It is best not for older men to hire young female nannies. It will cause a lot of trouble. Do you think that makes sense?

Youth is a relative term. A single man in his sixties or seventies looks for a nanny who is in her fifties.

As for whether it is good or bad, it depends on the person and the development.

My company has three teachers who have experienced it, one handled it well, and two had bad results.

It was agreed first that Master Wang couldn’t cook since he was single in his 65s and 65s. After discussing with his children, he would find a nanny in his forties. Wang Shifu has a good character. He went out to have breakfast together and walked for breakfast, and cooked vegetables for dinner at noon. Teacher Wang took a lunch break, the nanny played mahjong for half a day, and had some leftovers for dinner.

Wang Shifu is smart enough to come and live with the nanny during the school holidays and take care of the food. The nanny will buy new clothes and gifts for the children on New Year's Day, and she will help them with bathing when they are over 70 years old. They will not change the nanny until they are old. They may be promised another sum of money, some people say it is 100,000 or more, but they will not provide housing.

The other two, each of whom was a tutor, soon fell in love with a nanny and had some savings. However, the good times did not last long. Due to changes in life patterns, people in their sixties were not as physically strong as before, and they did not control themselves and ended up getting sick. While she was in the hospital, the nanny ran away. She had no choice but to say nothing, which only made her daughter angry. In the past, if she had money and was not ill, she would take less care of her. But if she has no money and is ill, she should not take care of her.

There is also a teacher who doesn’t have much money to pay and is stingy. His daughter said in front of me: No matter how nice she is to him, she doesn’t give her granddaughter one yuan to celebrate the New Year, but only gives one more grandson.

Less than half a year later, Kugua went to find her daughter after she had been living with him as a nanny. It turned out that the nanny knew that he had gone on a day trip. When he came home, he found the house empty and had people and cars taken away. But I can't bear to be angry, no matter how angry my daughter is, she buys and displays it.

Once you get the certificate, you need to divide your property, but you can’t abide by the rules. A fifty-year-old woman is just a flower in front of a seventy-year-old man.

If the purpose is to find a nanny to do housework, young people It's not a big problem if you are older, as long as you can meet the employer's requirements. In fact, the majority of nannies in the labor market are in their 40s and 50s, and even older men cannot find someone older.

If a man in his 70s wants to take care of a nanny, and to avoid suspicion, if he wants to take care of a nanny who is 65 or 70 years old, go to the labor agency market and find out where a woman of that age can come out. As for being a nanny, his answer was no, and in the end he had to choose a nanny who was over 50 years old. This has caused society to criticize this matter again. People who are over 70 years old find a nanny who is over 50 years old, with impure motives.

Family nannies are generally older single elderly people or families of older elderly people. After many single elderly people hired nannies, some developed feelings for them during their long-term life, and both parties were interested. The nanny relationship became a cohabitation partnership or a husband-wife relationship. This kind of thing is not uncommon, but it does not lead to the conclusion that a single elderly person should not look for a nanny with a big age difference.

No matter how different the age of the nanny is from you, as long as there is no wrongdoing, the relationship between the employer and the person being cared for will always be maintained. The nanny will be diligent in housework, enthusiastic about taking care of the elderly, careful and responsible, and the elderly will be satisfied. Living a happy life is because the old man has found a good nanny. Don't have any other intentions for this. Pay your wages every month. During the Chinese New Year, you can also add a red envelope as a reward if you like.

Both the nanny and the employer can cherish this kind of life based on mutual trust and sincerity. It is a kind of happiness. Once the relationship between the employer and the nanny is transcended, the future life will be happy or sad. It is up to both parties to experience whether the outcome is bitter or sweet. This outcome is basically the result of extreme happiness at the moment, followed by sadness later.

If an older man really has no other ideas (you know), he should never hire a young nanny, as this will cause troubles one after another.

I have a neighbor, Uncle Geng, who is in good health. I was 70 years old last year, and my wife died of illness two years ago. My children can still be filial, but they all have to go to work, and no one can take care of me every day. what to do? I successively found two older nannies (mostly around 60 years old). They did pretty well at first, but later they were fired for various reasons. Later, his hometown in the countryside introduced a woman in her forties to come to his house as a nanny, and she started doing well. The children had no objections and the old man was satisfied. The problem started half a year later and it became a big deal. The old man's retirement salary is more than 6,000 yuan, 4,000 yuan is given to the nanny, and 1,000 yuan is subsidized for his grandson's schooling. The remaining 1,000 yuan is tight for living expenses. The old man still has to pay for water, electricity, and gas with a deposit.

What should I do if the old man and the nanny simply don’t have enough money to eat? I had to use my savings of 2,000 yuan and 3,000 yuan for food expenses. This lasted for more than a year. It happened in winter. This year, it was extremely cold, the weather was freezing, and the door was closed due to heavy snow. The old man asked for a nanny to accompany him to the bed. The nanny said yes, but she had to borrow 20,000 yuan for his son to get married. When asking for money, the old man's daughter discovered the problem. Because the old man’s savings are kept by his daughter. The old man asked for money again and again, which aroused the vigilance of his children. Why do you need money every day? At first, the old man was hesitant to say anything, but the nanny finally told him the reason for staying with him. Several women were so angry that they demanded to be fired. The nanny said it was okay to quit, but she would have to pay 50,000 yuan in compensation, otherwise it would be the end of the world. If it makes a big fuss, the children are afraid of being embarrassed. It's simply not okay to continue like this without asking. what to do? In the end, the neighbor helped solve the problem. That is to fire the nanny and give up the 20,000 yuan that the old man promised to lend. The old man was afraid of causing embarrassment at this time, so he immediately agreed. Although the nanny didn't agree happily, there wouldn't be much benefit if the matter was dealt with by the public, so she signed and pledged her name. This matter lasted for two months and finally came to an end.

As I said at the beginning, the elderly should respect themselves and love themselves, and should not have any bad thoughts. They should either find a wife in an upright manner, or live a decent life, and do not find a young nanny to accompany them in bed. These things are not allowed. Old friends and readers can share their opinions if they have any.

If a single elderly man hires a young nanny, will he be in trouble? It doesn't make sense.

The nannies range from young to over 20 years old to over 60 years old. Nannies live at home with food and accommodation included, and they also work part-time. The service content ranges from pure cooking and grocery shopping to full housework packages and taking care of the daily life of the elderly. Take live-in nanny as an example, which generally includes taking care of the elderly's daily life and taking care of all the housework. It is very hard work and the elderly may not be qualified for it. Young, capable nannies are still very popular with employers, and attractive nannies are naturally favored by men, but young nannies may not be willing to serve an old man. Therefore, live-in nannies on the market are basically middle-aged and elderly people. Some are from families with financial difficulties and are simply out to make money; some are running away from marriage, and some are alone and want to see the world and find opportunities to get married. Even if an elderly man has an idea for a nanny, the nanny may not like it. The so-called troubles are nothing more than issues involving love and money. After living under the same roof for a long time, they are in love with each other. Regardless of whether she is young or old, it is normal to have some sparks. The law does not prohibit nannies from marrying single old people. The fear is that the nanny has ulterior motives from the beginning and seduces the old man. The old man is still kept in the dark and the nanny defrauds him of money and sex. He is also mute and unable to tell the story of the pain of eating Coptis chinensis. Nowadays, nannies are also very open-minded. In addition to earning wages, some also use their bodies to comfort the elderly. Those who have a family, in order to live a happy life, do not hesitate to break up with their husbands back home and fall in love with and marry their male employers. This situation may be troublesome. In extreme cases, the nanny's ex-husband and children come to the door and start a fight, causing a storm in the city. Some nannies are more open-minded and directly transform into sleep-in nannies, enjoying the treatment of wives. They have no sense of shame and are only motivated by profit. . Some of them drained their employers of their hard-earned money and then left, leaving their employers with nothing to rely on.

Whether there is trouble or not is mainly decided by the employer. If you just hire someone to do housework and take care of your daily life, and can withstand the temptation, then the nanny’s evil thoughts will be in vain; if the employer has random thoughts, has a sense of luck, cheats, and cheats, the nanny will take advantage of it, and naturally the probability of something going wrong will be high. There's a lot of trouble. It’s not that young nannies are in trouble. Old nannies can also get into trouble if they are unruly and have evil intentions.

What you said makes sense.

Many elderly people find a nanny to take care of them when their spouse dies in their later years. Especially male elderly people like to find a young nanny. This is understandable and reduces the worries of their children.

But some people are looking for a nanny in name. In fact, the nanny wears many hats. Everyone knows that the relationship is essentially a husband and wife.

Some elderly people find nannies who are twenty or thirty years older than themselves. They say they are nannies, but in fact they are living together. There are a lot of troubles in this way. First, it is unethical. They are not a generation at all, and it is offensive to make people point at them. The second is that the nanny is after your property, and the three-dimensional argument makes you lose your certainty. The nanny may transfer the property, and the children will definitely not give up in the future. They will definitely make a lot of noises and make the chickens and dogs restless. , you can even go to court to resolve it. In this way, family ties will be gone, and you will become a loner as you age.

Therefore, when looking for a nanny, you must be careful and consider everything carefully before deciding whether to find a wife or a real nanny? Hope you think twice.

It is best not for older men to hire young female nannies. It will cause a lot of trouble. Do you think that makes sense?

Elderly people can hire male nannies and they won’t have much trouble. The reason why they have trouble hiring female nannies is because they have ideas about female nannies and want to take advantage of them, or they want to keep warm. If you do things well and behave honestly in your heart, there will be no trouble.

Some elderly people are disrespectful and think that the nanny is easy to bully. They want to give her some money, or they want the nanny to be twice as good as him, so they talk nonsense and embarrass the nanny. Xiao Li worked as a nanny at Uncle Wang's house. Uncle Wang was a veteran cadre. He had been alone at home for many years and felt unbearably lonely. When he was eighty-three years old, he fell ill, so he asked the nanny Xiao Li to take care of him.

Xiao Li is an aunt. She is fifty years old. She works seriously and responsibly. She washes the old man’s face four times a day, once when he gets up in the morning, once when he goes to bed after a meal when he is middle-aged, and once he wakes up from a nap in the middle of the day. , she washed her face again, and then again after lunch. She told me that it was more troublesome because it didn’t take long to wash her face, so forget it.

The trouble is that nannies have to take care of the elderly, and they are with them 24 hours a day. They can’t be away for too long, and they can’t stand it for a long time. Unlike other jobs, they have a sense of time. If it’s troublesome, it’s just The owner is having trouble finding a babysitter.

Xiao Li went to Uncle Wang’s house to work as a nanny. When he first started, the uncle saw Xiao Li, who was relatively honest and good at doing things, and thought that if he gave her some money, she would go to bed with him, because that family was very big. , there were only two of them, the uncle asked Xiao Li to accompany him at night, and he gave her money. Money other than salary.

Xiao Li told him, don’t say such nonsense. Although I am a nanny, I earn clean money. At work, if you are not satisfied, you can raise it. If you want to ask for this, I will tell you. Your son, let him pay my salary and leave.

Uncle Wang said, I'm sorry, don't tell my son, just pretend I didn't say it, Laohu is gone, okay. Because I am the nanny hired by your son, I will forgive you once, because you are an old man, I don't care. Although I am from a rural area, I am not like you, scolding Xiao Li for disrespecting him.

Be upright and upright in your conduct, and you won’t get into trouble if you do your best. Uncle Wang wanted to take advantage of Auntie Li. After being scolded by Auntie Li, he no longer dared to speak nonsense to her. He is also very respectful. During the Chinese New Year and holidays, he will still send red envelopes to him like his own children.

And Auntie Xiao Li also does her best for the elderly. The family is under the care of Auntie Xiao Li, and her son, daughter-in-law, daughter and grandson are all back home. Uncle Wang is very grateful to Xiao Li, Without her, the kids wouldn't come home to eat because they couldn't cook. We only eat outside, not popular at home.

As long as you are yourself and do well, others have nothing to say. Trouble is because some people are greedy for money. Greed will cause more trouble. Trouble is caused by yourself. Sometimes simplicity and crudeness can solve the problem.

But if possible, it is best to hire someone who is suitable for you as a nanny. For example, if you are a woman, hire a female nanny, and if a man hires a nanny, you will avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble.

If an old man hires a young nanny, it will be a lot of trouble. It depends on how to correctly handle the relationship between them. Let’s talk about the examples around me. A few years ago, there were two retired veteran cadres in my unit who were widowed. One was named Zhao and the other was named Hu. Mr. Zhao is in his 70s and hired a nanny in her 50s. This nanny had a decent appearance and was diligent in her work. Mr. Zhao fell in love with her and said he wanted to marry her. Although his children objected, he and she started living together. From then on, trouble started. The nanny asked for gold necklaces, gold bracelets, and high-end clothes, but Mr. Zhao satisfied her. Later, the nanny's son was getting married and asked Mr. Zhao to help buy a house. When her daughter got married, she asked Mr. Zhao to provide dowry money. Her relatives came every now and then and asked for red envelopes. After several years of hard work, Mr. Zhao had all his savings, and he shamelessly borrowed money from the financial office of his unit. Not only was his pension exhausted, but he also fell ill and was admitted to the hospital. The nanny worked for three days before quitting and returned to his hometown. Later, he was still cared for by his children. After he was discharged from the hospital, he followed his eldest daughter. Within a year, he died.

Mr. Hu also hired a young nanny, but the situation was different.

Mr. Hu is an upright man. He usually practices calligraphy, painting, and poetry at home, and takes care of his duties as a nanny, buys food, cooks, and cleans. He all keeps to his own duties and gets along harmoniously, but does not exceed the bottom line.

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This issue cannot be generalized. Hiring young nannies to do the work is neat and clean

There are generally two types of people hiring nannies. , one is a middle-aged man whose family is living a good life and relatively wealthy. Since he is busy at work, he finds a nanny to help with housework or take care of the children to solve family matters.

When looking for a nanny, you usually go to a labor service company. They have ready-made people. You choose how old the nanny is, how much money you will give them per month, sign a contract with the labor service company, and then you take the person away. There are also those you find on the street. Such nannies are not very reliable. If something is lost or the work is not responsible, there is no way to solve the problem.

It is said that there are certain benefits to finding a young and beautiful nanny. It is also happy to see beautiful women every day, but it is indeed easy to cause problems. Over time, it is easy to develop feelings and cause conflicts in the family. Many people are looking for nannies. It is indeed easy for a man to have a relationship with a young nanny, causing the family to break up and get divorced. When looking for a young and beautiful nanny, he should seek his wife's consent to avoid problems.

The second type is to find a nanny who will accompany you to eat, live and sleep with you. It is similar to finding a wife. You will not register the marriage, but will accompany you to eat, live and sleep with you. How much will you pay the nanny every month so that you can divorce easily? It’s easy to be separated, but most elderly people are willing to find someone younger. Last year, I wrote on the Internet that an 84-year-old man in our local area was looking for a 53-year-old rural nanny to accompany him to eat and live with him. This way, problems are less likely to occur. , if you don’t want to stay, just leave, there won’t be any trouble, but the old man must put valuables, gold and silver jewelry, or savings certificates, etc., in the hands of his children for safekeeping to avoid problems, because the old man is old, It is rather careless to deal with such a problem. The children should also come to the old man's home from time to time to check on him and ask about the old man's nanny to prevent the old man from being deceived.

In short, finding a young nanny has the advantage of being young, but you have to spend more money and there are certain risks. Men must have certain control.

Sometimes this situation makes a little sense, and sometimes it doesn't make much sense.

1. If an old man with high quality and moral character hires a young nanny with good quality, it will be a win-win situation.

2. An old man with poor quality and bad moral character hired a young nanny with good quality. The nanny resigned after a short time.

3. An old man with good quality hires a young female nanny with poor quality, and then fires her and leaves after a short time.

4. The quality of both parties is poor, each has its own agenda, each has its own agenda, the family is not at peace, and they go to court, their children are dissatisfied, and both parties suffer.

Nowadays, when looking for a nanny, you still need to be targeted. For a family, as the hostess, I really don’t want the nanny I hire to be young and beautiful. As long as he's clean and can work, it doesn't matter what he looks like.

There are definitely not a few hostesses who have such thoughts. Because they know that beautiful and young nannies are good, but they also have certain hidden dangers. I won’t go into details here.

Let’s talk about the problem of older men looking for nannies. No matter how old or young a man hires a nanny, he definitely likes young and beautiful ones. Why can't older men find younger women as nannies?

As long as the man is willing to pay and the woman is willing to accept the work, there is no trouble. As long as both parties are willing and have what they want, why bother?

Isn’t the process of finding an older woman as a nanny the same? In reality, as long as both parties are willing and the price is reasonable, the rest doesn't matter.

If you want to talk about trouble, it involves money. The reason why an elderly man wants to find a nanny must be because there is no one to take care of him. Otherwise, if you have a wife and children, unless the conditions at home are better, generally speaking, it is impossible to hire a nanny.

When an old man wants to find a nanny, he will definitely choose the one he likes. Of course, it would be better to be younger and more beautiful. No matter from any aspect, from a man's perspective, as long as the nanny you hire is willing and you like it, that's fine.

Does everyone have what they need? As long as the nanny hired by a man satisfies the man, the goal will be achieved.

As mentioned in the question, it is best not for older men to hire young nannies, as they will cause a lot of trouble. But I feel that this statement is not true and practical.

Outsiders have no right to interfere with what kind of nanny an old man hires. Old men are human beings too, and they also like young and beautiful ones. It all costs money, so why should we find an older and not pretty woman as a nanny?

Finding a young and beautiful woman as a nanny can not only help an old man solve the difficulties in life, but also make the old man look younger and confident in life. Because a young and beautiful female nanny will give him hope and confidence to start his life again.

For beautiful young women, as an old man, or even any man, he will not reject them. What's more, the old man hired a nanny with money. No matter how much it costs, as long as the nanny is willing and the old man is willing, there is nothing that is not allowed. Find a young and beautiful nanny to take care of him. If the old man is happy, what trouble is there?