What makes young people lose hope and become less and less willing to struggle?

"Routine" makes young people lose their confidence in their struggle. After graduating from college, my son saw an advertisement for a computer sales company at a lower level, and he applied for a job. His monthly salary was more than 1, yuan, and he sold 3 laptops at the end of each month. In the first month, he sold 34 laptops. In addition to his full salary, he was rewarded by 12 yuan. In the second month, he was required to complete 45 computers. He sold 55 computers and the third one. As the contract was provided by the company, it did not say that the monthly sales volume was not allowed to be changed during the validity of the contract. Therefore, he sold 18 notebooks for the company in three months, creating more than 7, sales for the company, and he only got less than 6, yuan. After completing the three-month probation period, he resigned.

it's not that you don't want to struggle, but that you have worked hard. The social infrastructure has been perfected, and young people don't have so many opportunities to work hard on their own. Unlike those who used to do business in the sea, those who engaged in real estate and those who dug coal mines, all of them were rich. Nowadays, young people don't have so many opportunities to do whatever they want. The only place where young people can get rich quickly is the Internet, but now the Internet is all in the Red Sea, and everyone is competing.

The biggest reason why there is no hope is the increasing cost of living. High housing prices and rising prices make everyone feel tired of living. After working hard for a long time, I didn't see any change in my life. On the contrary, I made myself more difficult because I paid my mortgage. True happiness should be reached on tiptoe, but now it is found that even if you jump, you can't reach happiness, so many people will start to give up on themselves. Started eating and dying.

It can be said that today's young people work harder than before, working overtime, delivering takeout in their spare time and doing part-time jobs. The effort is much greater than before, but it is because the cost of living is too high now, and there are too many things that need to be spent, such as houses, cars, children's education, etc., which makes everyone basically unable to make ends meet.

The "three mountains" stand tall in front of us, making young people sigh at the "mountains", feeling that it is better to have a good father to learn math, science and chemistry well, and it is better to stand on the stage for a while by relying on your face to earn money all your life. Where do you feel the way? I can't see the direction and goal of life, and I have lost the motivation and belief of struggle.

Finally, I quote a great man's words to encourage young people, "The world belongs to you as well as to us, and in the final analysis, it belongs to you. You young people are full of vigor and hope.

What makes young people feel hopeless, have a dim future and lack motivation to struggle? I think that all this lies in the "heart", the heart is blocked, the heart drive is blocked, the fire of hope is ignited, and the enthusiasm for struggle is renewed. It is necessary to have the same desire and activate the word "heart". 1. getting tired

young people are tired of great pressure, which comes from all aspects. In employment, it is hard to find a job after graduating from college and it is even harder to be satisfied; In home ownership, house prices remain high, rents are getting more and more expensive, and it is not uncommon to struggle for half a life to become a house slave; In life, raising a baby for the elderly and going to school for medical treatment are equally stressful. Every young man who carries a heavy burden is eager to reform policies to release dividends, benefit people's livelihood and relieve pressure. 2. getting rid of anxiety

Young people are troubled by anxiety, with high expectations and great attention from parents, relatives and friends, ranging from career planning, employment direction and work area to macro guidance from family and friends, to talking about marriage, object selection, pregnancy and having children, which can not escape the careful care of parents and relatives, urging marriage, urging marriage and giving birth has repeatedly become social hotspots, and young people are annoyed and anxious about this. This requires families to change their concepts, learn to let go, and give young people more space for self-choice. 3. Apart from impatience

Young people are impetuous in their thoughts. At present, the social environment is diverse in value and culture. Many young people are keen on following the trend and pursuing new trends. Some of them are obsessed with pleasure and freedom, and indulge in colorful fantasies and temptations, resulting in mental confusion and loss of soul. This requires the young people who are released to calm down, find the truth, and remain unmoved and determined in the face of impetuous temptation. 4. Relieve one's heart

Young people are depressed in their hearts, which is the most profound experience of the "Bai Gujing" in the workplace. Every young man with dreams is eager to fully display his personal value when he works hard in the workplace. He hopes that the unit will be full of humanistic care and work in a place with a sense of belonging. Only where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. When you work hard to pay a rare recognition return, you have a clear conscience but you will be countered by others. There will be unspeakable things in your heart. This requires not only personal emotional adjustment and psychological adjustment, but also units to improve the environment, optimize the ecology, and help young people to stimulate their dreams and shine in life.

Mainly the following points,

1. The house price is high. A down payment for a suite will take out all six wallets of three generations. It is easy to despair that three generations buy a suite. At the same time, high housing prices are also transmitted to the prices of all products, because the prices of everything, whether you are food, cars or medical treatment, are all related to labor, and the cost of labor is also rising with housing prices, so you will feel that everything is expensive. Therefore, high housing prices, high prices, money can not help but spend, which is very boring.

2, providing for the aged. Because the demographic structure has changed, a young man may have to support two or even four old people, and it is not known how much pension he will receive when he retires, so he will feel great pressure.

3. In recent years, the economy has bid farewell to high-speed development, so employment and income have become relatively big challenges. So now we are also trying to adjust the structure, and strive to give up some labor-intensive industries driven by extensive investment and turn to high-tech and high-value-added industries. However, this transformation is bound to be very difficult and may sacrifice the interests of employees in some industries. This process is painful.

4. Pay attention to the problem of income balance. We never say that we don't suffer from widowhood but from inequality. If the Gini coefficient is too high, it will easily make many people at the bottom dissatisfied.

Therefore, increasing residents' income, increasing the proportion of the middle class, reducing the poverty-stricken population, increasing investment in education and improving the population structure are all our current priorities. I believe that with the civilization inheritance and wisdom of the Chinese nation, we will solve all problems, advance lightly and realize great rejuvenation.

In the past, raising poultry and livestock for one or two years could accumulate capital, but now it's no good, for environmental protection! In the past, casually setting up stalls on the street could accumulate capital, but now it's no good, and we have to create health every day! Nowadays, people in their fifties can't see any hope, not to mention young people, who don't want to live a good life on their own. However, the premise of struggle is to have capital. Where does the capital come from? You can't steal or rob it. You don't want to struggle, and you can muddle along!

I used to flinch in the face of high housing prices. Later, after graduating from college and working in Dalian for one year, I went from Dalian to Lijiang at the age of 23 and stayed for nine years. During this period, I learned to do design and decoration, and then I made my own inn. After that, I can finally afford a house through hard work; Personally, I feel that I can never afford to buy a house if I live on empty land, and I can't afford to buy a house if I aim too high. Only by working hard on the right road can we achieve our goals. Young people should not be afraid of hardship, and they can never afford to buy a house or a car because they are greedy for comfort and pleasure.

There are too many people, too many college students, and now there are even waiters asking for 985/211.

The proportion of college students accounts for about 1% (14 million) of the population, which is the total population. Oh, you have to exclude the retired old people and the people who are studying. The number of people born in 2-218 is about 3 million, which is only counted as the number of people who have finished high school until they are 18 years old. If you add college students (from 8 million who graduated in 218, it will be 24 million in three years, plus Reading Class 4). ), plus there are about 19 million retirees (7-year-olds), because some have died but some are over 7 years old, so it is 15 million. There are 4 million, right? Then 14 (1 million people) -4-.3-1.5=8.2, then the actual competition should be 1: 5.8.

There is one college student for every six people, which is not the key. In recent ten years, the economy has been good, and the proportion of college students is large. In 28, it has reached 5 million college graduates, and in 218, it has grown to 8 million. That is to say, half of the 14 million people are under 35. Young people under 35 have to compete with 7 million college students! And 35 years ago, in 1984-1994, about 25 million people were born, with a ratio of 1: 3.6, playing ball.

Now some real estate sales require a college degree. In the past, sales were only based on performance. In the future, more and more jobs will require a college degree.

what if there is none? Do you think there is any hope that they will do the work that no one wants to do? Even if you have a college degree, the competition is huge. The question is where are there so many professional positions for college students? Many people are doing jobs with different majors. After studying for 2 years, the result is useless. What's the use of hard work? I doubt my life.

Too many people lead to low wages. You can do whatever you like. If you don't do it, I can recruit people tomorrow and exploit them mercilessly. Then you find that no matter which company you change, you don't want to work. After a year, I can't save money, and I'm still tired as a dog. I can't save money when I go home and eat old, but it's comfortable.

I believe that the unemployment rate is definitely high now, because if you play online games on weekdays, you will find many people no matter which game.

Update:

In case someone says I made it up.

The total population of China, the number of births and graduates every year can be found online. If anything is unreliable, only the online data is wrong. I am only responsible for collecting data, counting and analyzing the corresponding proportion.

an important factor is the real estate! Struggle for a lifetime is not as good as the value-added part of a house. What if you try harder? It's easy for people to tear down the second generation, and your family can't struggle.

the struggle of the poor is nothing more than hard work and sweat, but you should do a little business. You earn a little money every day, and most of it is given to the landlord.

If there is something wrong with the social distribution mechanism, the serious consequence will be that more and more young people have seen through it, are desperate and are too lazy to struggle.

But what can I do if I don't struggle? It's even worse not to struggle. Maybe you can't even settle down.

Ordinary people come into this world with nothing but themselves. What do you eat and wear without struggle?

is it okay to be single? If you become a family and have children, you will be shackled with responsibility. If you don't struggle in your life, can't you let your family sleep on the road?

There is nothing you can do. If you look at it clearly and want to understand it, you will understand the most important truth-go to work well and work hard for yourself and your family. But don't be naive, have illusions, gamble on the health and peace of yourself and your family, and engage in so-called struggle.

that's a struggle, not a struggle. Really, many things have already solidified, and for most people, there may still be some opportunities twenty or thirty years earlier. If you miss it, you can only wait for the next opportunity.

the chances are slim, just like winning the lottery. Then live well first and spend more time with your family. Don't overdraw your health and safety before the next opportunity comes. In this situation, being able to stand on your own feet is the best struggle.

It is a misunderstanding that young people are not free and easy. Young people don't want to struggle for the following reasons. Social change is too fast, and there is no stable economic state, that is, there is an extreme lack of security and no stable long-term expectation.

The gap between the rich and the poor in society is large, which aggravates the imbalance among young people. There is no fair social environment and there is a big expectation gap. Wage income is low, and you can't afford to buy a RV. Small cities can't hold souls, and big cities can't hold bodies.

work life is a mess. The boundary between work and life is unclear. Overtime is a serious problem, and people inside the company are complicated and intrigued. Work has seriously squeezed personal life, telephone calls and nails have been harassed, and vacations have become jobs that are no longer in the office. If you have a family, the relationship with your family, the relationship between parents and children, plus the work relationship, often leads to interpersonal tension.

I don't know what I want, I don't have a life plan (life plan is useless, and plan is for breaking), I don't have a sense of gain and happiness in any job, I am extremely bored with repetitive work, I don't know what I can do when I quit my job, and I feel that I have achieved nothing.

Young people have already seen through all this, but nothing can change it. . .