16 years old, how should I position myself?

Positioning the goal of life is actually planning your life.

Life planning includes many life goals, but it is just one of them.

First of all, I suggest you calm down and think about what kind of career you want to pursue in the future. Is there room for development in this profession? Can you stick to it?

Setting goals is the first step to success, so your choice now is very important.

The first choice is the choice of career. Choose a career and fight for it.

When you have a certain amount of funds, you can try to invest and start your own business. Ten factors that can affect your life orientation more.

Each of us will have our own life orientation, and the final orientation will often be influenced by various factors, including internal factors, such as our own personality and temper, hobbies, etc., as well as external factors, such as the influence of public opinion, relatives and friends, etc. To sum up, the following ten factors have the greatest impact on our young people's lives:

First, personality

An extroverted and active person, if you let him sit in a boring room all day doing statistical work, he will definitely not stand it; On the contrary, if you let a shy, quiet and introverted person go out to run business and talk about business alone, it is estimated that he is also difficult to be competent. Therefore, personality directly affects a person's life orientation. After graduating from technical secondary school, Jiang found a stable job with the help of his parents and worked as a typist in a public institution. However, she is lively, cheerful and outgoing, and is not suitable for the depressing environment in the office. Once, the leader in the unit learned that she was a good drinker and asked her to accompany her to a banquet. At the banquet, I met Jiang, the president of a real estate company. The young president praised Jiang's lively personality and quick talk. Not long after, Jiang received an invitation from the president to be the deputy manager of the marketing department. Jiang resigned from her office without hesitation and joined the real estate company. Although many people regret her choice, she is very happy because she thinks her personality is more suitable for this new job.

Second, hobbies

Everyone has his own hobbies. How happy he would be if he could turn his hobby into a lifelong career! Therefore, many young people will subconsciously associate their hobbies with their life orientation when facing future choices. Pan Hong is a clerk at the cosmetics counter in a large shopping mall. Because she likes writing very much, she always pays close attention to all kinds of goods, fashion trends, prices and other information in the mall, and often uses her working hours to write down the information collected during the day and send it to several newspapers. Because of his good writing and familiarity with the situation, his manuscripts are often adopted. A few years later, she became the backbone reporter of several newspapers. One day, Pan Hong suddenly received a phone call from an editor of the newspaper, telling her that the newspaper was about to openly recruit a group of reporters to the society, and enthusiastically mobilized her to apply for the exam. This is a good opportunity for Pan Hong. In this way, with the encouragement and care of the editor, Pan Hong successfully passed the exam and took up the post of professional journalist, turning his hobby into a career.

Third, education.

It is almost self-evident that education level has a direct and profound influence on a person's life orientation. Imagine that a person with only junior high school or even primary school culture will target experts and scholars? Even if there is, it is not a life orientation, but an unrealistic fantasy. And a master student believes that he will not position his life as a salesman or receiver of a certain unit. Even though he may have to be a salesman or an order taker for various reasons at present, I believe he will never be willing to maintain this status quo all his life. Therefore, it is no exaggeration to say that no matter what level of education, there must be a corresponding life orientation. Wan Gang and lin li are partners who grew up together in a yard. Since childhood, lin li's performance is not as good as Wan Gang's. They went from elementary school to high school together. After barely finishing the third year of high school, lin li followed others to learn business. Now, at least, he has become a small boss with some economic strength. After graduating from high school, Wan Gang was admitted to Fudan University, and then returned to Hangzhou to apply for a postgraduate degree at Zhejiang University. His goal is to be admitted to the MIT doctor in the future. For Wan Gang's life goals, lin li felt very puzzled. What did you study so hard and leave home for? Isn't it better to have a girl like yourself without a high degree, a house and a car? Fourth, social experience.

Just as different academic qualifications have different life goals, different social experiences also produce different life orientations. /kloc-when he was 0/8 years old, Zhang Minghui came to work in Hangzhou from Jiangxi. At that time, his biggest goal in life was to find a job with a higher salary, earn a sum of money every year and send it back to his hometown for his parents to help him save. Then he can build an elephant house and marry a virtuous wife, and he will be satisfied. After more than five years of hard work, with his own efforts and diligence, Xiao Zhang struggled from ordinary wage earners to the position of deputy director of the production department of a large electrical appliance factory, and was also named one of the "Top Ten Foreign Youth" in a certain district. Today, Xiao Zhang is well informed. Of course, his goal is no longer to earn some money and settle in his hometown. He wants to develop his own business in Hangzhou, and when his economic strength is strong, he wants to buy a house and a car in Hangzhou!

Verb (abbreviation for verb) family status

As the saying goes, "the dragon begets the dragon, the phoenix begets the phoenix, and the mouse begets the child to make a hole in the ground." Although this statement seems a bit biased now, and there are many examples of "flying out of golden phoenix in a henhouse", from one side, at least we can see the truth that family status has an absolute influence on us when we determine our life orientation. Dan Qiang and Li Zhiwei are twin brothers. Because Dan Qiang's mother didn't have a job, her family's financial situation was very poor, so she had to adopt Li Zhiwei to his aunt. Due to family constraints, Dan Qiang could not receive a good education. After finishing junior high school, he dropped out of school at home. After that, he had to learn from his father and become a carpenter. After Li Zhiwei became his aunt's adopted son, he received a better education. Because his uncle is a teacher in a middle school, he is not only well-off financially, but also often tutors Zhiwei. More importantly, he can live in a family environment with strong cultural atmosphere. After graduating from high school, Zhiwei was successfully admitted to the university. Now, he is a text editor of a publishing house. Different family influences have made a pair of twin brothers embark on completely different life paths.

Sixth, social fashion.

Each of us is a "social person". Being in the big family of society, we are often influenced by various social fashions involuntarily. Young people will consciously or unconsciously follow the social trend when planning their life goals. For example, accounting used to be very popular, and many young people squeezed into this industry; After that, computer majors became popular, and countless young people positioned their ideal careers in the future industry. Zhan Meiping used to be an avid literary lover. Since junior high school, he has been familiar with Chinese and foreign classics and is determined to be a writer when he grows up. But now, seeing that literature has gradually lost its former glory, the internet craze is everywhere. As a senior three student, his concept has gradually changed. He feels that if he wants to gain a foothold in society in the future, he must adapt to the needs of this society. So, he decided to join the IT industry, be a professional network person and take literature as a hobby.

Seven. national policy

In retrospect, the hot-blooded young people responded to the call of going to the countryside and closely linked their life goals with the call of the country; Nowadays, the country is vigorously developing the west, and a large number of young people with aspirations in all aspects take the initiative to go to the west, tying their future to the hot land to be developed. Everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the country, not to mention young people who are full of vigor and vitality and can relate their life orientation to the rise and fall of the country. What a great honor it is! Ma is a designer of an architectural design institute. I have been the main design task of many large-scale projects at a young age, and I always thought that I would be engaged in architectural design for a lifetime. However, the year before last, the organization should select cadres to help Xinjiang and mobilize everyone to sign up enthusiastically. Ma knows that the selection requirements are very strict, and there is only one quota in the whole design institute, not his own. But since the organization called for it, he didn't think much, so he signed up with a group of young colleagues. Unexpectedly, after repeated screening, especially after a strict physical examination, only Ma met all the requirements, so he was the only one to help Xinjiang cadres. As soon as Ma arrived in Xinjiang, he was appointed as the deputy secretary of a county. Since then, I have embarked on the road of politics and completely rewritten my life orientation.

Eight, the opinions of relatives and friends

As the saying goes, "a hero has three gangs." Who has fewer friends? As good friends, when you are faced with various choices, they will certainly give you some opinions and suggestions, and these reference opinions will have a great influence on your final choice. In addition to friends, of course, there are your relatives who care about your future. They will also give you advice from different positions and angles. Similarly, their opinions will unconsciously affect your final decision. It was with the constant encouragement of the younger sisters that Sinna finally walked out of the school gate. It turns out that she works as a foreign language teacher in a university, and her life is quite leisurely and stable. Although she often feels depressed in this talented campus, she has not given up this stable professional courage. Until that time, Sinna accidentally met her long-lost high school partner, and her heart began to stir up gradually. My ex-girlfriend, who is already the deputy general manager of a foreign-funded enterprise, said with a sigh, "Sinna, I'm not praising you." With your ability, it is more than enough to find a job with an annual salary of 100 thousand in a foreign-funded enterprise like ours. As long as you work for two years, you can earn a lifetime salary at school. Why stay in that place where intellectuals gather together? Come out, I will recommend it to you. " After several lobbying by former friends, Sinna, who thought she would work with peace of mind, submitted her resignation report to the school and became a white-collar worker in a foreign-funded enterprise.

Nine, the power of example

The power of example is infinite. When the other half you played with since childhood is outstanding in some way, you are likely to have the idea of catching up with him; When the singer you admire takes a photo with you one day, you are likely to follow your idol, make hard contact with vocal music and enter the music world. American movie star Ken Wahl attributed her success to another female movie star. Before entering the entertainment circle, he did a lot of work and never had a fixed career. It can be said that his future is very slim. It was not until a midsummer that Ken Wahl was walking on the beach when an actress who was deeply loved by Ken Wahl happened to pass by him. When she saw this tall and handsome young man, she couldn't help coming over and kissing him, and told him that he had good conditions and could become a successful actor as long as he worked hard. Since then, Ken Wahl has made up his mind to develop into the entertainment circle. After several years of unremitting efforts, he really became a famous American movie star.

Accidental event

Sometimes, a sudden change, an accidental opportunity, or even a trivial matter may change your life orientation and put you on a completely different road from your original idea. Juyuan's ideal is to be a mighty officer. He is about to take the college entrance examination and is ready to apply for the Southwest Military Academy. However, after witnessing his father's sudden kidney disease, repeated treatment failures and finally dying in a hospital in a foreign country in just three months, he had a new view of life, and he deeply realized that backward medical standards would destroy many lives that could have been saved. Therefore, when he officially filled in the college entrance examination volunteers, he chose the medical university and embarked on the road of studying medicine. It was his father's death that changed the direction of Juyuan's life.