Why are we confused about work and life?

Because kazuo inamori's "Living Method" is about taking work as practice, I didn't expect that after practicing for so long, my soul didn't practice, but it became more and more confused in the box. In step-by-step work and life, all we strive for is to obey the organizational arrangements and do what we should do. It seems that what you do is right, but you don't think what you do is right, just like facing the food in the canteen, it's not delicious but you don't refuse.

I received job-hunting training at school, and some teachers talked about job-hunting skills. When the interviewer talks to you almost, he will ask you, "Do you have any questions for me now?" The most flattering answer at that time was: "What efforts do I need to make to better meet the requirements of this job in the future?"

In fact, I am flattering each other in disguise and asking them to tell me what to do. Just like we have listened to the opinions of parents, teachers and leaders countless times. Sharpen your head to satisfy others' hopes and gain others' recognition. Even the previous college entrance examination, wave after wave of desperate pursuit of progress, is only a false goal. Most of them are not heartfelt love, but the external environment tells us that it is right to study hard and get into a good university. As for why, no one will ever tell you.

When I was a student, textbooks were still dry, just like Lu Xun's articles, which were hearty to read, but writing textbooks for preparation was a bit daunting. In order to cope with the examination, we constantly analyze the examination center, just like an operation, stripping off the external temperament, summarizing the central idea, and answering the author's why the layout is like this and what methods are used. Obviously, the interest in reading has been lost, so it will be difficult to cultivate the habit of reading for a long time.

I have done too many things I should do, but I forgot to ask myself what I really want to do. Accustomed to listening to other people's arrangements, this saves a lot of choices and gains stability in this world, but it also destroys its true colors. Some people say that only by doing what you should do first can you do what you want to do. This is a fairly safe arrangement, and it would be better if the two were integrated. But the fact is that the choices we make have not been tortured by our hearts, because our hearts are glorious and correct under the long-term system, and we can easily fall into a situation where we have no choice.

So what is your ideal working state? Close to home, high salary and good environment? This is the best expectation of being caught in the mud of the workplace at present. I think the best working condition is that what we should do is what we want to do most, even if we are willing to pay because of our inner love. Of course, people are economically rational animals, and it is difficult to continue without compensation. But that love will naturally lead you to the climax of your career.

When I tried to apply for a writing position, I was also asked by the interviewer, "Do you have any questions?" That's what I answered. But it didn't work. He said, "We don't need you to do anything. You can write whatever you want."

Suddenly subverted my attitude of trying to please, once I tried to please, and I lost. Why should we please the world? Instead of shouting at the world, "Come on, follow me!"

A big enterprise is like a big machine. As one of the screws, you only need to do what you should do according to the regulations and work hard. This is the greatest contribution. Facing the liberalization platform of the Internet, you need to pursue yourself and release your personality. As long as you specialize in your field, you can speak for yourself and arouse the admiration of others, and you can survive in this era. This also provides a glimmer of hope for our personal realization.

In the Internet era of pursuing individuality liberation, our value no longer depends only on a certain leader. Say you can, you can, say you can't, you can't. On a flat platform, our value depends on those who like your work. I can't win the love of everyone, as long as someone likes it. In this way, I won the right of independent choice at once, and I can do what I like to do to the extreme and survive.

In this way, you don't have to worry about your current working condition. You can pursue what you want to do as a lifelong career and treat what you should do in the workplace as a hobby, so that you can reconcile. The ideal working condition seems to be difficult to achieve, and it is not necessary to choose. Both are good choices, but you must have your own map.