How to analyze how college students choose their future life when they graduate from the perspective of options?

Many students receive an Offer, and sometimes it is easy for them to refuse when they see that their roommates get a better offer, because in his eyes, if everyone learns the same, there is no reason why he can't get it. There's something missing here First, luck (this is really important to tell the truth, of course, it only plays a supporting role).

The second is resources. Reading can only represent grades and can only be said to be a resource. There are many resources that you may not know at all. Therefore, if we don't analyze them clearly, we will lose out in the end. For example, I come from a very ordinary double-income family.

Among my college classmates, my parents were from the Academy of Social Sciences, Fudan University, businessmen, officials and hospital leaders. Of course, some of them look as ordinary as me, even from other places, and have no foundation at all in Shanghai. But just the year I graduated, something happened.

Two little girls in my roommate want to stay in school as counselors. A Shanghai girl, a graduate student, is here, and another Northeast girl, a graduate student, has been admitted. Shanghai girls are better than Northeast girls in all aspects, but certainly not much better, and Shanghai girls are party member.

Girls in Northeast China are only party activists (everyone knows that party member is a necessary status to stay in school). Unexpectedly, the northeast girls were kept in school. Not in Shanghai. Why? At that time, I thought it might be the sweet one in Northeast China and the fat one in Shanghai.

It's practical, but it's not flattering. Later, I learned that although people are from the northeast, there is a relative in our school who is an official in the hospital party Committee. That's not it. I believe everyone will see this kind of "shady" when looking for a job. Some students called this the back door, which was ugly. But in fact.

This is because the girl from Northeast China has one more resource than the girl from Shanghai, so that I later learned that she took the exam from Northeast China and spent 65,438+1 10,000 yuan in tuition (in 2002,110,000 yuan was still a big figure, when the house price in Shanghai was 200,000, she could buy a second-hand house near Jing 'an Temple, which was really a huge investment for hundreds of families in Northeast China at that time).

It is because of this relative. Girls also come to Shanghai to rely on relatives and make friends with them. After more than two years of friendship, people finally decided to help them win the job. Therefore, Bian Xiao of Hengyang Talent Network reminds: Even ordinary people can analyze their resource advantages.

After all, if you want to find a job smoothly, the success rate of relational job hunting is much higher than that of job fairs, and the treatment and cost performance will be much higher.