Parents' WeChat group is so convenient, is it necessary for teachers to visit? what do you think?

At the same time, however, some people have reported that some parents "lined up" to praise, "Gai Lou" left a message, and basked in the baby ... The group originally used to strengthen the contact between teachers and parents has quietly gone bad.

In addition, I recently heard that a primary school in Beijing began to advocate teachers' home visits and normalized this traditional model. So far, the teachers of this school have entered 1 18 families; The principal and deputy head teachers of the school have achieved 100% participation in home visits.

A voice discussion was launched last weekend, and the topic of home visits was actively participated by teachers and parents. In the background message, someone said: "Very supportive, because home visits are more convenient for teachers to understand the family situation of students than WeChat and qq." However, there are also different voices saying, "It should be said that home visits can really understand students more comprehensively, but now teachers are busy from morning till night, where can they find time for home visits?"

In fact, WeChat group and home visit are both forms, and home-school communication is the essence. Teachers and parents, in your opinion, what are the advantages and disadvantages of WeChat group and home visit, which one do you prefer?

Is the parent group "easy to use" or "annoying"? What experience do you have?

With the group, it is more convenient for teachers and parents to communicate.

The teacher will arrange homework in the group, inform the children about the school situation and inform the class related matters. Parents are very convenient for everyone to know the basic information.

Some teachers even send videos of their children at school every day, so that parents can see their children's performance at school, which is really practical.

Other parents said that some teachers said in a unified way in the group, which avoided possible misunderstandings of children and made communication faster and more transparent.

Answer questions openly and improve communication efficiency.

Sometimes, the problem of one parent in the group may be the problem of many parents. After the teacher answered, he actually answered many parents' questions at the same time, avoiding the situation of private communication and repeated answers by the teacher, improving the teacher's work efficiency and reducing the pressure.

"Bombing" regardless of time and details is sometimes unbearable.

Some parents have reported that the original intention of establishing parent groups is definitely good, but it may sometimes get out of control in practice. For example, some parents seek attention in the sun in the group, and some send WeChat business links to the group, which makes some parents "uncomfortable".

And teachers are not easy. Some teachers said that in the past, parents usually had concerns about time when they called or met, but after having a group, they met their parents who ignored the time and details and felt at work at any time.

Do you like it, Gai Lou ... The parent group has changed a little.

"Queue" likes, "Gai Lou" leaves a message, likes collection, WeChat merchants purchase ... Some parents say that some parents are a little stale now!

A resident of Huai 'an, Jiangsu Province said that every time he opened his parents' group, there were more than 500 unread messages, of which only 1 was a notice, and the remaining 499 were replies such as "OK, the teacher received it for me", "The teacher bothered" and "Thank you very much".

However, some parents think that parents with teachers should speak appropriately, reflecting the level of family education; After the teacher sends out the notice, he should reply in time, reflecting his enthusiastic participation in school affairs.

A primary school in Beijing has taken a different approach and advocated the normalization of home visits.

Aside from the "easy to use" and "annoying" parents here, let's take a look at the practice of this primary school in Beijing. They found another way and began to pay attention to traditional home visits!

"When a teacher comes to a student's family, he will bring care for the students into this family. This kind of action is the best education for students, and they will learn to care in our invisible care. " Hui Jin, principal of Yimei Primary School in Dongcheng District, said.

Although it is not mandatory, in the past four years, home visits have become a voluntary normalization work for teachers in this primary school. At present, the principal and deputy head teachers of the school have achieved 100% participation in home visits.

Through home visits, the teacher found the other side of the child.

On 20 14, Ms. Zhao, who just finished maternity leave, took a new class, which was the first time that she began to attend classes in the lower grades. Unlike middle school students, parents in lower grades pay more attention to their children, and parents especially want to know the details of their children at school. "So Miss Zhao responded to the school's initiative and began to" go home ".

Through home visits, Mr. Zhao learned that many students' parents have small business and tight working hours, so they rarely have time to watch mobile phones. Teacher Zhao lumped these parents together. Every time the school has a notice, it will call these parents directly, or make an appointment with them in advance to communicate with them at a convenient time.

"After the home visit, I can understand some of the children's performances." Home visits not only help teacher Zhao improve the efficiency of class management, but also help her better understand the deep-seated reasons behind some children's behaviors.

Now, the new class has reached the fifth grade. As the head teacher and the family members of 36 students in the class, Mr. Zhao has also been to various places, and some "key objects" have been there more than once. Home visits are not "gossiping", and language is also an art and knowledge. "We don't want to point out the shortcomings of children, but we want to find ways to make children better with parents."

Reading will be excluded through home visits.

For some time, Teacher Wu has been thinking about how to make children fall in love with reading. When she visited her home with confusion, she found that many parents had the same expectations as her. "How about reading in my spare time?" In the summer vacation after grade one, some parents made such suggestions. Despite the rush of time, this suggestion has been responded by more than a dozen parents. Children sit around the community garden and share their most interesting stories with you.

Later, under the leadership of the new class teacher, Mr. Li, the content and form of the reading club became richer, and reading became the most fashionable thing in this class and even the whole school.

"Children have become generous and confident from the past, and the usual reading club gives children the opportunity to show themselves in front of the public." The two class teachers feel that the spark generated by home visits has made many things that were difficult before possible. "The more parents participate, the smoother the school's work."

Teachers and parents have something to say about home visits, whether they are "applauding" or "worrying".

Some people say that home visits are irreplaceable warmth. So what do teachers and parents think of home visits?

I heard that the teacher was coming to visit, and the parents said ...

1. Welcome! It is impossible to understand a student without field home visits.

Some parents said that it is best for teachers to squeeze out time during holidays, take a walk in students' homes and communicate face to face with parents and students.

Ms. Huang of Wenzhou believes that it is impossible to really understand a student without visiting him on the spot. "Telephone and WeChat are really convenient, but parents are generally reluctant to disclose the specific family situation and living environment. However, these factors have a great influence on the growth of children. "

"The last time I visited my son's head teacher and another teacher, they were both very young, but I could see that they were very nervous." Teacher Ma of Jinan said that he welcomes teachers' home visits, which can not only exchange children's performance inside and outside the school with teachers, but also hope that children can be more polite at this time and leave a better impression on teachers. These are all things that "electronic home visits" can't do.

User @ 中中中中中 commented: "You can't touch the actual situation of your child with WeChat. Some children behave the same at school and behave the same at home. It is better to maintain the traditional home visit mode. "

2. worry! Why did the teacher come? How to entertain? Will you ignore the teacher?

Some parents admit that it is too difficult for teachers to go to their home after work because of the variety of contact information now. Some parents think that home visits not only bring pressure to parents, but also make children uneasy, so they don't want teachers to visit them.

Mr. Yang of Wenzhou City has a daughter who goes to primary school. He said that if there are no special circumstances, teachers can contact parents by phone or by holding parent-teacher conferences. "Frankly speaking, I feel quite stressed about the teacher's visit. We want to know how the children are doing at school, or the teacher thinks it is necessary to communicate with parents, just call and WeChat directly, saving time and effort. " Mr. Yang said.

"It is very welcome for teachers to visit our parents at home, but how to receive them is a bit difficult." Ms. Li of Hefei said that on Monday, the school informed that some students' families might be selected for home visits, and their parents were bombed. Ms. Li privately discussed with several close parents how to receive the teacher, and everyone had different opinions.

Home visit, the teacher said ...

1. It is necessary to enter students' lives.

Some teachers said that the traditional home visit mode helps schools and teachers to go deeper into students' lives, find problems and solve them in time.

The objects of home visits can be selective, and a large part of them are children with certain defects in personality and study. Parents of these children seldom take the initiative to communicate with teachers, so it is necessary for teachers to take the initiative to enter their families and lives.

User @cjf-lf left a message saying: "Home visits can help teachers to understand students' situation more comprehensively and carefully, and provide more effective methods to solve various problems of students. "

There are many children in the class, so they are busy at work at ordinary times, and home visits consume energy.

"Traditional home visits are good, but the teacher is under too much pressure." A primary school teacher in Wenzhou admits that there are certain restrictions on home visits. For example, make a lot of preparations in advance and communicate with parents in advance.

Netizen @ Cai Yuqiao was deeply touched and left a message saying: "I have been home for a week, and I am so tired to go home at 9 o'clock every day."

Teachers should not only engage in teaching tasks, but also be busy with teaching and scientific research. There are 40 students in a class, and going to their home to choose the time will take up a lot of time and energy of the teacher.

3. Teachers are also embarrassed when they visit "cold" and "hot"

Teacher Sun is the head teacher of a primary school in Hefei. Once, she was going to visit Xiaoying, a student. Because she is introverted in the class, in order to prevent her parents from preparing to increase their burden in advance, Teacher Sun directly found Xiaoying's home without telling her parents in advance. Unexpectedly, however, when she explained her identity, a person who claimed to be Xiaoying's mother in the house told her that the family was chaotic and the father of the child was not at home, which made it inconvenient to receive the teacher. Teacher Sun finally got the "closed door".

Netizen @ 20 17 left a message saying: "Home is a relatively private place, and it would be a bit embarrassing if the teacher suddenly informed me to be a guest at home."

However, if parents are too enthusiastic, teachers will be at a loss.

A teacher in Wenzhou said: "As soon as I arrived at the students' home, my parents began to arrange meals and insisted that I stay at home for dinner. "

"My parents said to wait for me in one place, fearing that I couldn't find my home address. As a result, I got there and was directly pulled into the hotel next to me. " Teacher Xue is the head teacher of a well-known middle school in Hefei, and in the course of home visits these days, there have been more than one "enthusiastic" parent like this, which makes him somewhat at a loss.