Excerpts of exquisite sentences

Excerpts of exquisite sentences

1. If life cannot be changed, I will change it. No one wants to ruin my good mood. ——Wang Shuo

2. Life is counting down from the beginning. Don’t let unnecessary trivial matters consume limited life fuel. It is best not to do things that are not worth doing or to do as little as possible. Because that not only wastes time and energy, but also sends the wrong signal of "busyness" to yourself, allowing you to get superficial self-comfort and illusory satisfaction. When you wake up, you will find that nothing you should do has been done, and the vicissitudes of time have already covered your face.

3. On the road of life, everything must be relied on by oneself - by one's own understanding, by one's own will, by one's own pursuit... Life is a one-way ticket, once gone there is no return, we can All we can do is keep working hard, and all we can rely on is ourselves.

4. One characteristic of smart people is that they are good at doing worthless things in a dramatic way. They can swim in a glass fish tank and have the courage to ride the wind and waves. ——Wang Shuo

5. The so-called practice of smiling is not to mechanically move your facial expressions, but to work hard to change your mentality and adjust your mood. Learn to accept reality calmly, learn to tell yourself to let nature take its course, learn to face misfortune calmly, learn to view life positively, and learn to think for the best in everything. In this way, sunlight will flow into your heart, driving away fear, driving away darkness, and driving away all classic sentence excerpts

6. Things recommended by psychologists to make you happy: Take a few photos every day ;Watching happy movies; daydreaming on weekend mornings; sending cards to friends; walking by the water; eating a big meal occasionally; exercising once a week; singing loudly while driving; drinking coffee, While reading novels; while talking on the phone, doodling; while taking a shower, singing.

7. If you become strong enough, others will not be able to reject you; if you can command yourself, difficulties will not be able to hinder you... Only by changing yourself first can you change your world. change your life.

8. When you hold on to something in your hand, you can only have this thing. If you are willing to let go, you will have the opportunity to choose something else. If a person's heart clings to his own ideas and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

9. You originally believed in Buddhism, but the monk hurt your heart. You originally believed in Christ, but the church hurt your heart. You didn't believe anything, and you hurt your own heart. ——Wang Shuo

10. If you see the shadow in front of you, don’t be afraid, it’s because there is sunshine behind you.

11. If people who envy others only stay in envy, they will always only envy others. Learn to envy yourself, then know how to be grateful, and ultimately win success. In the world, there are many people who admire others, but few people who envy themselves. If you do something that most people don't do, you will win over most people. Learn to envy yourself, and it will be easier for you to cherish what you have. Learning to envy yourself actually means being good at discovering your own strengths and weaknesses. What suits your life is best.

12. Following is not the way to enlightenment. ——Wang Shuo

13. I think happiness is the ability to be narcissistic. Those who can ignore reality, omit reality, and virtual reality are all pretty awesome. ——Wang Shuo

14. What is coming will come sooner or later. Just love what you want to love. None of us can win the race against time. Face everything calmly and indifferently. When you meet the person you like, you must cherish your fate. Whether it is a passer-by in your life or a long-term confidant, it is a lifetime of wonderful memories. It is rare to have a few true friends in the sea of ??people. Please don’t care about this love and cherish the people in front of you.

15. Modern people summarize several major elements of success: correct thinking, unremitting actions, great character, skilled skills, God-given opportunities, and precious health. It can be seen that if you want to succeed, you must not only endure the "suffering of hardships", but also need the cooperation and support of relevant conditions. Those who only know about suffering, those who have suffered hardships that are not worth it, and those who regard suffering as a magic weapon to solve all problems. People, I am afraid, can only continue to wander in the cycle of "suffering within suffering".

16. I used to think that when I was sad, I would shed a lot of tears. It turns out that when I am truly sad, I won’t shed a single tear.

17. Those seemingly enthusiastic words are all jokes.

This destructive habit is based on a deep-seated sense of superiority. Yes, they think they are great, they have talents that have little effort to establish themselves, they fall into the bottom of society without realizing it, their flesh is rotten but their mouth is rotten, they maintain arrogance in their words, it is like living in a dream, they are still outstanding and look down on all living beings. He likes to pretend to be big, he is a hooligan, he is hypocritical, and he is a bit reluctant to be lonely. However, he is not a so-called little person with a messy smile. ——Wang Shuo "Looking Beautiful"

18. I once thought that life would be endless and that the future would be completely different. Now, I'm stuck in my own future. I haven't noticed any real changes in myself. My dream is still as far away as when I was a child. The only difference is that I no longer intend to realize it. ——Wang Shuo

19. I hope to live in a movie. All the unsatisfactory encounters in life will be simplified into a line of subtitles in the movie: Many years later. ——Wang Shuo

20. What determines how high you can stand and how far you can go is the height and depth of your thoughts. More reverse thinking to get rid of the shackles of dogma; more critical thinking to break through the shackles; more empathy thinking to avoid self-centeredness; more systematic thinking to eliminate one-sided misunderstandings; more image thinking to avoid being too boring in everything; If you think more logically, everything will be inextricably linked; if you think more simply, your world will be simpler.

21. Entering society is a new environment and contact with new people. All your past is a blank sheet of paper to them. This is the best time for you to reshape your own image. No matter how you get rid of your previous shortcomings or enter a new environment, you should appear with a brand new image.

22. There is a kind of person who occasionally fights and quarrels with you, but he also loves and protects you more than anyone else. This is called brotherhood; Heartfelt people who always say that making money is not easy but always give you money when they are short of money are called parents; there is a kind of person who always thinks about you even if you don't see them, making you unable to forget them. This is called a lover; there is a kind of person who grows up under the protection of parents and grows up in the world. Position yourself among your siblings and find true love in the care of your lover. This is called a confidant!

23. Don’t imagine that you will be the darling at the job fair. When you understand that 70% of junior high school students can go to college, you should understand that people will not worship the majority of a group. .

24. Happiness is actually not complicated! When you are hungry, food is happiness, just enough to fill you up; when you are thirsty, water is happiness, just enough to drink; when you are cold, clothes are happiness, just enough to wear; when you are poor, money is happiness, just enough to use; when you are tired, , Leisure is happiness, as long as you have enough; when you are sleepy, sleep is happiness, as long as you have enough. When we are in love, caring is happiness; when we are apart, memories are happiness. Life is determined by me and not by God; happiness is determined by the heart and not by circumstances.

25. Experience tells me that most people are not worthy of my honest attitude. Honesty most of the time does not make things easier, but leads to embarrassment and unnecessary speculation. They are generally accused of being short-sighted and encourage a very bad mentality: arrogance. ——Wang Shuo's "Letter to My Daughter"

26. If people block me, I will kneel down to them - I don't tolerate myself. ——Wang Shuo

27. I feel more and more that I am separated from this society and am a bit cynical. With this mentality, I should stay away from others and not hinder those who are living a good life. Withdraw from other people's lives. Both calm and anxious, the calm lies in one's true self, and the anxiety lies in the inability to restrain the urge to express one's stance. ——Wang Shuo's "Letter to My Daughter"

28. Sometimes, I am in an inexplicable bad mood and don't want to talk to anyone. I just want to be alone in a daze. Sometimes, in the dead of night, I suddenly feel that it's not that I can't sleep, but that I stubbornly don't want to sleep. Sometimes, when you hear a song, you suddenly think of a person. Sometimes, someone suddenly says to you, I think you have changed, and then you start to have mixed feelings. If you lose yourself, you can only pick it back up slowly.

29. There will always be people who say good things about you, and there will always be people who say bad things about you, but as long as we behave with a clear conscience, we don’t have to be obsessed with other people’s judgments. There is no need to look at other people's eyes, and there is no need to blindly please others, as that will make your life more tiring. When someone makes disrespectful remarks to you, please don't pay attention, and don't get upset about it. Because these words cannot change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. If the mind is in chaos, everything will be in chaos.

30. Love is not charity and cannot be given casually.

There is no formula, no principle, no reason to follow in feelings. But people are still persisting and pursuing until death.

31. The most miserable distance in the world is when two people were originally very far apart and did not know each other. Suddenly one day, they met and fell in love, and the distance became very close. Then one day, they no longer loved each other, and the two people who were so close became far apart, even farther than before.

32. Someone told me that the memory of a fish is only 7 seconds. After 7 seconds, it will not remember the past and everything will become new again. Therefore, the fish in that small fish tank will never feel bored. I would rather be a fish and forget everything once the 7 seconds pass. The people I have met and the things I have done can all disappear. But I am not a fish. I cannot forget the person I love, the pain of caring, and the pain of lovesickness.

33. Dare to confront everyone and realize your dreams to the end, which is the ultimate form of life. ——Wang Shuo

34. Shopkeeper Xia in "Crossing Guandong" said: "No one wants to deal with people who are always hypocritical and smooth, but being blindly honest can easily hurt people. Therefore, businessmen What matters is great honesty, that is, saying the right thing to the right person at the right time. "It can be seen that the opportunity for everyone to tell the truth is actually very small. If frankness is a disservice, choose a witty lie.

35. Say a word of relief to those who are embarrassed, a word of encouragement to those who are depressed, a word of reminder to those who are doubtful, a word of confidence to those who have low self-esteem, and a word of confidence to those who are in pain and frustration. A word of comfort and sympathy is better to provide help in times of need than to add icing on the cake.

36. Smooth sailing is also boring. The main thing is to look at the ending, which is impressive, and some ups and downs in the process will be discussed in the future. ——Wang Shuo

37. We will always think that what we can’t get is beautiful. That’s because you know too little about him and don’t have time to spend time with him. One day, when you understand deeply, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

38. Time is a rag collector. You wanted to throw the rags to him, but you accidentally threw them away too. ——Wang Shuo "Time Theory"

39. Giving yourself a cliff with no retreat is giving yourself an opportunity to charge to the high ground of life, and it is also giving yourself a ticket to excellence.

40. I really hope to live in a movie. The next shot is a line of subtitles: Many years later. ——Wang Shuo

41. The sea does not reject small streams, so it can become as big as it is; mountains do not reject fine soil, so it can become as high as possible. The work we are doing now may be too mundane or trivial. But this is work, it is life, and it is the indispensable foundation for the success of people. For dedicated people, nothing is trivial and simple does not mean easy.

42. When under pressure, I instinctively choose to compromise and obey. I would rather resort to submissive means than stand up and say no! Because I have never been convinced by anyone, I don’t bother to seek other people’s understanding. People are stubborn and self-righteous, and the only way to live in peace is to deceive. ——Wang Shuo "Ferocious Animals"

43. Bend. Know how to bend in order not to break integrity; sometimes, appropriate bending is a kind of reason; in reality, bending contains rich philosophy. Learning to bend is to follow the trend; sometimes, proper bending is a kind of detachment; in life, bending embodies the art of tolerance. Dare to bend in order to stand firmer; sometimes, proper bending is a state; in fact, bending can solve annoying problems.

44. The more vision you have, the less excitement you have. ——Wang Shuo

45. Just like in the fairy tale, two greedy people dug up treasures in the ground and found a human skeleton. Although they were quickly buried and even planted trees and flowers on it, But both of them knew clearly what was buried underneath. I saw trees and flowers, but I was thinking of the skeleton in the ground. ——Wang Shuo "Death if you have too much fun"

46. The biggest problem in life is that you care too much about what others think of you. But does anyone really care about you? There are only three kinds of people in this world: those who love you, those who hate you and those who don't care about you. It's impossible for everyone to be nice to you, but as long as there is one person who is willing to be nice to you, you have to be responsible to the other person, and this is the meaning of our lives. For the person who loves you, you must love back. This is a responsibility and a blessing.

47. Happy people are not without pain, but they are not influenced by pain. Life will inevitably encounter pain unexpectedly. In fact, pain is not terrible. What is terrible is the betrayal of oneself in the heart. Sort out your mood, forget those unpleasant past events, listen to music, play the piano, look at the scenery, say what you can, be a simple person, and take the road of happiness. Put on a smile and set off with happiness.

48. The more you take something seriously, the more important it becomes. If we stare at a drooping flag for a long time, it will slowly flutter; if we stare at a tree for a long time, the leaves will A pair of eyes will appear to look at us; if we stare at a tall building for a long time, it will turn upside down towards us. ——Wang Shuo

49. When I go to bed at night, I touch your hand as if I were touching my own hand. There is no feeling. But sawing off your hand is just like sawing off my hand. pain. ——Wang Shuo "A Sigh"

50. If you see me or not, I am there, neither sad nor happy; if you miss me or not, my love is there, never coming or going. ; You love me, or you don’t love me, the love is there, neither increasing nor decreasing; whether you follow me, or not, my hand is in yours, and I will never give up or give up. Come into my arms, or let me live in your heart, love each other silently, and be happy in silence.

51. People are often eager to grow up, and then lament their lost childhood; exchange health for money, and soon want to use money to restore health; anxious about the future, but ignore the present happiness, neither Live in the present and not in the future. Life is only a few decades, so don’t lament that you have never lived before you die.

52. You are still young and still beautiful - Wang Shuo's "Half Seawater, Half Fire"

53. There was a moment when we thought we had grown up and had One day, we finally discovered that growing up means not only desire but also courage and strength, as well as some necessary sacrifice. In front of life, we are still children. In fact, we have never grown up and do not know how to love and be loved.

54. Two people need tolerance to get along with each other. No matter how close the relationship between two people is, they will always have different ideas. In this way, conflicts are inevitable. Time is the natural enemy of love. If love wants to defeat time, what we want is tolerance rather than possession, and warmth rather than passion.

55. For strangers, either treat them as a blank sheet of paper, or treat them as your friends. In short, don’t treat them as enemies, no matter how many bad things you hear about him or her. rumors.

56. You can dispel any shadow that hangs over you. ——Wang Shuo's "Letter to My Daughter"

57. "In my boyhood, my feelings were not as easy to control as a graduated cough syrup bottle. I often overreacted to trivial things, either. Being indifferent will destroy the liver and gallbladder. It is similar to a ferocious beast. It is safe to watch only if it is kept in a cage. Once it is released, it will immediately threaten all life." - Wang Shuo's "Animal Ferocity".

58. Anger - punishing yourself with other people's mistakes; worry - torturing yourself with your own mistakes; regret - using helpless past events to torture yourself; worry - using virtual risks To frighten oneself; to be alone is to imprison oneself in a self-made prison; to feel inferior is to use the strengths of others to undermine oneself. If you give up these things, you may be happier!

59. Looking forward, it is just around the corner; looking back, it is fast approaching. This is how I feel about the years. ——Wang Shuo

60. I don’t remember loving my parents. When I was little, I was afraid of them, and when I got older, I started to annoy them. Later, I became intimidated by them, making noises when I met them. Then I looked down on them and avoided them. On the one hand, I felt that I was responsible for them and should treat them better. But I just couldn't do it or pretend it. Later, when I thought of them, I felt sad. ——Wang Shuo's "Letter to My Daughter"

61. People eating, sleeping, talking, laughing and walking around here feel like they are on a stage. The field of vision is quite open, but the heart is tense. I understand that my consciousness is always watched by outside eyes. Every move contains an element of acting. The life scenes are unknowingly tainted with drama. The sense of achievement and frustration are extremely strong. Many things seem to be deliberately done for failure. Occurred in the presence of a third party.

——Wang Shuo "Looking Beautiful"

62. If you want to become a happy and successful person, the most important thing is to remember to close the door behind you and learn to forget all past mistakes and mistakes. Don't Indulge in troubles and regrets, and keep looking forward; time goes by and it will never come back. Tomorrow is a new day. Don't let past mistakes and mistakes become tomorrow's burden.

63. Don’t think too much, just let nature take its course, and you will eventually get what you deserve.

64. Women are like glasses. If the prescription is not appropriate, continuing to wear them will only damage your vision. ——Wang Shuo

65. I once raised a fly. It hit the glass in the winter. When I opened the window in the spring, it fell down after passing by the window. I said, what are you pretending to be? It said: Not used to it. ——Wang Shuo

66. If love can be explained, vows can be modified. What if the encounter between you and me could be rearranged. Then life will be easier. If one day, I can finally forget you. However, this is no casual tale. It is not a drama that will be performed only tomorrow. I can't find the original manuscript, and then erase you with one stroke.

67. Suddenly I realized that in this world, the most precious things are free. Sunshine, air, family affection, friendship, love, goals, faith, hope, will, and dreams are all free. As long as you want it, you can get it. There is also spring breeze, drizzle, bright moonlight, and brilliant stars. How many beautiful scenery in the world that nourishes the soul are free

68. Whether you are happy in life is often not Depends on how much you have. Therefore, don’t care about what you pay and what you gain, and don’t always let yourself be unhappy and looking for trouble. Asking for trouble is probably the biggest self-injustice in life. Why do you need to wrong yourself? Don't be like this, and don't always feel that you are lacking something. As long as you are happy, you will lack nothing.

69. Bring dependence on the road, bring exhortations on the road, bring happiness on the road, bring sweetness on the road, bring love and being loved on the road, and bring safety on the road.

70. There is only one way to distinguish levels in society, and that is competition. You must work hard, otherwise you will end up being pressed at the bottom of society.

71. No one has the patience to listen to you tell your story, because everyone has something to say; no one likes to hear you complain about life, because everyone has their own pain; most people in the world Loneliness, the world is willing to listen, and there are only a few people who are used to silence. I no longer want to mention my past to others. The loneliness and desolation that I struggled with in my nightmares should be left to time and gradually become indifferent.

72. Happiness is not about getting too much, but about caring about less. People who live in confusion are easy to be happy; people who live soberly are easy to be troubled. A sober person sees too clearly, and when he becomes serious, his life will be full of troubles; a confused person cares less, and although he lives a simple and rough life, he finds the great taste of life.

73. First learn to follow the crowd, then learn to be different; first learn to be complex, then learn to be simple; first learn to love yourself, then learn to love others; first learn to love your relatives, then learn to love your friends; first learn how to Live, and then learn to experience life; learn to be a human being first, and then learn to be an official; demand yourself first, and then demand others; learn to adapt first, and then learn to be independent!

74. Cherish the pain that person brings you, and enjoy the traces left by love. Years later, when passion fades and life becomes numb, this pain becomes a luxury that cannot be obtained. When I look back and think of that person, I will say, thank you for causing me pain. It hurts because I loved you!

75. You must behave in a measured manner and accept when you see something good. Greed will send you to the grave; leave enough face for others and help others save their face; be merciful to others when you can, and kill them all. It's no good; reserve your opinions, and excessive arguments will not help you; no matter how good the relationship is, it must be close and appropriate; grasp the scale of joking, and don't overdo it with humor.

76. Survival is actually very simple, just refuse to fall; Survival is actually very simple, just have the courage to retreat; Survival is actually very simple, just don’t be bound by the success model; Survival is actually very simple, when you win Just keep quiet; survival is actually very simple, just choose to be strong in a difficult environment; survival is actually very simple, just turn your flaws into motivation.

77. The distance of happiness is sometimes close and sometimes far. I think it is just around the corner, but in the blink of an eye it is still far away. A peaceful life is like a glass of boiled water. It tastes bland and tasteless, but we don’t know that it is its purity and flawlessness that makes our lives happy. Only those who understand life can taste the sweetness and happiness in the ordinary.

78. I think the Chinese family relationship is not normal. Children bear so many responsibilities. Parents try their best to demand their children. I especially hate this saying that winning is at the starting line. Children are trained to be A money-making machine, this is called success. On the surface, it is for the benefit of the children, but in fact, it is to have a backer in the future, ruthlessly depriving the children of their childhood happiness. This is an inverted, inverted human nature. This is not loving children, so there will be such strange logic, that is, if I am good for you, I can hit you, if I love you, I will hit you. ——Wang Shuo's "Letter to My Daughter"

79. Joy should be accompanied by sadness, and the sky should be sunny after the rain. If it's still rain after rain, if it's still sad after sadness. Please allow us to calmly face the parting after parting. Smile and look for an impossible you!