Understand a person with your heart, not through other people's mouths.

"No matter how good a person is to others, it is not good for you, and it is not good for you; And even if everyone says that he is not good, but he is good to you, then he can also become a noble person in your life. " This is a truth that everyone can understand, but there are still people who ignore their own nobles and please the good people in others' mouths.

Just like in my life, there has been such a noble person who has been criticized by many people. That was the boss of my last job in Jinan. He was really an important person in my life. It can be said that almost all the office skills I use in my present job were developed there. 20 10 When I graduated, I worked as a warehouse manager in a computer peripheral company. Because I graduated from logistics management, I am bent on finding a job related to my major. As a warehouse manager, walking is inevitable. I quit my job and wanted to find an office job because I was anaemic and tired.

But at that time, I couldn't even use the most basic office software well, typing was still a "two-finger Zen", and 26 English letters could never find a place. Therefore, it is difficult for me to find an office job with zero relevant work experience. And at that time, because I couldn't find a job for a long time, the whole person became less and less confident. Anyone can see at a glance that I don't have much positive energy. In such a vicious circle, the more listless I am, the more I can't find a job.

During that time, I went to a medical device company. The name of the company is looking for a personnel specialist, and after I joined the company, I was a salesman. The key is to go abroad (I was stationed in Laiwu at that time). Because I had already gone to Laiwu at that time, I took a month's salary and returned to Jinan. Later, I went to a food company to work as a sales office, but just a few days after I went, the company was closed down because of money problems; I also went to a housekeeping company to make a list, because typing was too slow and I was dismissed because I couldn't finish recording the list; There is also an equipment company that applied for an administrative job itself because it is not competent for the job. Just as the warehouse manager resigned, he transferred me to the warehouse and resigned for physical reasons. I also sold cosmetics for two months, but I was cheated and didn't get the money; I have also been to a health care product company. After several days of training, I think it should be the same as my former classmates. Later, when I became a pedicure technician, I stopped doing it in advance. Later, I went to a financing company. I had nothing to do and my salary was low, so I made do with it. I guess my role is to fill in the number of people. Some people invest by looking at a few people sitting in the office, but they are relieved when they invest, and they are not at ease when there are one or two people in the office. After working there for about four or five months, I saw the recruitment information of that company on the Internet, which was the recruitment information of my last job in Jinan.

I didn't have much hope at first, because the recruitment conditions were very harsh, but the salary was relatively high, so I gave it a try. After all, I have been sitting in that company's office for so long, and I am not so unfamiliar with computers. Maybe it's time to go. At that time, the administrative department often made mistakes because of carelessness. The boss wants to transfer her to the sales department. Although I lack some office skills, I can learn office skills. I am serious by nature.

For the company, it is the real challenge. At that time, the administrative post of the company needed to learn too much, not only the most basic office software such as word and excel, but also drawing software such as photoshop and cad. I also need to know some basic operations and basic training. It is very challenging for me to make courseware or give lectures. Of course, I also did some basic business knowledge learning and data sorting. For a long time, I was not competent for my job, and I was questioned by my colleagues. The boss not only didn't fire me because my colleagues questioned me, but also gave an example at the meeting, saying that when someone first came to the company, they went from ignorance to omnipotence.

Later, I also asked my boss to resign because I couldn't do it anymore. When my boss saw my resignation, he said to me, "I feel guilty that I didn't do well and resigned, which shows that you are a responsible person." What I want is your sense of responsibility. Set yourself a goal, then give yourself a month to master how many skills, and then break down the goal: to what extent in the first week, to what extent in the second week, and then to the third week. The fourth week ... "Originally, I needed this job, and my boss's affirmation gave me great encouragement, so I consciously worked overtime after work every time to study my own office software. Finally, I was competent for my work and got along well with my colleagues.

Later, the boss talked to me and said, "Are you sick? Look at your face. " I have some deja vu in this conversation, because I didn't get some jobs I like before, and they all refused to hire me on the grounds of "getting well before coming out to work", so an idea flashed through my mind: "Does the company want to use me?" But before the boss trusted me so much, I couldn't lie to her, so I told her in detail: "Yes, I have some anemia, but it's okay, but now I need to take medicine to recuperate."

The boss pondered for a moment and said to me sincerely, "I will add 500 yuan to you from this month. You should write a salary increase application and give it to me for signature. Don't be too hard on yourself when eating. " Every time I think about it, my eyes are full of tears. Later, I not only mastered the skills needed for the job, but also was promoted to administrative manager and equipped with assistants. In order to increase my income, the boss also gave me all the scattered customers left after the salesman left. ......

There is no boss who is not criticized by employees, and so is our boss: in the eyes of some people, she is very picky, and sometimes she will dispose of the garbage that is not full of garbage, which is not atmospheric and unlike the boss; Some people say that she has no human touch, and some people often take time off from work at home, and as a result, they are dismissed by their bosses; Some people say that she is incompetent and the company once lost money; Some people say that she is a face-to-face, a back-to-face, so the vice president stopped working with her and went out alone; Others say that she is vain, and what her whole company does is to save face. ......

But anyway, she is very kind to me. She once gave me a steady income when I needed my job most, and also cultivated my office skills, which enabled me to complete the transformation from warehouse management to administrative work. I can't do my job without her original training now. Therefore, whenever she needs it, I will not be ungrateful for the cultivation at that time.

I believe that everyone is surrounded by such a noble person. Although he may not be very kind to many people, many people are criticizing him, but he is good to you, then he is your noble, and you should reciprocate. Instead of trying to please the good people in others' mouths, the good people in their mouths may not be good for you. So people should be realistic and be kind to those who are good to themselves.