Few people boast of true beauty.

Few people boast of true beauty. People are all visual animals, and beautiful things will make people want to get close. Perhaps in the eyes of many people, beautiful women are narcissistic and easy to look down on others. Let's take a look. There are very few real beauties and boasters.

Few people praise true beauty. 1 Nobody praises a really good-looking person.

1, because really good-looking people will be beautiful enough to make many women jealous. How can they praise this beautiful woman when they hate her too late? A beautiful woman who doesn't make women jealous is either old, too bitter, or flawed, or she will never be a real beauty. They will unconsciously isolate beautiful women without consulting each other. Real beauty must be very unpopular with women. No woman really wants to be friends with them, just don't hurt her.

2. Because really good-looking people are too beautiful, many women will be jealous. There are not no women who say they are not jealous, just few and far between. And that kind of particularly ugly woman will be jealous of particularly beautiful women. Although the disparity is great, ugly women are all ugly. Ordinary beautiful women will be jealous of big beautiful women because they steal their thunder. A real beauty may not be jealous of a beauty as beautiful as herself, because a real beauty is confident and thinks her beauty is unique. Although others are beautiful, they are not as beautiful as themselves, so it is possible for a real beauty not to be jealous of each other.

Why do good-looking people look alike?

Not all good-looking people look the same, except plastic surgery. More girls wear the same style, and then they wear the same when they go out, with the same hairstyle, the same eyebrows, the same eye shadow, and the same red number at the end. Didn't you say that the same people all look alike?

And the public aesthetic is similar, with big eyes, high nose and sharp chin, and a thin figure in vain. Even I think so myself, even if I look back. Star trend, most people who look like stars will look good, and plastic surgery is also done according to stars. So good-looking people are alike.

Why do good-looking people have fewer friends?

Most beautiful girls still have many friends. People are visual animals, and beautiful things will make people want to get close. Moreover, they are confident in making beautiful friends, and naturally there is no shortage of friends around them. Some of them are good-looking but have few friends, which may belong to the cold type. Same-sex friends dare not go out with you without a certain face value, otherwise there is no sense of existence. Generally, high-value girlfriends are not bad, and friends of the opposite sex are close to you. Most of them are afraid of other plans and wary, so naturally there are fewer friends around them.

Few people boast of true beauty. In many idol dramas, there are often such scenes. At first, a woman looks ordinary and even ugly, so she is not lucky at work or in love. The more she wants something, the easier it is to get it.

Finally, women turn over a new leaf and change themselves in various ways to become more beautiful and excellent. When she becomes a goddess, it means that her life has been attacked.

It is conceivable that "Goddess" will naturally get everything she wants, and her career achievements and love perfection will make the audience feel very satisfied.

So a feeling for most people is that beauty is worth it, and it is worth all the beautiful things, which is why many men like to appreciate beauty.

However, appreciating beauty belongs to appreciation, and not all men can like beauty, which should be explained from psychological research.

People have a fear of people or things that are unknown or better than themselves, and even feel unworthy.

Just like a man facing a beautiful woman, it is one thing to appreciate her beauty and elegance, but on the other hand, he can't help but start to examine himself and ask whether he is worthy of such a beautiful woman.

Under all kinds of anxiety, men have fallen into inferiority and retreated before trying to pursue themselves. On the contrary, they would rather choose those plain-looking women as their marriage partners.

In fact, this kind of psychology is normal, which shows that people are more inclined to choose people and things that can be within their control, which will make them feel more secure.

There is a book called Intimacy, written by an American psychologist, which mentions the attraction and love between people, in other words, it is a basic assumption and a reward given by others.

In other words, when a beautiful woman appears, the greater the reward we get, the greater the significance and the greater the attraction to us.

However, the aesthetic value provided by this kind of beauty is only appreciation, which can not really arouse men's love or pursuit, but will make men lose the courage to pursue.

Roland Miller once put forward a famous law, the law of attraction: a person's attraction to himself is actually equal to the product of the other person's appearance and the possibility that the other person can accept himself.

Although most men like to appreciate beautiful women, the premise of deciding to pursue her is that men feel that they are well matched with women, otherwise they will only appreciate them and will not have any connection in the future.

Actually, men are also very realistic. When they feel that there will be no good result with the woman in front of them, they will not invest too much, nor will they have too much hope for the relationship between them.

There are also some men who think that it is too expensive to fall in love with a beautiful woman or get married, because there is no need to worry about whether a woman will have ulterior motives and empathize with someone else, and she can take good care of her face and nourish herself to make this beauty last longer.

So how can a beautiful woman make her beauty and love profitable? Actually, it's not difficult. Just two o'clock is enough.

Don't blindly cater to anyone.

Perhaps in the eyes of many people, beautiful women are narcissistic and it is easy to look down on others. Actually, not all beautiful women can be so confident and believe in themselves.

So some women are obviously beautiful, but they are not confident, or they only agree that they have one advantage, that is, beauty.

In order to gain inner sense of security and value, people will blindly cater to other people's preferences and lower their standards.

This kind of flattery will lose your dignity instead of getting what you want. Even if you really win the favor of the opposite sex, it doesn't mean that it is true love.

Only the woman who insists on being herself is the most beautiful, with beautiful appearance, firm heart and firm principles. Such a woman seems indifferent, but in fact she knows how to love herself best.

What's more, for a woman, even the one you love the most, don't change your persistence to cater to him.

Because the person who really loves you won't want to see you make unhappy changes, he wants to see you become more comfortable from this relationship.

Being yourself will attract people with the same frequency.

When you are in full bloom, the fragrance comes. This sentence is very suitable for those beautiful and excellent people, because nothing is more important to them than being themselves.

For women, if you are beautiful, but no man dares to pursue you, and no man has the courage to give you a promise of happiness, it means that there are not enough good men worthy of you.

Woman, you have to understand that your Excellence is not an excuse for others to be weak, because he feels that he is not worthy of you, so he dare not approach and dare not enter your world.

What you have to do is not to lose your Excellence and pride, nor to underestimate your beauty, but to be yourself as always and never stop moving forward. More importantly, you must understand that only if you are truly excellent will you attract the opposite sex who is as excellent as you to appreciate, care for and understand you.

It is not difficult to find the opposite sex, and a make-do marriage is not uncommon in real life, but it is difficult to find the soul mate, because you need to keep looking for the person who "smells like you".

Beautiful women, in particular, need to be thoughtful and selective. Make sure that the man in front of you is not only looking at his own beauty, but also paying attention to whether he can get along with him.

In marriage, many seemingly trivial things can actually test the tacit understanding between husband and wife. Couples who really have tacit understanding will not only look at the surface of things, but will care more about each other's feelings and identify with each other's sense of value.

Beauty is not a sin, let alone a burden. If used well, beauty is a wonderful ornament in one's life, but if used badly, it will become a fetter to lower the living standard.

Therefore, no matter whether the appearance is beautiful or not, as a woman, we must first learn to make our bones attractive, our hearts full and our minds knowledgeable. This is a truly beautiful woman.

Few people boast of true beauty. Why are some men afraid to marry girls who are too beautiful?

One: beautiful women will be more tempted.

Pan Jinlian was originally just an ordinary woman, who abided by women's morality and kept housework for Wu Dalang at home, but she was remembered and hooked up by Ximen Qing because of her beauty.

The book describes the beauty of Pan Jinlian in this way: the man was hit on the head with a fork and then stood firm. When he was about to have an attack, he looked back and turned out to be a beautiful and enchanting woman.

This is Ximen Qing's first impression of Pan Jinlian. In the original work, the author only touched the appearance of other women, and only Pan Jinlian's appearance can be compared with beauty and enchanting.

Natural beauty is a woman's blessing, but Pan Jinlian's lack of thoughts has made her and Ximen Qing a scandal.

As a match of their historical scandal, poor Wu Dalang was killed after only a few appearances, and the ending was not tragic.

The root of this tragedy lies in Wu Dalang's ordinary appearance and Pan Jinlian's beauty.

Husband looks too ordinary but has no other strength to rely on. A beautiful wife will inevitably think that her husband has climbed on her. At this time, if you encounter the temptation of the outside world, it is difficult for a woman to resist her turbulent heart, such as lightning.

Beautiful women will be more tempted than ordinary women. Pan Jinlian has been involved with six men in his life. Although it has something to do with her own debauchery, the intentional hooking up of men is also the main reason for her to do those unbearable things.

The old saying makes sense: if you don't have such a big head, don't wear such a big hat.

You don't have the advantages and matching value worthy of a beautiful woman's memory, so even if a beautiful woman comes to your door, you should consider it carefully.

The first honey is the second arsenic. It may be a lifelong pursuit for others to have a beautiful woman as a partner, but if you are ordinary, then a beautiful woman may not be worthy of you. Beauty's innate characteristics are easy to attract Hua Hudie, but may bring you tragedy.

Two: Beauty has a strong sense of superiority in front of you.

There is such a speechless plot in Madame Bovary that Emma boldly encourages Bovary to have an operation to treat his feet for the sake of fame and fortune.

After the operation, the two couples sat together and fantasized about the successful scene, and began to plan their life after becoming famous. Who knows that the two couples immersed in fantasy never thought that the operation seemed to be successful, but in fact it was a very failed operation.

Moreover, Bovary's original medical skills were not exquisite, and he did not consider postoperative care. He cut the patient's wound and put it aside. The hot weather and improper nursing soon caused pus on the patient's feet.

To Bovary's horror, this abscess is simply uncontrollable. Seeing that the patient's wound is getting worse, they have to ask outside experts to help them deal with it.

Three: Talent is more important than appearance.

When Yang Lan, a well-known host, just left school to apply for a job, he went to an interview with CCTV Zhengda Variety. In the interview, when she went through five levels and killed six people to the last level, the progress suddenly stopped.

Yang Lan felt very strange and asked. As a result, the other party told her: "At present, you are the best choice, but because you are not beautiful enough, the interviewer is still hesitant to use you."

As soon as Yang Lan heard something wrong, she ran to the interviewer and asked, "Why must the hostess be beautiful?"

As soon as her words came out, all the interviewers stared at her instantly.

But Yang Lan didn't panic at all. She continued to express her thoughts calmly: "I think your request for interviewing the hostess is pure and beautiful." Are all the female hosts recruited to set off the male host?

In fact, the hostess is also very smart. If one of us is lucky enough to win this host today, she should be a smart host, not a male host. "

It is such a wonderful expression that the interviewer saw the unique charm that only intellectual women have in Yang Lan's bones, so she immediately made a decision without hesitation and gave her the opportunity to host.

As it turns out, the interviewer has a good eye. Yang Lan played her talents perfectly in the Zheng Da Variety Show. As her participation in the show became more and more prosperous, this show became a good memory for many people.

And Yang Lan is also known to the national audience through this program. Her outstanding performance made her more famous than her partner and predecessor, Jiang Kun.

It can be seen that it is not only beautiful women who can succeed. Those ugly women will study and work harder than others because they know that looks can't bring them dividends. Over time, her talent can also give her positive feedback.