How do smart people arrange personal feelings?

Whether admiration, jealousy or hatred, these personal feelings are human nature, and smart people and ordinary people also have different ways to deal with personal feelings. The reason why smart people are called smart people is not only the difference of superior IQ, but also the difference of superior EQ.

Smart people are also very particular about arranging personal feelings. Because of the particularity of personal feelings, they often arrange personal feelings like this:

1, personal feelings, good or bad, will not be fully exposed to others.

Ordinary people have an inexplicable desire to show their good mood and bad mood, to let many people know, and to expose them to others, so that they may be comforted by others, but in fact, they are more exposed to their fragile hearts and uncontrollable emotions.

Smart people often have a good ability to control their emotions. Their private feelings, whether joy or sadness, will not be completely exposed to the public. His slight exposure does not mean that he wants to be comforted by others.

What he wants is to talk to relatives and friends moderately, not to expose personal feelings blindly.

2. If you can afford it, you can put it down. Whether it's a good thing or a bad thing, your mind can always return to calm.

Most people will find it difficult to get out of a relationship, or because their efforts have not been rewarded, or they have been hurt all over, it is difficult to get out of the swamp of their predecessors for a long time.

However, smart people know how to get out of their emotions at the right time and pull themselves out of the sad environment and emotions as soon as possible at the right time. Of course, it is inevitable to be sad, but they still have to live a good life after being sad.

Smart people can realize this, and it is the key to arrange their personal feelings that they can treat good things and bad things with a normal heart, can bear it and can let go.

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