What does it mean that Thai women are sexually harassed by the team leader? How to avoid it?

I saw such a news on the Internet before. A woman from Hangzhou went to Thailand for a holiday. Because there was no holiday, her husband didn't accompany her.

Before leaving, her husband teased him and said, pay attention. You are the only woman in her thirties on this trip, and the others are old people.

A few days after the trip, she took a screenshot of her husband and said that the team leader sent him a WeChat to harass her. When the team leader was asked by the police, he repeatedly stressed that the woman was not unwilling at first, and the two also traveled hand in hand.

We don't know the truth, but what is certain is that flies don't bite seamless eggs. This team leader, the crime is a fact, but there is no problem with women at all.

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As a woman, it is very dangerous to give others whimsical ideas or temptations.

When you are not at home, especially women are facing all kinds of dangers. It's too late to protect yourself. Don't leave any gaps or handles for others.

Some people say that this woman only invited the tour guide because she was afraid of something going wrong in a different place.

I don't think there is anything wrong with inviting people to go together, but if you go alone, you will undoubtedly reveal something to the other party, but you shouldn't.

The mistake is that you trust others too much and don't realize that everyone is a potential danger except yourself.

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As they discussed a few years ago, girls are exposed by bad guys and become targets. What's wrong with girls? I am a defender of girls' freedom to dress. But I think safety is more important.

In other words, it is easy to learn and understand. I think it's right for you to sacrifice a little freedom of dress and defend your personal safety.

Of course, bad people will be punished by law, and there is nothing wrong with your freedom to dress. But what the law punishes, what has happened. He should have protected you a long time ago, and the harm you suffered happened naked.

I think as a woman to protect herself on weekdays, it is something that should be kept in mind at all times. There is a string that should be tightened at all times.

So give the woman a warning, such as protecting herself? I summed up a few items.

Don't have an affair with anyone except your boyfriend and husband, because you don't know what the sanctimonious person around you is like.

He may arouse the wolf and beast in his heart because of your words that have no sense of boundaries. What if he's been waiting for an opportunity to hurt you? We can't guess what each other thinks.

Whether you go out at night or travel long distances, try to travel together.

When we were studying, girls were in groups of three or five. Why do they like a person when they grow up?

No matter how entangled you are, how confused you are, how painful you are, how much you want to solve it and how much you want to dissipate it. I hope you have a reliable and practical friend standing by your side.

Some people run away from home at two in the morning in a rage. Some people travel on a whim.

But when you are in the light, someone is watching in the dark. If you can, why not put these repressed behaviors at home?

Whether you are at work or sleeping at home, or walking in the street for a while, please always be vigilant.

You only work overtime when you are alone in the whole building. Don't go to remote paths. Order takeout and take it home. Don't throw the express box with the address on it outside the door.

May every girl be a careful girl. Protecting women is a common task for families, men and society, but only if women know how to protect themselves.

Just like the girl who was sexually harassed by the team leader. In Thailand, it is risky to go to a bar with a strange man so far from home.

We can take this as a warning.