Important Excerpts from Visible Time (can be collected as writing materials)

1, in the middle of winter, I finally know that I have an invincible summer. -albert camus

I can't stand my life passing so fast, I'm not really alive. -ernest hemingway

People should not be afraid of death. What they should be afraid of is that they never really lived. -Aureliano

4, never think that we can escape, our every step determines the final outcome, our feet are moving towards their chosen destination. Milan Kundera

Time is always bifurcated, leading to countless futures. Luis Borges

6. A gentleman keeps his word, and his deeds will bear fruit. -"Book of Changes Family"

In any case, the times will not stop waiting for anyone.

8. Everything before is to make a choice and make a series of choices.

9. If a person does not have a long-term dream, there will be no lasting journey.

10, may you and I be like runaway wild horses and never look back.

1 1. What you care about will torture you.

12, satisfied with the present, not satisfied with the future.

13, everyone's luck is the result of his own choice, just like his misfortune. -The film "The Godfather"

14, women are not born, but are shaped. -Beauvoir

15, whenever you feel that something is destroying your life, that thing is yourself. Charles Munger

1, the mission of this book-to become a book of life structure.

Every minute of you is the result of your choice of goals. When you can't reach your goal, your account will be useful.

3. The real meaning of hand account is: hand account, which belongs to water, drops of water wear away; It belongs to the decade-old wood.

1, the mission of this book-to become a book of life structure.

2. Everything this book will discuss is about how we can slowly unfold this huge abstract timetable, find out the current grid, find out every grid in the future, and see where our destiny will be taken by time with the extension of the scale.

This big timetable is a map of our destiny.

4. The existence of all time, schedule and target management methods in this world, and the initial intention of all handwritten accounts and lists come from our desire to achieve our goals and reach our destinations in a limited life, or our fear and begging for those who have failed to complete them in a limited life.

What matters is not the form, but how to design the form, how to implement it after design and how to think about the problem.

6. Questions that people have to face and answer all their lives:

7. You can't give an answer for two reasons:

You don't think or know who you will become.

You are forced to choose to be the designated person.

8. In short, no matter what it is, you must first have an ambition.

9. I declare again that this is a reference book. An important thing this book should do is to help you explore your ambitions (if you haven't already).

10, existentialism says: you define you, you shape you, and you become you. As for the meaning of life, do you think there is; As for the true meaning of life, you are what you think.

1 1. Since life is made up of a series of moments, the purpose of life should be to have as many happy event as possible.

12. In short, I think it is those things, those moments, that you finally have, see, experience, and burst into tears, feeling that "this life is worth it, and it is complete." This is your ambition. If you think it is, it is. You define you.

13, the true ability of the soul is to open a door, and you are hit by the world behind the door, making sure that you live for it.

14, no way, whatever you care about will torture you.

15, nothing in this world can be done in any way. In thousands of situations, you only want one situation: you want to go there, and you just want to go.

16, facing up to the existence of human weakness is the beginning of change.

What is talent? Talent is that you can master a skill or accept a concept by reaching above average level through shorter contact and learning than average time.

18, the difference in talent is especially manifested in cognition and skills, which almost contains the direction of future life skills and the source of happiness. Whether your natural strength is math or art, what you have to do is to adapt rather than deviate.

19, genetic code is the basis for us to know ourselves and start our lives.

20. Life is largely determined by people's emotions and intuition. Your emotions and intuition are also the reasons that really make you happy or sad. Knowing these reasons, you can observe yourself from a distance, which is an important ability to make decisions.

2 1, why do you want to record your thoughts? Small emotions can lead to big decisions. Small emotions are often the first domino of many things, and fluctuations will have a great butterfly effect on our lives.

22. When you can observe tiny thoughts, it is possible to avoid the situation that most life decisions are completely determined by emotions. Decisions made only by emotions are not the result of rational thinking on the basis of clear direction and extensive collection of information.

23. Interest only means that when you touch, understand and feel it, you will be happier.

24. "Don't be crazy, don't live" is a great interest. Great interest is love, which means that you are willing to spend time and effort for the next happy moment.

Great interest will determine our direction, and talent and hard work will determine our height.

26. Only by recognizing the limitations, can we go further and know more, can we push our boundaries to the distance, explore the boundaries, and maximize our limited life experience, which is also the real meaning of this book.

27. Understand the limitations of your values; Understand the limitations of your own cognition.

28. In the short life, what should be done, what should not be done and what should be done are extremely important.

29. The following are the author's values and limitations.

30. The process of a person's life is the process of getting along with the most important people around him. The more thoroughly you understand the relationship in this process, the more scientifically you handle it, and the more appropriately you handle it, the happier your life will be.

3 1. Know Your System includes: Know Life and Death, Know Human Weaknesses, Know Talent, Know Body, Know Small Things, Know Limitations, Know Relationships.

1, adversity makes people more eager to find the answer, and the answer always comes from trying.

2. People should live into a movie, a game and a building. At least like a building, it stands on the earth, has its own structure, pattern and space, refracts light and shadow in a changing environment, and collapses and destroys in the long river of time.

In good times, I misunderstood the meaning of "the world". I think the world is elsewhere, stars, aurora, snow-capped mountains, grasslands, canyons and coasts; I think the world belongs to others, who are full of waves and surpass all wild imagination; I think the world is what moves me and fascinates me, that is, everything except ordinary things. I think there are many frames of reference in this world.

4. Dr Sagan, an astronomer, made the following interpretation of the photos of the Earth taken unintentionally by Voyager 1:

You can experience thousands of magnificent lives, which are all dust anyway.

6. List of cosmic movies recommended by the author:

7. List of movies recommended by the author:

8. Travel is to make you suddenly understand what is really important.

9. Real travel will reshape your cognition and make you more real and pure. The superposition of repeated travel will make this consciousness more profound, and this consciousness will transform you and accompany you all your life.

10, where we live, our daily life, is the distance seen by people far away.

1 1, all perceptions, all thoughts, all feelings, all desires, all your thoughts and feelings are fermented in one container. You write down the list, then you act, you get, and may you and I finally own the world in The Bucket List.

1. People's quality of life is not the result of simple addition of quantity.

2. With the passage of time, the final dividing line between people is not determined by the number of people's experiences, but by an extremely important ability-concentration and the ability to reach the flow state.

Everyone is eager to find a moment of complete concentration: I feel that time is slowing down, distractions disappear, and the responsible tasks are easily completed. Psychologists call it "flow" and athletes call this state "region".

4. The so-called time management is not divided according to the day, but according to the arrangement and method of events and energy in unit time. What we call time management is actually energy management and energy efficiency management.

In fact, what kind of goals correspond to what kind of life, what kind of tools should be used.

6. Flow is the ultimate state of thinking and dealing with problems.

7. zimbardo's six views on time shared by the author in the book.

8. The best combination suggested by Professor zimbardo:

A wonderful past

Moderate future orientation

Now enjoy it moderately

A weak negative past

Now the fate is not good.

9. In fact, the best time attitude is to be satisfied with the present and not with the future.

10, knowing which is more fun, which is not fun, and which is not fun, you can also advance your pain to get greater happiness. This is called delayed gratification, which is the concept of future time.

1 1. What we can get in the future depends on our present concentration and self-control.

12, fully understand yourself, define the starting point and accept the bottleneck, but you can enter a virtuous circle of concentration.

13, live to death, live to dripping wet, and be free, which is the real purpose that this book hopes readers to achieve.

14, your goal is the premise of being able to concentrate.

15, time management, in fact, is to manage how to complete the distance between self and future goals in a limited life.

16, the sense of security brought by focusing on completing the task.

17, our life is a process of wrestling between id and superego, a process of wrestling between lazy me, ordinary me and ideal me. When the superego defeats the id, you will gradually be changed into the person you want to be and form your ideal personality.

18, the author's three suggestions on staying focused:

19. Time management is actually an energy efficiency management that combines energy management, self-management and target management. The premise of all management is to clearly understand yourself and the world, set goals, stick to it, and find great fun from it.

1, thinking is writing, and writing is just a process of recording.

2. Franklin 13 Discipline of Self-cultivation shared by the author:

3. The current hand account is a sharp weapon for behavior management and target management, and a systematic management tool to help us achieve our goals and dreams and maintain self-driving and self-monitoring.

4. A person's choice of the meaning of life, determination of the direction and spiritual goals will be projected on his daily and monthly behaviors.

Without direction, you can't reach the destination.

6. What do you think is your priority, where will you spend your time, and finally what is your life order?

7. Redefine yourself and you will get very exact self-motivation.

8. Goals must be quantified before they can be subdivided.

9. We got it, we saw it, and we thought it was all. But first of all, only when you get it can you be qualified to evaluate it.

10, in the end, you will find that what guides you is not the action of ticking, but a series of preparation processes before ticking, the happiness at the moment of reaching the goal, and the determination and hope to move towards the next goal below. These will run through our wonderful life.

1 1. Dreams are wild. You must think about them before you can realize them.

12, three important components of soul life: study, interest and important people.

13. The first step in learning is to determine where we are going and what kind of people we want to be. The second part is to clarify the advantages of differentiation. The third part is to narrow the differentiation advantage.

14. Interest is an important part of the soul and a person's true feelings.

15, two ways to find interest: flow, experience and try.

16, the first important person is an example-someone you know or someone you don't know.

17, the sense of security brought by conformity will affect you.

18, the important basis of personality independence is financial independence. You will find that when you can control and predict your life, it is the best time of your life.

19, Matthew effect: the stronger the strong, the weaker the weak.

20. It is important to evaluate the added value of this matter to life. Emergency assessment of the effective duration of the impact on life.

2 1, we always make a deal with endless time in exchange for the life we want.

1, you have to have a solution to the problem in order to find and master the law behind uncertainty, avoid the bad and let the good repeat.

You are your opportunity and your bottleneck. You are your problem, and you are your solution.

3. The productivity, cognitive ability, learning ability, communication ability and problem-solving ability of entrepreneurs in unit time are the core of enterprise competitiveness. Only by managing their own energy efficiency can entrepreneurs manage the energy efficiency of their teams.

4. You need to be clear about what is the inevitable right choice in life for yourself.

A healthy body and mind is your basic cost, followed by time, intelligence, money and resources.

6. The so-called good business is the basic idea of figuring out how to sell what to whom.

7. After thinking about the basic guarantee of survival, you can start thinking about your dreams.

8. Entrepreneurship must include designing long-term goals and realizing dreams.

9. You must firmly believe that future achievements are the rewards of everything you do now.

10, look at yourself rationally and objectively enough, including your physical condition, the driving force to the enterprise and the ability to judge the focus of work.

1 1 But all emotions will affect people's cognition and judgment.

12, the goal of establishing self-energy efficiency solutions is to be able to cope with all kinds of uncertainties, and the emotions generated by our own humanity in the face of uncertainty are the most difficult to grasp.

13, everyone's life is constantly making choices, whether active or passive.

14. In starting a business, there is a very important ability, that is, to eliminate the interference of emotions before any choice, so as to rationally choose the best route.

15. Theoretically speaking, the stronger the entrepreneur's information gathering ability and overall view, the better the ability to remove emotions every time he makes a choice, and the more likely the accumulation of multiple choices is to be the result of commercial success. A truly outstanding entrepreneur should be good at calculation and cold-blooded, similar to the existence of AlphaGo.

16, the general needs passion in strategy and cold blood in tactics, which makes it easier to win the battle.

17. Another good method I will use is to write it down. Before I face a choice, I will write down my greed and fear in black and white. Greed is the gain and opportunity I want, and fear is the loss and risk I fear. Compare greed with real dreams and missions and ask yourself: Do you really want it, or do vanity and speculation make you want it? Compare your fears with other people's comments. Do you feel the fear of failure or the regret of not acting?

18, you must complete the story to become a hero. You must always focus on winning the battle. Before that, don't look at your lonely back.

19, all decisions are divided into two types: those that are beneficial to career success and those that are unfavorable to career success.

20. People are lonely, lonely when they are alone, lonely when they are busy, and lonely forever.

2 1, you may be lonely because of Excellence, and the beast always walks alone.

22. How lonely invincible is. How many people want to climb to the top of the mountain and feel the moment when "I pulled out my dagger and peeped at the road for nothing".

23. Real entrepreneurs are self-driven, and self-driving will inevitably bring self-discipline, because if you want to succeed, you must work hard every day.

24. In the dictionary of entrepreneurship, there is no balance, only extremes. If you balance, you lose.

25. Entrepreneurship is a game played by very few extreme players. If you want to "go all in", you have to play until there is no balance. You are the captain. After going out to sea, either find an oasis or die in the sea. Live, find the direction, give your crew strength and try to feel happy. If you have a home, your home is either on the shore or on the boat. Facts have proved that people on the shore are only worried about your wind and waves, they can't understand your passion, slowly can't understand your direction, and then slowly can't see your figure. In the end, most relationships are broken. So for the children, for the family, for yourself, you must reach the oasis, you must win the battle and become that hero.

1, the true meaning of the resumption: plan-action-resumption.

2. Review is to correct the relationship between action and plan, and it is a profound reflection after action. Its logic should be: plan-action-resumption, and then plan-action-resumption.

3. Any reply that doesn't aim at changing behavior is a "rogue".

4. the methodology of the whole answer is "plan->; Behavior-> Result-> Comparison-> Question-> Solution-> Re-planning of infinite loop

5. Accidental brilliance is luck, and regular brilliance must be the result of "operation and maintenance". Movies are like this, so is life.

6. Pain makes people so close to the truth. When truth appears, discovery is completed, and shaping has its origin.

7. There are always opportunities in the times. The opportunity of the times tests the greed and fear of human beings, and they always crave when they are hot.

8. History will not argue who is right or wrong, but will only show who stays.

9. You must manage your emotions, not let them drift.

10, the most important thing per unit time is only one thing. Your choice determines the length of time allocation and the degree of investment, and these superposition will show the results.

1 1. The establishment of great companies stems from powerful spiritual leaders and their speculative systems.

12, life is that you walk on the road of your own choice and bear the consequences of your own choice, which is no different from the essence of entrepreneurship.

13, you should believe in small accumulation, continuous change and the power of time, because time can see. Do what you want to do and become what you want to be. No matter how many times you experience confusion and self-doubt, learning will go on the firmest road in your heart.

1, all methodologies actually follow the same logic-"know yourself, collect the world, organize and analyze, set goals, focus on implementation, and review and improve circularly".

The habit formed in childhood has a great or even decisive influence on a person's life.

3. Seeding motivation can change behavior; Sowing behavior can harvest habits; Sowing habits can cultivate personality; You can control your destiny by sowing your personality.

For a girl, breaking the gender limit means breaking the limit of her more choices.

The true meaning of life is to find your own happiness and then pursue it.

6. Positive self-suggestion is extremely powerful.

7. Life itself is the result of repeated choices.

8. As long as you are willing to open a new book and go out to meet strangers, there will be hope in your heart and you will have a desire for the world: "Please hit me!"

9. Always study for the excitement generated in the pursuit of aesthetics.

10. In life, there are as many sorrows as there are joys and as many disappointments. These experiences you want are always with you.

1 1. You can't stop reading, because you can't predict in advance when, where and which books will participate in building you. The whole process is an adventure.

1. The so-called leader is the person who gives strategy, direction and tactics.

2. Summarize the ways to love yourself:

1, day after day, you work to support the rest of you, countless humble days you watch the hero and you walk away.

Only time,

Only time can liberate you, accept you, appease you and make you bloom.

Only the torrent brought by time,

It can shock you, influence you, encourage you, push you and make you unique.

You are the most precious, and your only life is the most valuable.

You will see, kindness, what you believe, what you finally get.

Title: Time can be seen

Publishing House: CITIC Publishing House

Category: 1, psychology of success-popular reading; 2. Making this book

200 1, graduated from the Broadcasting Department of Communication University of China, and broadcast a set of Hour News on CCTV.

From 2002 to 2004, he worked in the strategic communication department of encore consulting company;

In 2007, he received a master's degree in new media from the Department of Art and Design of China Renmin University;

Since 2008, entrepreneurs, company founders and CEOs have been working as early as possible;

2065 438+04-2065 438+05 Editor-in-Chief of Fashion COSMO.

Published works:

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He has won many awards, such as: the gold medal author of China Writers List, Ernst & Young's "Come to the Pacific" successful female entrepreneur award, and China Communication Person of the Year.

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