Who are the famous historical figures in Bengbu, and what is the experience of marrying the princess of the Qing Dynasty?

In some film and television dramas, the princess is very beautiful, very beautiful. If you can marry a princess, you will not only win a beauty, but also instantly improve your status and become a husband. Anyone who sees it has to give face.

In ancient times, many people thought it would be good to marry a princess, but it was not, especially in the Qing Dynasty. Not to mention how miserable it is, it is simply a death wish. If the princess dies first, Xu's fate will be even worse.

In order to show the superiority of the royal family in the Qing Dynasty, the etiquette rules were very complicated. In the early Qing Dynasty, princesses of the royal family only married princes, princes and others inside. Later, the disadvantages of consanguineous marriage appeared, and she began to marry the minister's son.

For example, when Emperor Qianlong married his daughters Gulun and Princess Xiao to his son, it seemed an honor to marry the princess. In fact, the Xu family suffered a lot, because the princess had a high grade and her title was above Hou Hebo.

According to etiquette, Xu's parents and family should bow down and kowtow after seeing the princess. In ordinary people's words, it is outrageous for parents to kowtow to their daughters-in-law. Later, this rule was abolished during the reign of Daoguang Emperor.

Of course, Xu also took advantage, and many princesses married him. There is also the Princess House, which is comparable to a big villa in Beijing, or the kind with a garden. In addition, Xu will get a title and his value will be doubled.

After three kneels and nine knocks, I finally got the princess home and got wealth. Did I close the bridal chamber? Don't worry, it hasn't arrived yet. Xu is waiting outside the princess's house, waiting for the princess to call him.

However, it is not the princess who has the final say, but the princess's nanny. In the Grand View of unofficial history in Qing Dynasty, it was recorded that Xu was waiting outside, but the princess was not called. Xu Can can't touch the princess.

If the princess wants to summon Xu to sleep in the room, she must first persuade the nanny to agree. The usual practice is to send money to make the nanny happy. If Xu wants to see the princess, she must do the same. If she meets in private, it is against etiquette.

Because both men and women, ancient princesses were embarrassed to say that nannies basically controlled the power of princesses to meet their husbands, which led to many princesses in the Qing Dynasty being oppressed by nannies and never having children until their death, which was comparable to heaven.

It is said that there are also princesses who resist nannies. Daoguang's eldest daughter once took the opportunity of returning to the palace to visit relatives and told Daoguang about the oppression of nannies. Later, Daoguang ordered his daughter and Xu to be real husband and wife and gave birth to eight children.

In addition, if the princess dies before Ma Xu, Ma Xu will be washed out of the house after her complete filial piety, and the princess mansion and some treasures will be taken back to the palace. It can be seen that marrying a princess is not good, even tragic.