What do those strange beauties who take the initiative to add you want to do?

You see a girl who is excited and want to chat with her and get her WeChat account? Girls may be very attracted to you, but striking up a conversation is not a matter of just one or two chats. The knowledge involved is also very particular. If you do 2 or more points, it is very likely that a girl who is attracted to you will take the initiative to strike up a conversation with you

Tip 1. Make yourself a "fate friendly person"

Whether you take the initiative or passively, making yourself appear to be someone who is easy to get close to and willing to make friends is the first key to a successful conversation. Research in social psychology has found that people who smile, are willing to make eye contact, and integrate their body language into the surrounding environment exude the invincible charm of "fate-friendly people". That is generally speaking, "eye connection" means that you should take the initiative to make eye contact with others and nod gently when your eyes meet to convey respect and friendliness. If at a party, everyone has a glass of wine, your hands must not be empty. If there is music, your body should dance with it. In this way, those who are interested in you and those who belong to you will be attracted to you and happy. Be close to you.

Tip 2. Look for clues from the environment and speak gracefully

If you approach directly and say: "I like you very much, may I get to know you?" With luck, you will win. Jackpot, but more often than not, you will be asking for trouble by scaring people, swaying in the wind alone, surrounded by only embarrassing circles, and other beauties will be even more discouraged. The best way is to find clues from the environment. And do what they like, and let your words be generous and not obtrusive. For example: in the supermarket, you can ask: "Do you know if this brand of products is good?" In the library, say: "I also like this book you borrowed." In a coffee shop, greet like this: "I am the Are you coming here for the first time?" If you can politely add: "I'm sorry to bother you, may I ask..." before speaking, the girl's favorability towards you will also increase.

I have some summary of how to strike up a conversation with strangers of the opposite sex. The following are the circumstances, methods and ideas of striking up a conversation:

In fact, when it comes to this, everyone will find that actually striking up a conversation is not a simple matter of going over and asking for a phone call. From the stage of asking for a phone call, a good impression is laid to pave the way for the later stage. Therefore, when meeting the opposite sex, you must be clever and natural. In this way, you can leave an excellent impression on the other party at the beginning of the conversation, and you can follow the whole process from You don’t have to worry too much about the process from getting to know each other to being in contact with each other and then having a lasting relationship. All developments will be very natural and unobtrusive.

This has a lot to do with how you get to know each other, so what I want to tell you is to strike up a conversation and get to know strangers of the opposite sex. The purpose of getting to know each other must be very clear, and the way of getting to know each other must be as natural as possible. First of all, We will talk about several situations (not all included) that you often encounter when meeting strangers of the opposite sex.

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