Is beauty a blessing or a curse?

My point of view is that beauty is a blessing, not a curse. I will explain my point of view from three aspects:

No. 1: What is beauty? Beauty refers to things, it is the colorful colors of the world, it is the plants and trees around us, it is the flying stream that seems to be like the Milky Way falling from the sky, it is the snow scene wrapped in red makeup and extraordinarily enchanting. The selflessness of nature It is the blessing of human beings to present its beauty perfectly. Beauty to people is the beauty of the orchid heart, the beauty of the outside and the wisdom of the heart. Beauty is divided into external and introverted. And the beauty that is often revealed from the heart makes the beauty and ugliness of the appearance disappear. No matter how important it is. After all, people are not cute because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are cute. People with beautiful hearts do not bring disaster, but the possibility of avoiding disaster and the hope of staying away from disaster.?

Second: What are blessings and disasters? Blessings, happiness and blessings; disasters, disasters. "Blessings are the basis of disasters, and disasters are the result of blessings." Blessings and disasters cannot be completely separated. When we judge whether something brings blessing or disaster, we are actually judging whether blessing or disaster is greater or smaller, light or serious. For Lu Bu and Dong Zhuo, Diao Chan, who played a driving role in driving a wedge between each other, was a disaster, but for the people of Li, she helped overthrow Dong Zhuo's regime and established the Han Dynasty that complied with the people's wishes, bringing benefits to people all over the world. It is clear at a glance which blessing or disaster is greater or lesser. Therefore, we cannot see a little misfortune and think that beauty is a misfortune rather than a blessing.

Third: If beauty is a curse rather than a blessing, why does everyone have the love for beauty? Why should we pursue the highest realm of truth, goodness and beauty? Wouldn't this be a recipe for trouble?

Therefore, we cannot have a sour grape mentality and think that beauty is a curse rather than a blessing. We must use a beautiful mind to discover the beauty of the world

We cannot be blind to the beauty of the world. Can you tell me what you mean?

Don’t you see that beautiful people will be more popular with others? People who are not beautiful may have more opportunities than others? fL

Although this is unfair, it is indeed a fact

It would be biased to bring out a few negative teaching materials

Beautiful people bring visual enjoyment to others, and also give themselves a happy mood and more self-confidence. What’s wrong with being beautiful? Of course beauty is a blessing, but some people don’t make good use of their own beauty. Beauty will sometimes give people the impression that beauty is a disaster. Finally, I have to say: "It's not the fault of beauty, it's the fault of the moon." Zhaojun went out of the country, and Concubine Ming exchanged her beauty for the freedom of the border. peaceful. Their beauty is great, the pride of beauty, the glory of beauty?

Beauty is of course a blessing, it is an artistic mask given by God to people

Beauty is a kind of shape, color, and line. A magnificent work of art that is integrated into one body

Beauty itself does not matter good or evil. Children’s faces are beautiful. Zhang Baizhi’s face is beautiful. Mona Lisa’s face is beautiful. We can see evil in their faces. Do you see disaster? You can't. All we see is beauty. It's a beauty that you can't get tired of for a long time. It's a beauty that you want to have forever.

If there is something wrong, it is that beauty is beautiful woman. Women with beauty but no beautiful heart

If those who have beautiful faces just have good skin but vicious, frivolous, protein thoughts, then we will despise her and she will eventually Because of her beauty, she became a disaster for beauty, just like Zhao MM who was famous for betraying her country and wearing the Japanese flag

Everyone loves beauty, how can we not like beauty? Who said he (she) doesn't like beauty? There must be something wrong with this person or he is pretending to be aloof. I look down on people like this the most

Remember that beauty is not the same as beauty

There is nothing wrong with beauty. There is nothing wrong with beauty, and beautiful women also have many faults. Their appearance is as beautiful as their soul. They are what we need. Besides, most of the beauties in trouble are inseparable from men. Why don't they find the reason for it?

I think beauty is a blessing. I want to ask who in the world Don't like beauty. I'm afraid there is no one left. Beauty is a blessing given to you by God. First of all, beauty will leave a good impression on people. It can make it easier for people to interact, especially in love. This is an innate advantage. Who among you would not want to associate with a beautiful person?

The opponent’s opponent said that beauty can bring disaster to people, but is this her fault? This is determined by certain villains or specific historical circumstances.

There is nothing wrong with beauty itself, it only brings us beauty and warmth. Farewell My Concubine, Yu Ji gave history a stunning glimpse with her beauty. Zhaojun left the border, and Concubine Ming exchanged her beauty for the peace of the border. Their beauty is great, beautiful and proud, and beautiful and glorious.

There is nothing wrong with beauty itself, only the scum of history and the little people in the world are wrong. Beauty is sublime and sacred

Who dares to say that he doesn’t love beauty? Beauty is an absolute hypocrite. But love is love, and it can't turn a bat into a golden phoenix. This world is wonderful because of its beauty! This has been the case from ancient times to the present. In ancient times, royal palaces, nobles and beauties gathered together, and they enjoyed all the glory and wealth. Xi Shi, Wang Zhaojun, Diao Chan, and Yang Guifei are known as the four beauties of ancient China. Isn't it because they are beautiful that they can be famous for centuries? Of course there is their inner, unique side.

Although history is too far away and a bit strange, we have not forgotten it. In modern society, much of the time and many places are filled with topics about beauties. They are never tired of it, never tired of it, and even pursue the highest pursuit in life. From near to far, from the inside to the outside, we will feel the shock that beautiful women bring to the world, and the temptation and motivation that beauty brings to men.

In the circle we live in, there are too many industries that can never do without beauties. Some people exaggerate and say that beauties are the saviors of some industries. I think it is not an exaggeration. Models, flight attendants, public relations, entertainment and even sports arenas, etc., it is truly a world of beauties. With beautiful women, there will be popularity and prosperity, but on the contrary, it is destined to be "few horses and horses in front of the door". If you look at any of the heavyweight TV stations, from CCTV to Phoenix, from the East to the South, which one is missing a few superstar-level beauties? They are definitely the TV station's signatures and treasures. In daily life, beauties also show their abilities. For example, beauties get twice the result with half the effort, beauties receive special treatment when applying for jobs, and beauties attract everyone's attention when they go shopping... In the final analysis, people like beauties, appreciate beauties, and recognize beauties.

Almost every year, the Global Beauty Contest and the Asia-Pacific Beauty Contest, which are popular all over the world, are eye-opening. I have never seen such a grand competition held just for men. Even if there is, it pales in comparison to the beauty competition. Frankly speaking, when I was watching these games, I was muttering in my mind that they were unbalanced, but I still insisted on watching them. Why? What I see is the beauty that oozes from the bones of beautiful women! Beauty is a blessing. Not long ago, the winner of a beauty competition got a permanent green card from the "Immigration Capital". I really admire her. What's even more exciting is that Chongqing has simply launched its business card as a city of beautiful women, which is unprecedented and amazing. It seems that this beauty has formed a culture, and it is getting more and more intense. The beauty culture must be carried to the end. Oh, beauty is blessing!

I am a man, and I also love beauty, especially beautiful women. This kind of love is respect from a personal perspective, appreciation from an artistic perspective, and publicity from a market perspective. Those who have the most beautiful, fragrant and pleasant external beauty should care for it and cherish it. On the contrary, there is no need to deliberately change it. Respecting reality, respecting nature and respecting yourself is a supreme beauty. We do not reject the happiness that beauty deserves, and we do not advocate degrading ourselves for the sake of beauty. We also despise those villains who do anything to "beautiful women".

Men most appreciate the beauty that oozes from the bones of women. There is self-cultivation, temperament, speech and behavior, dignity and generosity, kindness at heart... Where does beauty come from? Beauty comes from the heart, blessings and misfortunes come from oneself

I think "beauty is a curse" in terms of the other person's "beauty is a blessing", it is relative, not absolute, it is beautiful. The conclusion drawn from the comparison of positive and negative effects is that the negative effects of beauty are greater than the positive effects. Looking at ancient times and modern times, how many beauties have lost their freedom and happiness because of their beauty. None of the four beauties in history, Xi Shi, Diao Chan, Wang Zhaojun, and Yang Guifei, can escape the disaster caused by beauty. They became men because of their beauty. Playthings in life, they themselves have just become victims of history. Not only that, but they have also been accused of "beautiful women causing trouble". How sad is this! On the surface, Wang Zhaojun seems to have brought her happiness because of her beauty, but little does she know how helpless this beautiful woman is. As a little palace maid, how can she not accept this mission? Does she have the right to choose? As a woman, who knows the bitterness and helplessness of having to leave her hometown and hand over her beautiful years to an old man, and she also has to endure an unreasonable system, which is to marry the old man's son after his death. .

Although from a historical perspective, it is not bad for a woman like her to have such an ending. But for a woman, these are far from enough. Living in the harsh environment of the Huns, she also had to endure the pain of homesickness, so she died young, leaving only a pile of green graves in a foreign land. That's why there is a saying, "Since ancient times, beauties have had a bad life."

In the workplace competition, having a beautiful appearance is indeed an advantage. Beautiful colleagues look pleasing to the eye and can improve work efficiency. The same is true for recruitment. Under the same conditions, people with higher scores in appearance will usually be hired first. But in daily work, companies pay more attention to employees' professional abilities, work attitude and team spirit. If an employee is self-righteous because of her beauty, is favored by others without respecting them, and does not bother to build good relationships with colleagues and work together in unity, then the outcome of such a "beautiful woman" will naturally be bad. Ms. Roy is beautiful, frank, confident, sensitive and qualified for her position, but she is still insufficient in adapting to the company's organizational atmosphere, interpersonal relationships and team spirit. With beauty, you should also have love. You should not only get used to others loving and pampering you, but also get used to loving others and actively cooperating with everyone, even with people you can't stand. In a team where everyone doesn't know themselves well, you can only exchange your love and respect for yourself by actively giving your love to others and using your good attitude to win their favor. It is recommended that she adjust her mentality in time, get along with her colleagues in good faith with an equal and peaceful attitude, take the initiative to create a harmonious working atmosphere, and avoid unreasonable suspicion. One of the taboos in the workplace is confusion between public and private matters. The beautiful Amy is very naive when it comes to love. She did not grasp her own standards of conduct in her first company and had an ambiguous relationship with her immediate boss. She relied on this relationship to despise others and act arbitrarily, so she was not tolerated by others. Leaving becomes inevitable. Instead of learning from this incident, Amy blamed the secretarial profession itself and fell into a vicious cycle of changing jobs again and again. It is recommended that Amy try to be as professional as possible in her dress and communication with others at work, and to properly maintain the distance from her male boss, especially in European and American companies, so that her boss can recognize your work performance, not just your beauty. .

In fact, there are countless beautiful and capable professional women. Aren’t British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher and Hewlett-Packard’s female president Carly Fiorina all typical examples? Beauty is an advantage, but it is by no means the most important success factor. I hope that beautiful white-collar women will downplay their concern for beauty and face work with a better professional spirit.