To what extent does a person feel inferior? What is the reason?

Once, a classmate brought a snack (when I was in the fourth grade). I didn't eat it, but I knew it was delicious and I always wanted to eat it, so I secretly took a piece to the toilet while they were out playing.

When I came back, they found a piece missing. They looked at me and doubted me but didn't say it.

And I pretend to study, my ears are red and hot, and my body is secretly trembling in the worn-out cotton-padded clothes, which is unforgettable. . .

Although I was one of the best students in my class at that time, even in my village, I was one of the top ten young pioneers, but I was the poorest one in my life.

If it weren't for my inferiority complex, I might not study so hard.

However, my excellent grades did not bring me a great sense of superiority. Instead, I envy other people's clothes, snacks and things to play with.

I have nothing, so I can't participate in their games. I can only bury myself in my studies. I diluted the fragrance of apples floating on my nose in the book, and I kept their happy laughter out of the exercise. I can only strive for the goal of full marks in all my homework to gain the respect of others and win glory for my parents.

I felt inferior for a long time. . .

This kind of inferiority is not only in the class, but also in various occasions. I hope others don't bully me too hard, don't give my parents trouble, and don't let others find my parents' reasons. In fact, I don't expect other people's praise, just ask other people's dogs to stay away from me. I'm really scared. Even if someone else's dog bit me, there are nine things I dare not tell my family. I know my parents can't compete with others.

Fortunately, this did not happen. I have been bullied by bad children, but I have never been bitten by dogs. When I was bullied by them, I cried desperately and satisfied their satisfaction with the saddest misery in exchange for being bullied less.

Fortunately, I am forty years old now, and I no longer feel inferior.

As an adult, I got more respect and help, which gradually made me no longer feel inferior.

Many classmates gave me clothes that I couldn't wear, and they were still very new. I know this is to help me, and I gladly accept it, because these clothes are much better than mine. . .

They also often give me delicious food. The strawberries and kiwis I ate for the first time were shared by my classmates, and they are my two favorite things now.

It was really hard to forget when I was a child. Even when I wrote this paragraph, my eyes were red.

My career is good now, but my mother is gone. If she were here, I would buy everything she envied others at that time and feed her!

Stop it. I miss my mother. . .

People with low self-esteem are very concerned about what others say. Once in my hometown, my uncle said about the demolition, because my mother-in-law followed us and said that the house would be given to my mother-in-law, but he didn't say anything about the demolition, and the demolition didn't happen. My uncle just made a casual remark. Relatives remember that I went home and told my sister that I wouldn't give him the house. The family looked down on him and didn't take him seriously. Arguing for several days. Because others have been wronged by a word for several days, it is useless for others to persuade them, so he will do everything and accept his fate. If someone is wrong, he may be narrow-minded and sulk for several days, taking it out on the people around him.

Because I owed a lot of debts, I didn't go home for the New Year in 78. No longer contact many friends and family, homesick and don't want to go home. I am embarrassed to meet my parents at home. I was born in1March, 9651July, and I will be 55 years old in two or three months. Now I still owe nearly 300 thousand. I have lent money to my friends, close relatives and children. I have a friend and a close family member who should give me more than 60,000 yuan. At the beginning of this year, I also paid 10,000 yuan to a boss in the village with an annual income of tens of millions. Although he didn't ask me for it, I didn't dare in recent years. I think so. As long as I pay him back, I should pay others more. Last month, I asked a friend for help, found the phone number of a lost boss, apologized to him, and planned to repay the 9000 yuan I borrowed from others with a gift after the holiday this year. Last year, I paid off nearly one hundred thousand yuan in debt. Pressure becomes motivation, and old people work miracles. I think people in their fifties can bite their teeth and pay off more than half a million debts by working, and they should also be proud of themselves and not feel inferior.

Inferiority is formed under the influence of one's own personality and family environment. Before, our company often recruited many interns to help. Once, among several interns assigned, a little girl who was still in the second year of high school often felt inferior. Although I usually chat with everyone, eat and eat snacks, I can see the loneliness and caution on her face from time to time. But I think since she is a college student, since she has come to work, she must adapt to the social environment, and both the good and the bad must be experienced and endured to make herself strong, so it is unnecessary.

Not long after, our manager came to talk to me. He said, what do you think of how many interns are here now? I said that each has its own characteristics. Some of them are very active but not competent, and the work they give is not done well. Although some people are introverted and don't do very well, they can see that they are very careful and attentive, so they have their own advantages. The manager told me, have you noticed this little girl Sophia? I noticed that I'm more introverted. Although chatting with everyone, I seem to be more silent than others. The manager went on to say that Sophia complained to him that the two little girls in the intern were hiding together and chatting during work hours, and often showed that they were wearing famous brands, and the content of the chat was also to buy luxury goods, which made Sophia feel that her self-esteem was hurt.

Only then did I realize that sometimes someone casually said a sentence, which was not aimed at anyone, but a bystander might be hurt by this sentence. Later, I had a meeting with all the interns and children, saying that you can do your own thing when you finish your work during working hours, but don't always chat and disturb people who are still working around. In addition, I will pay more attention to Sophia, a little girl, and chat with her to get to know her situation. Only then did I know that her family was in a small mountain village and there was a younger brother at home. The family situation was not rich, but her academic performance was very good, so she was admitted to a good university, but she wanted to help her parents share the burden, so she used her spare time to participate in internships to make money.

After knowing her situation, I often tell her about my favorite books, which I think will help her and encourage her. Although the internship time has just passed, I hope that what I told her can help her dispel some inner inferiority in her future life, and I also hope that she can rely on her own ability to gain live high's confidence in her future life.

When I was a child, I always felt taller than my friends, but I felt out of place, tall and thin like a bean sprout. I describe myself like this. Afraid of too big feet, I always wear shoes of the same size as my classmates and friends, squeezing my feet, wronged my feet and my height, and bowed my head with a bunch of friends. To look like harmonious point, like a normal and lovely girl. When I was a student, I really felt inferior. I was worried that I was not like other girls, with a cheerful personality, a uniform figure and beautiful new clothes to wear. [Cover your face]

Now I don't feel inferior. I don't have bean sprouts anymore. I'm still worried about getting fat and controlling myself. Whether the feet are long or not, although it is not a small size of 36 yards, it is not very big. The troubles before were insignificant, but now I am rolling in the dust and looking up at the blue sky.

This question also reminds me of a memory. I felt inferior for a while before, and I didn't finish high school.

I go to work in a factory. At that time, I weighed more than 200 kilograms and my face was covered with all kinds of acne. During that time, I

I feel very inferior. I don't like making friends, and I don't like making girlfriends. I don't talk to my colleagues much at work. I will stay at home after work.

Playing games in the dormitory is actually an escape. I don't know to what extent people feel most inferior, but

I can't describe how I felt at that time. Maybe I am too eager to be cared for and afraid of being cared for. Later, I met my present.

My current girlfriend, she took me to exercise to lose weight and bought me medicine to treat the acne on my face, although my face is not perfect now.

But I can hardly see the past. He enlightened me, encouraged me and worked hard with me. Now, I have walked out of the shadow of inferiority.

Come on, I want to tell you people who are equally inferior, as long as you live hard and accept the good and bad that the world gives you.

Well, go out of the room, look up, look at the sun bravely, and find someone who loves you, and you will no longer feel inferior. Come on!

The degree of inferiority varies from person to person, and of course it is also influenced by the environment.

For example, my roommate feels inferior, at least in our dormitory, she is the least confident. No matter what certificate we want to take and what clothes we want to buy, she will always say: this certificate is very difficult for me; This dress is really nice, but it certainly doesn't look good on me. Wait, I don't think she feels inferior to being safe. What are the reasons for inferiority complex? We say overconfidence is conceit and pride, so I'm not talking about inferiority here. Self-confidence won't make you overconfident and feel superior. The degree of inferiority is influenced by the environment, such as family environment, school environment ... In the family environment, the most important thing is the influence of parents. First of all, parents are the children's first teachers, and each child has the most contact with people every day, so every move of parents will subtly affect every move of children. If parents are insecure about something, then children will naturally accept this insecure emotional attitude and become insecure or inferior over time. Of course, it is also important for parents to encourage their children. A word of encouragement can enhance children's self-confidence and make them feel the joy of success. Therefore, encouragement is also a great way.

The more inferior a person is, the less courage he has to show himself. Dare not go to crowded places to participate in some debates or express their views. I always think of my last speech, but I still have no courage in the end.

In most cases, this kind of inferiority is caused by the circle of life, and sometimes it may be related to loneliness. Lack of care from others or society, resulting in some kind of mental injury, lack of self-confidence, and particularly strong personal self-esteem. I always feel that I am inferior to others in some aspects, and I am afraid that my words will be laughed at by others. What's worse, I may develop autism.

Therefore, we should pay more attention to friends with strong inferiority complex, eliminate their nervousness, give them more verbal encouragement and increase their self-confidence.

Inferiority is actually a character defect, especially when I was a child, I was laughed at by my family or friends around me. Therefore, I need confidence. Of course, many of them are in the growth stage of the day after tomorrow, because they have worked hard, but they have not reached the expected expectations, resulting in a psychological gap.

Inferiority is generally reflected in:

1/ Dare not look at others, dislike or dare not communicate with others.

2/ For example, attending a party of classmates or colleagues has no sense of existence. A person is immersed in his own affairs in the corner, and many of them are forced to say it, or dare not say a word. This is a sign of inferiority.

3/ Walking on the road, if someone talks behind his back, he will feel that he is pointing at himself, as if many people are deliberately targeting themselves.

4/ If a girl confesses to herself and communicates with herself, she will immediately stop communicating with him because she feels that she is not worthy of her at all.

5/ If someone keeps staring at himself, immediately check his clothes in a panic for fear of being laughed at by others.

6/ Walking on the road, or communicating with people, rarely looking straight, often hunching. Because I have bowed my head for a long time, I dare not look up and lack confidence.

7/ I do a lot of things, I dare not devote myself wholeheartedly, and my appearance seems cold. In fact, I am uneasy and very afraid of being seen through.

Inferiority is actually a sign of lack of self-confidence. If people want to change their inferiority complex, they must be full of self-confidence. They can start from their own areas of expertise, improve their inner state, make themselves full of courage and face all the challenges in life!

But everyone has more or less inferiority complex, because everyone wants to live a better life and become a better person. To some extent, inferiority can actually promote a person's progress.

Because everyone has different growth experiences and different environments, everyone has different degrees of inferiority. If the degree of inferiority is too heavy, which seriously affects daily life and interpersonal communication, it is necessary to seek psychological treatment.

To solve inferiority complex, we must first trace back to the source and find the psychological root of inferiority complex, so how is inferiority complex formed?