking, my talent can make me shine. Facts have indeed proved that every effort I make adds to my appearance.

When your talent slowly emerges, your appearance seems not to be so important.

Something may even surprise you. When you don’t care about your appearance and devote yourself to improving your talents, you will find that your appearance has improved miraculously. No one had ever said that I was good-looking before, but now that I have passed my teenage years, I am actually judged as having good temperament and good looks. Perhaps this is the added value brought by talent. While improving your talent, you also improve your appearance.

And you will be surprised to find at a class reunion that the beautiful classmates you studied with have suddenly become old-looking, deformed, and lost their former charm. Because at that time, the class beauties and school beauties spent too much time on dressing up and were so excited about being pursued by the handsome guys in the next class that they forgot that they would grow old.

They get married and have children early, and no longer study to improve themselves. They are keen on playing cards and mahjong every day, and talk about other people's affairs. When you are young, you are indeed glamorous, but when you get older, your appearance will fade. If they can have good looks without forgetting to improve their talents, I believe their lives will be more exciting.

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There are many examples of ugly ducklings counterattacking around me.

I have a friend who I can responsibly say is... uglier than me. Dark skinned, short, and most importantly, very fat. But this does not affect her brilliance at all. Because she is very good at writing articles, poems, lyrics, novels, newsletters, everything.

If you read her words, you will think that the author must be a beautiful woman, but in fact... you may be a little disappointed, but her knowledge Her talents were beyond the reach of many people, and she was far behind those who laughed at her ugly appearance and were running at the same starting line.

Of course, although she did not tell me the pain she experienced during this period, I knew it. She was secretly sad because of her appearance, and even wanted to commit suicide because of her low self-esteem.

However, reading saved her soul. She read a lot of books in the library alone. She was in the company of historical figures with rich life experiences, communicating and chatting with them. These people would not laugh at her blackness or criticize her fatness. Instead, they would encourage her and let her continue to enrich her own connotation and write gorgeous articles one after another.

Now she is doing a job she likes, with a high salary, has published her own book, and often travels around the world. Although the appearance will not change, it can be modified by talent and knowledge.

She is a self-disciplined person. She leads a very regular life every day. She gets up at five o'clock in the morning to read, write, and run. Make your own breakfast, nutritious and delicious. Through exercise, diet adjustment, and skin care, she has successfully lost weight. Although her skin is still not white, it is a healthy chestnut color. The confidence that overflows on her face will make everyone admire her beauty. praise.

She has become a person with both talent and good looks.

In fact, there is really no standard for appearance. No matter how beautiful you are, if you care too much about your appearance, you will feel that you are not beautiful enough, and you will feel that you have an acne on your face, or you will have panda eyes after staying up late, especially if you get a new one as you age. The road wrinkles and worries about gains and losses.

This type of person is very afraid of aging and always lives in this fear. But what’s the use of being afraid of old age? Time is like a butcher's knife. No one can withstand the corrosion of time. One day, you will face your old self in the mirror.

This may seem a bit cruel, but you have to accept it.

For another type of people, they are like diamonds, which will become more radiant as time goes by.

Because of the accumulation of time and knowledge, they will shine brightly for a long time.

What kind of person do you want to be?

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Some people say that before the age of 25, a person’s appearance is given by his parents, but after the age of 25, it is cultivated by himself. I deeply agree.

As you are reading the article, are you thinking about how you can add points to your appearance? Here are some suggestions for you:

1. Read more classic books.

There is poetry and calligraphy in the belly, which is classic and practical. It can be said that books are the best beauty products for women. The temperament of the author of every classic book will slowly penetrate into your soul when you read it. Read more books and read good books, and you will become more and more elegant and become a woman with a fragrant soul.

2. Financial independence.

Life is not a play, it is real life. From the moment you walk out of college, you have to start planning for your own life. Without one or two skills, how can you gain a foothold in society? Financial constraints will make you have an endless quarrel with the vendors over a few cents when buying groceries. I believe this is not what you want.

So make money well. A gentleman loves money and gets it wisely. Creating your own sky based on your own abilities will give you more confidence. You will be a busy and beautiful person.

3. Improve a skill.

The current employment situation is very severe, and there are not many jobs that match the majors studied. Therefore, you must have very strong learning ability. You can combine your own strengths, discover a skill that is suitable for your improvement, and continue to work hard for it. When you become a leading figure and expert talent in this field, then you will gain a steady stream of wealth. You will also become an expert in a certain field. When you stand on the podium and give a speech, no matter how ordinary you look, you are a luminous person.

4. Cultivate several interests.

Besides work, you also need to do something that you really like. These things may not bring you material wealth, but they can bring you spiritual comfort. You must do something without any purpose, just because you like it. For example, practice calligraphy, raise pets, write poetry, travel...anything you like can be done.

5. Learn to groom appropriately.

No matter how beautiful the branches and leaves are, they still need to be pruned. There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. Have you ever noticed that there is a big difference between how you look when you are unkempt and wearing pajamas, and how you look when you are carefully groomed?

If your skin is not good enough, then pay attention to a light diet, apply a facial mask frequently, stay hydrated, and apply some isolation and repair cream when going out. This will make you look several years younger. If your figure is not good enough, then go for exercise. It is said that fat people have the greatest potential. Indeed, when you lose twenty pounds, you will blind others.

Clothing and hairstyle are also very important. This will not waste too much time on you. Learning to match clothes is also very important. When you are dressed beautifully, put on makeup beautifully, and coupled with your talent, it is too difficult for you to think about whether you are beautiful or not.

If you still feel that your appearance is not enough, it means that your talent is not enough, then continue to practice until you have luminous attributes.