Listening to Fan Deng and Reading Leaping Growth and Thinking Change

The book "Growing by leaps and bounds" tells us that the core idea is that everyone can be reborn, and everyone can grow into people you never imagined before.

Turn the useless past into an advantage.

We should learn to grasp the second chance of life. When we are in inertia, we all feel useless. I just like that gadget, but you don't know it. It probably contains a lot of value.

Nowadays, non-traditional learning methods have become more and more possible. Because I can go to Tsinghua, I can brush all the classes in Tsinghua every night. What is the goal of education? The goal of education is not to use that diploma as a stepping stone at all. Let's do it, too. It's good to have a stepping stone. It's useless if it's useless. If you come back with the best stepping stone, it won't work. Turn around and open it. In the same way. But on the other hand, if you don't have a diploma, you can do it. You are excellent, and you know everything I told you. This is the core.

It is very popular now. It's called the British era, VUCA. These four letters represent four characteristics: instability, uncertainty, complexity and fuzziness. At present, the world belongs to Uka, which is unstable, uncertain, complex and ambiguous. Tell us that there used to be a trade union. You can stay in this job until you retire, and your son can take over. Think about it. It was stable and certain at that time.

In the era of VUCA, the most important learning attitude is lifelong learning attitude. Your legs must constantly evolve. You must always have the first skill related to work and the second skill related to passion. In a few days, your second skill may become your first skill, and then you must cultivate your enthusiasm for the next step. At this time, your life can be iterated, and then you can upgrade. Those people mentioned above are all like this, and they are all iterative step by step. That is, you should never think that you are the only expert in doing something. This is called "a gentleman is not a tool".

Because what people like to do when they are depressed, when everyone is depressed, you should remember one thing and socialize more. I have been idle in CCTV for a while and feel that I don't know where to go in life. When I am desperate, I have to study and socialize. Is to participate in various activities and meet people everywhere. You don't know where your chance is.

Because if you want to be stable in this life, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Learning is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat. So you should have an offensive attitude, and you should constantly enrich yourself, so you should be alert to stopping. This is the first suggestion. Next, you should be able to build a network to find the right position. Participate in various high-end exchanges. You said that the law has nothing to do with me, just know a few lawyers; Medicine has nothing to do with me. I should attend more doctor's parties and listen to doctors chat. I especially like chatting with doctors, which is completely different from us ordinary people.

Another is to learn to ignore selectively. There are many opportunities, and although there are many exchanges, we can't cover everything. You can't think of any one as an opportunity. I also want to learn this and that. You still have to think carefully. Then if you want to do well, you need to be modest and open-minded. You want a theoretical physicist to go to biology. He is a recruit from the beginning. You have to put down your airs and know everything before you can go deep into it. Then the next thing to do is to immerse yourself in it. Immersing yourself in it means that you are fascinated. You get the experience of flow in it and study it all day. Only in this way can you quickly become an expert in this field.

The next chapter is called opening your middle-aged opportunities. You see, we used to talk about midlife crisis. Speaking of middle age, we are followed by a crisis, but it is not. The author says that middle age brings opportunities. Why? That is, after you reach middle age, you have a stable job and a habitual lifestyle, which basically solves the problem of food and clothing. At this time, you may be able to free your hands and think about your own fun.

So sometimes interference is not a bad thing. Middle-aged people say I have many bad habits. I have a lot of things I didn't learn well in the past. These things are called interference. These disturbances may bring benefits. Is that you are different from those who don't interfere. For example, there is a person in the book who is particularly interesting. He has a strong English accent, and there is always an accent when he speaks in English. He does feel inferior and his English is not good. As a result, people later found him very convincing. What is the reason? People sound more serious when they speak with an accent. That is, when you talk to others in the radio cavity, white noise is often ignored, but when your words are mixed with accents and others don't understand, you have to work hard, so hard, and you listen, so he becomes such a particularly persuasive person.

Then let's talk about specific methods. One of the most important ways is to know the importance of large-scale open online courses, large-scale open online courses, large-scale open online courses. A large-scale open online course is what we call online education. Columbia University began to try this practice decades ago, and then Harvard and Yale followed suit. Now a large number of open online courses in Peking University and Tsinghua are open. Even the learners of super massive open online courses can learn dozens of courses a year without any problems. Because everything you want to learn is there. What is the difference between the learning style of massive open online courses and other courses? Admission is easy. That is, you don't have to say that I want the college entrance examination. Before I take this course, I must get an admission notice. The threshold is too high. I think massive open online courses are a great subversion of education. You know that our past education was completely centered on educators, so what do the educated want from educators? I just want to be recognized and get a diploma, but in fact, you should know that the change of massive open online courses is that the providers of education become insignificant, and you don't have to please me at all. What am I? I just put this course here and charge you a lecture fee, one course 10 yuan or 20 yuan. It's cheap, and then you can listen to it as many times as you want and take it as many times as you want until you pass.

Learning is a very enjoyable thing, but don't indulge, don't completely indulge in learning. You are looking for balance. What is balance? I think what China people say best is the unity of knowledge and action. You should use what you have learned and find feedback in practice, and then you will know if I can learn something else, so that you can choose a better one to learn. Therefore, applying what you have learned and combining knowledge with practice will balance the troubles caused by a large number of massive learning resources. This is what we call the process of how to make good use of network resources to complete your transformation and your thinking transformation.