The success of ordinary babies

Generally speaking, not every child is born a genius, and children's growth is inseparable from their parents' education. Only proper educational methods can make children develop more comprehensively. This paper briefly describes the success of ordinary children, interested people to learn.

The success of ordinary babies 1 the success of ordinary babies

I've been wandering around the parents' gang since my children entered primary school. Time flies. Six years later, I became a junior high school parent. In the past six years, I have paid attention to different personal experiences in junior high school every year and feel that I will handle them rationally and calmly. Unexpectedly, when I experienced it personally in 2020, I found myself so at a loss. The pavement of Xiaoshengchu, which was planned for children in the past, changes every year with the change of the new policy. Until the new policy was promulgated in 2020, my previous plan became more and more riddled in an instant.

At that time, I was studying in primary and secondary schools, and I chose high-quality primary and secondary schools close to home. After my child entered the fourth grade, I chose to expand the math class when I was completely hungry for math thinking training on campus, so I rushed to various institutions to audition classes during the summer vacation and finally chose one. Because my original intention was different, I just wanted to expand my knowledge at that time, and I didn't care too much about the organization of choosing schools. Since I had an exam, I have the impulse and sense of crisis to win the grand prize. At this time, my initial heart has undergone unprecedented changes and my work pressure has increased. With the qualitative change of the family atmosphere, my fifth-grade child won the first gold medal, which strengthened my idea of rushing for gold. But the big problem is that I can't wait for the whole line. Because I have a baby, my vitality is not good. If the child wants to try, I will bite my teeth and paint for no reason. My father was very busy at work and couldn't share it with me, because I had no choice but to complain, but I finally chose to take it myself and adjust it myself. This is life. The first exam in the sixth grade was also a gold medal, and then it was the Spring Festival. All institutions can't test it and can't strongly recommend it. I belong to a small training institution, and I am afraid of any posture. At this time, I believe that all parents who want to choose schools through institutions are just beginning to feel anxious. I saw the direction of educational reform and quietly re-planned the previous plan. Private schools first appeared in my plan ... from the inside, I still want to wait for my children to go through three years of adolescent rebellion in middle school. I think I watched him grow up. However, with the growth of the baby, the family atmosphere is very bad for a primary and secondary school student. After consulting with the child, plus the friendly suggestions of all friends, he will have a good learning environment and a happy future, and put private schools first.

In the following days, I visited several private schools in succession. What ups and downs and worries in my heart make my heart ups and downs from beginning to end. Seeing that the desire of training institutions to rush all exams was destroyed, I soon heard that one secret exam after another was being held in secret, and my heart was not calm from the beginning. At this time, the child's condition was stable and he accepted the physical and mental baptism of each exam very cheerfully. Until one day, waiting for the admission notice after the exam, it is indescribable. My WeChat has quietly become a very important item for me, and no one can touch it. Don't run out of energy Whether squatting, standing, peeing or cooking, you always hold my WeChat, for fear of missing a phone call, a text message and all the information in the group. The originally happy holiday turned into a waiting summer vacation. Xiaoshengchu, which was originally completed in July, just started in August in 2020 ... My dream is based on three boarding schools in Beichen, Donghai and Jinchuan.

(of students) choose a school.

Our home is not Niu Wa, and the precise positioning is not that high. At this time, parents should not choose schools for their vanity. It is best to choose the one that suits your child according to the actual situation. The ideal teaching area in my heart is Dongshan Island in Nanhai Middle School. Not far from home, the management is harsh, and the two-mode classroom teaching is relatively stable. The shortcomings are that the teaching area is new and the hardware configuration needs to be improved, which is worrying. Followed by Beichen bilingual teaching, the hardware configuration is simple, the teaching staff is average, but the management mode is strict, and the Protestant enrollment is better, which is close to home. Jinchuan junior high school is the last one. Although I didn't visit and inspect in person, I can see from the photos I enjoyed in the summer that this institution has a profound learning atmosphere and strict management methods. The only drawback is the distance. Electronic student status belongs to Qingxu County, not six districts, and now it can't endanger the rise of junior high schools. A class in junior high school, whether private or public, can't meet the working ability of our family at all levels, so it is not considered.

On July 30th, BC announced online registration and decided not to hesitate.

Register online from March/KLOC-0 to 5.

On August 10, I applied for the lottery. Although it was early, I really expected to be shaken, but the lucky lady didn't come, so I had to sign up for my own recruitment interview. The school informed me to see my recruitment interview time at noon.

12 at 8 o'clock in the morning of August, the child entered the examination room again, and the interview questions drawn were not too difficult. In Chinese class, I read traditional Chinese poetry, and in math class, I asked many geometric formulas. I introduced myself briefly in English.

Received the notice on August 23.

feel

Now, the long junior high school has come to an end. In the dead of night, pick up a pen and record this unforgettable memory. Bit by bit, stumbling, scenes ... along the way, one foot deep and one foot shallow ... all these have added a heavy stroke to the child's growth stage.

In addition, in the process of accompanying children to grow up, people have become more and more perfect and honed, and they have their own interpretation of food, clothing, housing and transportation. They don't go with the flow, they are not unique, but seek safety and stability to maintain their own use value! I only hope that children can also pursue the goal of perfecting their lives in a down-to-earth manner.

warn

First, don't listen to the rumors flying all over the sky, learn to distinguish rationally.

Second, you don't have to blindly follow the trend and choose to organize study and training and listen to various special lectures to disturb yourself.

Third, you don't have to wait for information, the opportunity is for yourself.

Fourth, learn about children and try to choose institutions suitable for their height and width ratio.

5. Download the parents' help APP for free, keep abreast of the latest developments, often listen to the special lectures of parents' help, understand the standards of junior high school as soon as possible, and make preparations in advance.

The average baby's success is 2 1, and the cultivation of time management ability.

It is very important to complete the right amount of learning tasks in the right time. For example, children's tasks now include reading, math homework, biological experiments, extracurricular sports training and so on. Children need to set themselves a time to use the form, one hour to read, two hours to finish math homework and one hour to play basketball in the middle.

Parents should know the right amount. If the child's time planning is reasonable, parents can't interfere. Appropriate leisure and entertainment can better help the child complete the planned content of the day.

2. Increase of concentration

Children are slow to finish their homework. Apart from intellectual factors and learning methods, children's inattention is a big reason. If the child is thinking about what heroes are missing from my game account, how to match my inscriptions, and other things unrelated to homework, how can the child complete the task at hand on time and in quantity?

Therefore, it is very important to improve children's concentration. Parents should call back their children's attention in time if they find that their children are doing little tricks or staring blankly. If they are reminded more often, their children will feel embarrassed and try to adjust themselves.

3. Strengthen children's planning ability.

In addition to the above-mentioned children should know how to arrange their time reasonably, the ability to plan things reasonably is also particularly important.

Generally speaking, things can be divided into urgent and important first, urgent but unimportant second, important but not urgent third, and things that are neither important nor urgent can be postponed.

Children should learn to arrange the right things at the right time. For example, children need a short lunch break at noon to recover the energy consumed in the morning, and they can exercise properly in the afternoon to avoid stiff limbs.

4, the cultivation of goal consciousness

There is a great difference between a person who has a goal and a person who has no goal. When a person has no goal, he is like a headless fly, at a loss in the face of the present situation. When a child has a goal, he can make a plan according to this goal and work hard for it. Parents can help their children set a short-term goal after communicating with them.

For example, parents can plan their children to get the fifth place in this month's monthly exam, and this is the goal. To this end, parents and children have jointly formulated a daily review plan and review content, and the children strive to complete it regularly and quantitatively.

5. Enhance self-control ability

Albert Hubbard once said, "Self-discipline means doing what you should do when you should, whether you like it or not."

When children learn self-discipline, they can enhance their self-control ability. In the face of what they don't want to do, as long as it is beneficial to them, children will insist on doing it. For example, recently, children want to improve their oral English. Even if they hate the clumsy pronunciation of English, they will try to listen to tapes and communicate with people in the English corner to improve their oral English.

Conversely, strengthening the ability of self-control can also promote the habit of self-discipline. Parents should make their children aware of the importance of self-control and what benefits it can bring him.