Smart women can live well even if they live a chicken feather!

Teacher Jin Xing said, "Women don't have to give in to age. A clever woman should not ask, complain or chase. Charm and happiness are always in your own hands. "

In our life, around us, how many women give up taking care of themselves after the age of 30?

How many women complain and are suspicious, and as a result, life becomes more and more boring.

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When I was young in my twenties, my life could have been full of surprises. Some members of the opposite sex invited me to dinner or a movie or received a bunch of flowers on Valentine's Day, which became the envy of others.

However, some people are lazy and self-disciplined. They should be slim and elegant, but the meat on their waist is like a swimming ring.

It was supposed to be a small face, but it was dry and had no luster at all.

My former colleague MengMeng is such a girl. Her biggest hobby is eating. Her favorite topic every day is what to eat at noon and what to eat at night.

Abruptly ate himself into a big fat man.

I don't know anything about skin care either. I am not as good as my 40-year-old sister at work in my twenties.

Seeing that all the girls around her are being pursued by boys, she will be unhappy and complain that they have no vision.

MengMeng asked us, "Why are there no boys chasing me?" ? Am I not good? "

In fact, MengMeng's popularity is not bad at ordinary times, and he is cheerful and generous, which is very likable.

We advised her to lose weight, eat less fried food and pay attention to skin care at ordinary times.

Every time she said that she was too lazy to move, she never went to a fitness card and hoarded a lot of unused masks.

There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women.

In this sentence, Mr. Jin Xing asked his daughter to carry it from childhood to adulthood.

The world is actually very fair, as long as you pay, there will be more or less return.

It's no use just complaining and blaming.

Control your own happiness, and happiness will come to you only when it gets better and better.

Everyone has a love of beauty.

Everyone likes to see beautiful things.

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Teacher Venus said that I was never afraid of being old and would not let myself fall too low. Someone joked: Sister Jin looks at twenty from a distance, thirty from a distance, and she doesn't know forty until she asks.

Teacher Jin Xing and her husband have been married for almost ten years. When her husband sees her wearing stockings, he will say, "I still have thoughts and desires for you."

My other colleague, Sister Wang, is a person with a full life.

She is forty-one, her skin is bright and shiny, and her back is straight when she walks. We all say she looks only thirty years old.

She often said, "A person's happiness is always in his own hands. Even if life gives you more hardships, as long as you are strong, you will not be defeated. "

To tell the truth, I admire Sister Wang very much.

At that time, our unit recruited more than 300 people from three places to apply. She ranked first in the assessment, and her professional quality is extremely high. And the family conditions are also very good.

It is such a woman, with her faith in her heart and her childhood tutor, who bravely walked through many disappointments in life and came to today.

Her marriage is not happy. For so many years, the family has been working alone inside and outside.

She never complains. She said that since she chose this road, she would go on. Some responsibilities don't mean you can let go.

She brought up her daughter from an early age, and her husband and mother-in-law could hardly count on it.

When the child was more than two years old, she was cooking in the kitchen that day and her daughter was playing in the walker. She tripped over the underground computer line, hit her head and began to cry.

Her mother-in-law came over and pointed at her nose and scolded, "Will you have anything to raise?"

What a proud person she is, she endured it silently.

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For ten years, she adhered to her beliefs and principles and tried her best to serve her in-laws.

Although life is full of disappointments, she never gave up the past to pursue beautiful things.

She will insist on running in the morning, make a nutritious breakfast, and make herself a cup of red dates, honey and medlar water when she goes to work every day;

Will learn to cook, will eat favorite dishes in restaurants, and will study hard;

Will pay attention to beauty online celebrities, care for the skin carefully and patiently, and learn makeup artists;

I will also calm down and read a book for a day.

It is said that life is your own. Only by giving the greatest enthusiasm to life every day can we not be overwhelmed by the disappointment that will appear at any time in life.

She is now living in a very good state. Facing setbacks and hardships, she keeps a positive mood every day.

My daughter was admitted to the best high school in the city, and her husband slowly began to care, and her mother-in-law didn't pick bones in her eggs.

Sister Wang may have suffered a lot of injustice in this marriage, but she didn't complain or argue, and finally ushered in the dawn of life.

So don't complain about the unfair fate. Only when you face these disappointments can you bravely resist and oppose him, and you can live a more exciting life.

If you encounter setbacks and just complain, you will have more and more grievances in your heart over time. In the end, it can only be a bleak ending.

Balzac said: Suffering is the teacher of life. It is it that teaches us to be strong and brave. It is precisely because of these setbacks in life that our life is more exciting and rich.

Suffering makes people grow. Face life bravely, and life will treat you well!