All insecurity and anxiety are due to lack of money.

If a person doesn't even know where his sense of security comes from, then she can't get inner peace, and she will always be in a state of anxiety.

Reading, traveling and exercising, you think it will enrich your heart. But this is not the case. In fact, you can't devote yourself to the contents of the book and blend in with the protagonist in the book. When traveling, you can't completely empty yourself and enjoy the scenery in front of you. After the trip, I will only be more anxious. When you go to exercise, you sweat a lot, but the sweat does not take away the anxiety in your heart. When the sweat on your body is dry, you are still at a loss.

In fact, for many people, reading, sports and traveling, which seem to be very positive and can enrich their lives, are of no use to changing their lives.

Because they haven't fully met their basic survival needs. A few hundred dollars to live in a village in the city, eating a dozen dollars of fast food, the monthly salary can only barely maintain food and clothing, no money to go home, no way to buy decent gifts for family and friends. I'm afraid of getting sick, and I'm even more afraid of getting sick in my family. I see water drops in my circle of friends every day, and I am full of fear that I will face such a thing one day. You want to buy commercial insurance for your family and yourself, but you can't take out the savings. You're just like this, scared, confused, confused.

You want to change the status quo, but you have no courage. You want to jump out of this circle and change companies many times, but every time you open the recruitment website, you find that you are not competitive and don't know how to choose. The future seems even bleaker than the present. Then, you silently unloaded Worry-Free Future and Zhaopin.com ... and lived this insecure life.

You said you wanted to find someone to marry. This is ridiculous. I know I won't tie myself to another person when I don't know my life. I know you don't have the courage and determination, and you can't bear the consequences. Although I don't know much, I think too much. You know a person with an empty heart is like a bloodsucking leech. No matter how much blood you suck, you will never be satisfied. If you can't fill your heart with your own life, then you will never get peace and happiness in the world. You will be eager, demanding, comparing and never satisfied. This is a terrible thing.

No one can be the salvation of your life, you can only save yourself.

Other people's lifestyles can't be your template, you can only find your own way.

In fact, you have always known that your fear, anxiety and insecurity come from your monthly salary that you can't make ends meet, from bills that are repeatedly installment, from orders that you keep buying and canceling, and from the pain of facing family difficulties.

So what poems and distant places do you have to consider? What stability do you want to pursue? What kind of love do you want to fantasize about?

Your only purpose now is to make money, and always make money. Only with money can you solve your anxiety, your fear and your insecurity. Your life has not reached the point where you can pursue spiritual enjoyment. You have no material foundation, and the spiritual level can only be attic and mirage.

Wilde once said that when I was young, I thought money was a good thing. When I am old, I find that money is really a good thing.

When you are rich, you can go to Tokyo and Paris to cry when you are sad. If you have no money, you can only stay in a wet rental house where there is no sunshine all day and cry.