Who can give me some materials to support the argument that beauty is a blessing or a curse?

1. In order to make the beautiful wife comfortable with the status quo, the ugly husband will work hard, which is likely to be a blockbuster. At that time, the second Zhao Chuan will be born.

2. For Pan Jinlian, her beauty made her a world-famous Song Wu, and Wu Dalang became a household name.

3. In today's workplace, it is obvious that there are more opportunities for beautiful women.

4, beauty can promote the economy: for example: all kinds of sex transactions, mistresses, cover beauty and so on.

5. Why did Hui Zhou disappear? And "beauty singers" like Cai, Liu and Michael Chen are still raping our ears?

First, take a slow standby preemptive strike.

As the saying goes, "haste makes waste." Acting rashly when the time is not ripe often fails to achieve the goal. The same is true of debate, and "slowness" is also necessary under certain conditions. In fact, the method of "winning slowly" is a tactic to delay the enemy's invasion. When the debate situation is not suitable for quick decision, or the time is not yet ripe, we should avoid direct confrontation between the needle and the wheat, but should delay the time to wait for the arrival of the fighter plane. Once the time is right, we can attack the enemy from behind and defeat him. For example, in the first case, Churchill was not in a hurry to succeed when the time was not ripe, but slowly stood by. At the critical moment of discussing the candidate for prime minister, he expressed his opposition with silence and finally won.

Second, the implementation is slow, weak and strong.

The method of "winning by slowness" is suitable for the debate occasions where disadvantages are against advantages and disadvantages are against strengths. It is a strategic means adopted by the weak to defeat the seemingly powerful side. There is a trick to "slow", and slow motion should be clever. The word "slow" here is not synonymous with slow response and inarticulate, but one of the magic weapons used by eloquent speakers who are still wise and stupid. For example, in the first case, Churchill's playing dumb and stalling in the face of Chamberlain's questioning is actually a delaying tactic. In this stubborn stalemate, Chamberlain's side finally lost his temper, and Churchill finally won by taking the measure of delaying tactics.

Third, slow down anger, slow down cold and heat.

"Slow" is still a good skill to "control anger" in debate. In an argument, people who are angry and have poor self-control are easily excited. In this case, to convince people who are overly excited, it is advisable to deal with them in slow motion and slow tone. Slowing down anger, from cold to hot, can make it "cool down and decompress". Only when the other person is calm can you accept your truth smoothly. For example, in the second case, the salesperson calmed the other party's anger and resolved the contradiction with a calm attitude and gentle tone.

In short, "fast" and "slow" in the debate are also a dialectical relationship of unity of opposites. Soldiers are expensive and fast, and "fast" is of course good. However, sometimes "slowness" has its beauty. Slow can stand by, slow can make plans, and slow can control anger. Slow is a tough tactic, slow is a protracted war, and slow is a delaying tactic in the war of words. Although it takes a long time to walk slowly and spend slowly, it is often a shortcut to victory, although there is a big bend.

In my opinion, beauty is a blessing, not a curse. I will elaborate my views from three aspects:

First: What is beauty? Beauty is to things, the colorful world, the grass and trees around us, the flying stream of the nine-day sunset of the Milky Way, and the extraordinarily enchanting snow scene. Nature selflessly presents its beauty, which is the blessing of mankind. Beauty lies in people, especially in and inside beauty. The beauty that is often revealed from the deep heart makes the beauty and ugliness of appearance no longer so important. After all, people.

Second: Is it a blessing or a curse? Blessing, happiness, blessing; Misfortune, misfortune, disaster. "Happiness depends on misfortune, and misfortune is among them." Happiness and misfortune cannot be completely separated. When we judge whether something brings happiness or misfortune, we are actually judging which is bigger or smaller and which is lighter or heavier. For Lu Bu and Dong Zhuo, The Story Of Diu Sim played a role in sowing dissension, which was a disaster. But for CoCo Lee, she helped overthrow Dong Zhuo's regime, established the Han Dynasty, and complied with the people's hearts.

Third: If beauty is a curse rather than a blessing, why does everyone love beauty? Why pursue the highest state of truth, goodness and beauty? Isn't this getting into trouble?

Therefore, we can't think that beauty is a curse or a blessing according to the sour grape psychology, but we should discover the beauty of the world with a beautiful heart.

Don't you see that beautiful people are more popular with others? People who can't see beauty may have more opportunities than others?

It's unfair, but it's true.

It is biased to take out several negative textbooks.

Beautiful people give others visual enjoyment, but also give themselves a happy mood and a little more confidence. Beautiful. Why? Beauty is a blessing, of course, but some people don't make good use of their beauty, which sometimes makes people feel that beauty is a curse. Finally, I want to say, "it's not the beauty's fault, it's all the moon's fault." Zhaojun went to the fortress, and Fei Ming exchanged her beauty for the peace of the border. Their beauty, greatness, pride and glory?

Beauty is of course a blessing and an artistic mask given by God.

Beauty is a beautiful work of art that integrates appearance, color and lines.

Beauty itself does not mean good or evil. The children's faces are beautiful. Cecilia Cheung has a beautiful face. Mona Lisa has a beautiful face. Can we see evil in their faces? Can't we see it? What we see is the beauty we can't see enough. This is a kind of beauty you want to have forever.

If there is something wrong, beauty is a beautiful woman, a woman with beauty but no beautiful heart.

If those people with beautiful faces only have a pair of good skins but have vicious, frivolous and protein thoughts, then we will despise her, and she will eventually become a femme fatale because of her beauty, just like Zhao MM, who is famous for betraying her country and wearing the Japanese flag.

Everyone loves beauty. How can you not like beauty? Who says he (she) doesn't like beauty? There must be something wrong with this man or he is arrogant. I despise such people the most.

Remember, beauty is not equal to beauty.

There is nothing wrong with the beauty of beautiful women, and there are many beautiful women who are not in danger. Their appearance is as beautiful as their souls. They are what we need. Besides, most beautiful women in trouble have nothing to do with men. Why not find a man?

I think beauty is a blessing. Who doesn't love beauty in the world? I'm afraid there is no one left. Beauty is a gift from heaven. First of all, beauty will leave a good impression on people. It can make people communicate more easily, especially in love, which is an innate advantage. Who wouldn't associate with a beautiful person?

Another debater said that beauty can bring disaster to people, but is it the fault of beauty? This is determined by some small people or specific historical environment. There is nothing wrong with beauty itself, it only brings us beauty and warmth. In Farewell My Concubine, Yu Ji gave a stunning glimpse of history with her beauty. Zhaojun went to the fortress, and Fei Ming exchanged her beauty for the peace of the border. Their beauty, greatness, pride and glory.

Beauty is of course a blessing and an artistic mask given by God.

Beauty is a beautiful work of art that integrates appearance, color and lines.

Beauty itself does not mean good or evil. The children's faces are beautiful. Cecilia Cheung has a beautiful face. Mona Lisa has a beautiful face. Can we see evil in their faces? Can't we see it? What we see is the beauty we can't see enough. This is a kind of beauty you want to have forever.

If there is something wrong, beauty is a beautiful woman, a woman with beauty but no beautiful heart.

If those people with beautiful faces only have a pair of good skins but have vicious, frivolous and protein thoughts, then we will despise her, and she will eventually become a femme fatale because of her beauty, just like Zhao MM, who is famous for betraying her country and wearing the Japanese flag.

Everyone loves beauty. How can you not like beauty? Who says he (she) doesn't like beauty? There must be something wrong with this man or he is arrogant. I despise such people the most.

Remember, beauty is not equal to beauty.

There is nothing wrong with the beauty of beautiful women, and there are many beautiful women who are not in danger. Their appearance is as beautiful as their souls. They are what we need. Besides, most beautiful women in trouble have nothing to do with men. Why not find a man?

I think beauty is a blessing. Who doesn't love beauty in the world? I'm afraid there is no one left. Beauty is a gift from heaven. First of all, beauty will leave a good impression on people. It can make people communicate more easily, especially in love, which is an innate advantage. Who wouldn't associate with a beautiful person?

Another debater said that beauty can bring disaster to people, but is it the fault of beauty? This is determined by some small people or specific historical environment. There is nothing wrong with beauty itself, it only brings us beauty and warmth. In Farewell My Concubine, Yu Ji gave a stunning glimpse of history with her beauty. Zhaojun went to the fortress, and Fei Ming exchanged her beauty for the peace of the border. Their beauty, greatness, pride and glory.

There is nothing wrong with beauty itself, but the dregs of history and the little people in the world. Beauty is noble and sacred.

Anyone who dares to say that he doesn't love beauty or beauty is an absolute hypocrite. But love to love, always can't turn bats into golden phoenix. The world is wonderful because of beauty! This has been the case since ancient times. Ancient palaces were full of noble beauties who enjoyed all the splendor. The four beauties in ancient China, Wang Zhaojun, Diefantu and Yang Guifei, can remain immortal, isn't it because they are beautiful? Of course, they also have their own unique side.

Although history is too far away and a little strange, we have not forgotten it. In modern society, many times and places are full of topics about beautiful women, and they will never get bored, even in front of the highest pursuit of life. From near to far, from the inside out, we will feel the shock of beauty to the world, as well as the temptation and motivation brought by men.

In the circle where we live, there are too many industries that can never be separated from beauty. Some people exaggerate that beauty is the savior of some industries, and I don't think it is too much. Models, flight attendants, public relations, entertainment and even sports arenas. , really is the world of beauty. With beautiful women, there will be popularity and prosperity. On the contrary, it is destined to be a "horse in front of the door." Just look at several heavyweight TV stations, from CCTV to Phoenix, from the east to the south, which one is missing a few superstars and beautiful women? They are definitely signs of TV stations, and they are treasures. In daily life, beautiful women also show their abilities, such as getting twice the result with half the effort, special courtesy for beauty job hunting, and precautions for beauty shopping ... After all, people like beautiful women, appreciate them and recognize them.

Almost once a year, the global beauty contest and the Asia-Pacific beauty contest, which are popular all over the world, are an eye-opener. I have never seen such a grand competition for men. Even if there is, it is a drop in the bucket compared with the beauty pageant. Frankly speaking, I am watching these games, and my heart is full of whispers and imbalances, but I still insist on watching them. Why? What I see is the beauty oozing from my bones! Beauty is a blessing. Not long ago, the winner of a beauty contest won the permanent green card of "immigrant metropolis". I really admire it. What's more exciting is that Chongqing simply played the business card of this beautiful city, creating an unprecedented precedent, which is amazing. It seems that this kind of beauty has formed a culture, and it is getting worse and worse. We must carry the beauty culture to the end. Oh, beauty is a blessing!

I am a man, and I love beauty, especially beautiful women. This kind of love is respect for personality, appreciation of art and publicity in the market. Those who have truly beautiful and fragrant external beauty should cherish and cherish it. On the contrary, there is no need to deliberately change. Respect for reality, nature and self is a supreme beauty. We don't refuse the happiness we deserve because of beauty. We don't advocate belittling ourselves for beauty. We despise those villains who do whatever it takes to be "beautiful".

Men appreciate the beauty that women exude from their bones most. Have self-restraint, temperament, dignified and generous behavior, good heart ... where does beauty come from? Beauty comes from the heart, and happiness comes from oneself.

I think "beauty is a curse" is relative, not absolute, but relative to the other side's "beauty is a blessing" The conclusion is drawn by comparing the positive and negative effects of beauty. I think the negative impact of beauty is greater than the positive impact. Throughout ancient times, how many beauties lost their freedom and happiness because of their beauty? None of the four beauties in history, Shi, The Story Of Diu Sim, Wang Zhaojun and Yang Guifei, can escape the disaster brought by beauty. They have become playthings in men's lives because of their beauty, and they have just become victims of history. Not only that, they are also accused of "femme fatale". How pathetic! On the surface, Wang Zhaojun brought her happiness because of her beauty, but I don't know how helpless this beautiful woman is. As a little maid-in-waiting, how can you not accept this mission? Does she have the right to choose? As a woman, who knows the bitterness and helplessness of leaving her hometown and giving her beautiful life to an old man, and she has to endure an unreasonable system, that is, marry her son after the old man dies. Although from a historical point of view, it is good for a woman like her to have such an ending. But for a woman, these are not enough. Living in the harsh environment of Xiongnu, she had to endure homesickness. So she died young, leaving only a pile of graves in a foreign land. That's why the phrase "beauty is unlucky since ancient times" came into being.

In the workplace competition, having a beautiful appearance is indeed an advantage. Beautiful colleagues can improve work efficiency if they look pleasing to the eye. The same is true of recruitment. Under the same conditions, people who score high in looks are usually given priority. But in normal work, enterprises pay more attention to employees' professional ability, work attitude and teamwork spirit. If an employee relies on his own beauty and thinks he is self-righteous, but he is loved by others with peace of mind but doesn't respect it, and he disdains to have good relations and unity and cooperation with his colleagues, then such "beauty" will naturally not come to a good end. Miss Roy is beautiful, frank, confident, sensitive and competent for her post, but there are still some shortcomings in adapting to the organizational atmosphere, interpersonal relationship and team spirit of the company. With beauty, there must be love. You should not only get used to being loved and spoiled by others, but also get used to loving and actively cooperating with others, even those who don't like you. In a team where everyone doesn't know themselves, only by giving your love to others and winning their goodwill with your good attitude can you get others' love and respect for you. It is suggested that she adjust her mentality in time, get along with her colleagues sincerely with an equal and peaceful attitude, actively create a harmonious working atmosphere and avoid unwarranted suspicion. One of the taboos in the workplace is the distinction between public and private. Beautiful Amy is very naive in love. In the first company, she didn't grasp her own code of conduct, had an affair with her immediate boss, and by virtue of this relationship, she despised others and acted arbitrarily, so she couldn't be tolerated by others, so leaving her job became inevitable. Amy, on the other hand, not only didn't learn from this incident, but put the blame on the secretary profession itself and fell into the strange circle of job-hopping again and again. It is suggested that Amy should be as professional as possible in dressing and interacting with people, and keep a proper distance from her male boss, especially in European and American enterprises, so that her boss can recognize your work performance rather than just your beauty.

In fact, there are countless beautiful and capable professional women. Aren't British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher and HP CEO Carly Fiorina typical examples? Beauty is an advantage, but it is by no means the most important success factor. I hope that beautiful white-collar women will downplay their concern for beauty and face their work with better professionalism.