What are some celebrity examples of empathy?

1, Su Shi and Wang Anshi, two great writers in Song Dynasty, had different political views, but it did not affect their communication. They are very good friends. They often drink, write poems and write pens together under the moon. However, Su Shi was naturally bohemian and outspoken. On one occasion, Su Shi visited Prime Minister Wang Anshi and caught up with Wang Anshi's absence. Su Shi accidentally read a sentence in Wang Anshi's new poem, "The bright moon cries in the sky, and the yellow dog loses his heart." He couldn't help sneering: How can the bright moon cry? Can a yellow dog fall in the heart of a flower? So I changed the poem without considering other people's feelings. Later, Wang Anshi impeached and demoted Su Shi. During his exile, Su Shi found that in remote areas, people called an insect a yellow dog and a bird a bright moon, but he didn't realize it and regretted misunderstanding Wang Anshi. Imagine if Su Shi and Wang Anshi came back to ask a clear question and take into account Wang Anshi's feelings, which not only maintained their friendship, but also avoided the disaster of relegation. Therefore, it is very important to learn to be others and put yourself in others' shoes.

2. In the Western Jin Dynasty, Tianyuan was barren, the food shortage was serious, and the hungry people were miserable. Ruidi actually asked the ministers: They have no food to eat, why don't they eat meat porridge? This irrelevant argument completely ignored the survival of immigrants, which eventually led to the collapse of the Western Jin Dynasty. How long can a dynasty that doesn't care about the lives of the people last? If Emperor Rui can be an ordinary person, think from the perspective of ordinary people, formulate an effective disaster relief plan and overcome difficulties, perhaps the history of Sima family will be rewritten. Otherwise, the country is not a country. Aren't Jie and the first emperor the same?

Three disciples of Plato once asked the teacher for advice and didn't know how to find the ideal partner. Plato did not answer directly, but took his disciples to a wheat field. They walked in the wheat field, and everyone picked the biggest ear of wheat. They couldn't go back, but only picked one. The first of the three apprentices picked what he thought was the biggest ear of wheat without walking a few steps, and found that there were bigger ones behind; The second disciple has been looking around to pick up things, only to find that the biggest ear of wheat in front has missed it at last; The third disciple learned the contents of the first two lessons. When he finished the distance of 1/3, he separated the big, middle and spikelets of wheat, and then walked 1/3 to verify whether it was correct. At the end of the walk 1/3, he chose a beautiful ear of wheat belonging to a large category. From this story, we should actually learn to think and put ourselves in the other's shoes. When we hold the ear of wheat in the wheat field to find the next bigger ear of wheat, aren't we also the ear of wheat nailed in our hands? We are also holding hands by others, standing on the wheat field and looking around. Those eyes looking for happiness are lost in a golden yellow, for fear that they will lose the biggest ear of wheat. In the end, we can only pick it hastily, but we can't get real happiness.

4, the same flower is placed in front of you, there will be flowers flying all over the sky, and the red fragrance will be broken. There will also be a red flower that is not heartless, and it will be more profound to turn it into mud to protect the flower. There is a bright moon hanging in the night sky. Zhang will tell who saw the moon first by the river, and at the beginning of the month, according to people's thinking; Li Taibai will sigh and say that the light at the foot of my bed has already begun to miss the frost on the ground. Can you criticize Sister Lin's Sadness under the Fence? Can you deny the fact that the flowers are gone? Can you blame Zhang for moaning? Can you despise Li Bai's nostalgia? I'm afraid neither. Therefore, we should learn to put ourselves in the shoes, appreciate the rich connotation of a flower, and feel the same moon that was once so affectionate.

Napoleon Hill is a world-famous inspirational success master. One year, he needed to hire a secretary, so he advertised in several newspapers. As a result, the application letter flew like a snowflake. But most of these letters are the same. For example, their first sentence is almost the same: "I saw your advertisement for a secretary in the newspaper, and I hope I can apply for this position." I graduated from such a school at the age of. If I am lucky enough to be selected by you, I will work hard. " Napoleon Hill was disappointed. When he was considering whether to give up the recruitment plan, a letter arrived late, which surprised Napoleon Hill and decided that she was the only secretary.

Her letter reads like this: "Dear Sir, the advertisement you advertised will definitely attract hundreds of applications. I believe that your work must be very busy and you simply don't have enough time to read it carefully. So, you just need to dial this number gently, and I'll be happy to come and help you sort out your letters, which will save you precious time. You don't have to doubt my working ability and quality at all, because I have fifteen years of secretarial work experience. "

Later, Napoleon Hill said: "If you know how to put yourself in others' shoes, you can really look at and consider problems from others' standpoint, and you can really help others solve problems. The world is yours. "