Taking my son to 1 yuan to eat Haidilao was ridiculed by the group: Don't treat greed and cheapness as diligence.

Wen | Mummy with Green Leaves

Yu Hongmin once said, "A family that cares about everything and loves to take advantage of others cannot leave a child with a broad mind. It is difficult for us to find a child with elegance and atmosphere in a vulgar family."

Education is more expensive than smoking, and ethos depends on immersion. Parents are their children's first teachers. If you want to educate your children well, you can't pile them up with small profits saved.

I took my son to 1 yuan to eat Haidilao, but I was ridiculed by the crowd: Don't treat petty gain as frugality!

A while ago, there was a treasure mom who was very "careful", and she exposed the strategy that she could eat enough Haidilao with 1 yuan money on the Internet, which immediately attracted a lot of controversy.

The mother brought her own staple food, spent 1 yuan money to order some side dishes in Haidilao, and then took the children to enjoy all kinds of free side dishes in Haidilao, such as beef, cucumber, tomato, etc., and ordered a free baby noodle.

After this meal, not only did it cost very little, but it was also very satisfying. This precious mother proudly showed off her "record" on the Internet and shared detailed strategies.

They started mocking her one after another: "You are so ugly when you haggle over every ounce! Don't treat greed and petty gain as diligence and housekeeping! "

Many netizens think that this is taking children to "be greedy and cheap" under the banner of thrift, and planting opportunistic seeds in children's hearts. In fact, it is just a trick, which is not worth promoting!

In the early days, many people thought that "stingy" was the exclusive name of the poor.

But when people heard the story that a millionaire was arrested for stealing a small spoon from a restaurant, they realized that whether a person is small and cheap enough or not is not directly related to his family economy.

what kind of influence will parents have on their children if they are greedy for petty gain for a long time?

Parents' long-term love for petty gain will make their children follow suit, thus being far away and isolated by people around them.

Everyone will pay attention to "communication" when getting along with each other. You are good to me today and I will be good to you tomorrow.

Parents' words and deeds are the templates for children to learn. Children have long been subjected to the idea that only I can take advantage of others and others can't let me suffer.

People around him will know that he is a selfish person. No one wants to get along with such a selfish person for a long time, let alone be cheated all the time.

Over time, there will be fewer and fewer friends around him, so his road will become narrower and narrower, and the opportunities he will get will become less and less.

then the road of his life will not go smoothly after all.

The haggle over trifles that children and parents learn will make their children doubly repaid in other places in the future.

Most of the fraud news we often see takes advantage of many people's greed for petty gain.

Just like the most common winning information, the information is full of congratulations, and you are asked to enter all your bank card account passwords before you can get it. As soon as you enter the relevant information, the money disappears immediately.

There is a fable that tells the story that a small fish and its mother are looking for food.

Xiaoyu's mother told her not to touch the food that looks too delicious and seems to be easily available.

because things that look beautiful without paying any price, traps are often hidden in them.

If the small fish doesn't have the mother's instruction, or can't resist the temptation of delicious food, when it just tastes the sweetness, it will be pierced by the hook hidden in the delicious food, thus losing its life.

If a child likes petty gain, he will probably eat food with a hook like a little fish in a fable in the future, thinking that he has benefited from it, but unexpectedly he will pay a hundred times more for petty gain.

Message

What kind of person parents want their children to be, they must first do something corresponding. The process of educating their children is also a practice of parenting. I hope parents can become what they seem, and can educate their children who are frank and elegant.

Today's interactive topic: Do you agree with this "thrifty housekeeping" education method? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!

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