Girl, you should love yourself before you love others.

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not interlinked, but the sad plot of love is so similar.

I watched the news of Henry's ex-girlfriend these days and saw that a kind girl gave her nine years to feed the dog.

For girls, maybe we all naively think that,

As long as you love someone wholeheartedly, you can be together forever.

Long enough to promise eternity without separation.

Never forget each other for a long time, never leave.

It took a long time to find out,

In every love in reality, the ending is not necessarily that the prince and princess live happily together.

But no matter what love looks like, it can be described by us.

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You can't give up your career if you love someone again.

Looking at Chen Lu's words, I feel that the way to pay for a loved one is mostly like this.

Think of each other everywhere, even give up his career for each other and silently be a woman who supports him behind.

But she forgot how hard she worked, and even she could be better!

But she chose to achieve each other and gave up her career when she could be better.

I love this girl who loves each other more than myself.

From a small group dance studio to a national second-class dancer;

From the other side having nothing, to being busy with the global tour and finally choosing to leave,

Opening a small studio is only to increase income, thus reducing the pressure on the other side.

However, a girl's love seems so natural.

Loved people can always be so fearless.

When love comes to an end, look back at everything except what you have paid.

It seems that life is about to start again. Nine years is the best time for dancers.

If she hadn't given up all this for him, maybe her nine years shouldn't be just an ordinary girl's nine years.

She should be a shining dancer. She deserves better love.

Remember not to lose your light when you love others.

Similarly, Hu Xinger, who was ridiculed by the group as "the ugliest Hong Kong sister", also suffered the same looting of her love with Bosco Wong.

I once gave up my career for each other and lived the life I wanted.

Finally, after recognizing the facts, I chose to leave and break up.

I met my current husband, Li Chengde, and turned myself back to be as happy as a child.

Xinger, who gave birth to three children, didn't stop there.

I still love my job and pursue my acting career.

In the domestic "Actor in Place" program, he won the championship with his own strength and gained more job opportunities.

It has been reported recently that her husband ate a soft meal.

Xinger, who has just given birth to triplets, works nonstop in the north, while he only takes care of the children at home.

In fact, Mr. Li has been working hard for many years, and now he is relatively stable. He hopes to win more precious time to accompany his children to grow up.

I hope to support my wife in pursuing her career.

It can be seen that Xinger, while reaping love, did not forget to keep himself enthusiastic about his career.

The career has not lost her personal charm, but also made her gain more love.

This is also inseparable from her being hard on herself. She was once questioned about her acting skills and looks, and she had no leading role in life.

She worked hard in the way of "desperate three mothers" and finally returned to TVB as the "queen of three materials" after nine years of silence.

It is also 9 years, walking in the right direction.

The result is completely different.

? 2?

No matter how much you love someone, don't forget to love yourself first.

Chen Lu bought Henry the best clothes and nearly 654.38 million watches.

In order to make him more decent in public,

But I chose 2-300 yuan clothes on Taobao, and I wronged myself for many years.

I wronged myself to buy a villa for the other mother first, and then I bought a wedding room myself.

I have been working in obscurity behind my back, just to get a better future.

What I finally got was a farce in which an affectionate person forced the woman to break up.

After learning the truth, the man did not feel a little guilty, but the words "make a price".

Only then did I find that this selfless love became so worthless.

This reminds me of the recent events in Lin Shengbin.

At first, the woman ignored her family's opposition and her family conditions were different.

Always give up his career for the man, be the woman behind him, take care of the children silently,

In exchange, only those who have no temperature set up sympathy and care, and even betrayed.

It is natural for a woman to take care of her children and pay for her family.

Zhang Haochen wrote in You Are the Best Yourself:

When you are kind to someone without asking for anything in return, that person will take your kindness for granted one day.

And your kindness will only turn into weakness and let him take advantage of you.

Girl, no matter how much you love someone, you must love yourself first, and don't forget to be good to yourself.

? three

Love yourself well, and you will have more choices to love and be loved.

There is a proverb in Keigo Higashino,

He said that the best way to keep fresh in the world is to make continuous progress and make yourself a better and more lovely person.

The best way for yourself is to keep self-discipline and have a career you love.

Polish yourself into a better and more independent self in the long years.

When we have enough capital, we can choose what we love more.

A trip to leave,

My favorite dream cars.

Give yourself and your parents a warm home.

A lover who understands you from three angles.

Only by learning to love yourself well can you meet the right person and yourself.

Only by loving yourself well can you have more and bigger worlds.

? Remember the events in Show Lo and Grace Chow,

Grace Chow is the only openly admitted girlfriend of Show Lo.

Perhaps this is Grace Chow's emotional testimony in the past nine years.

Of course, this is enough to prove Grace Chow's personal charm.

In addition to the title of online celebrity, she is also a real brand manager.

Her Weibo is full of her own cultivation and brand career sharing.

When we broke up, Grace Chow's free and easy, confident and self-loving spirit made me feel that this was the most beautiful look of a girl.

Without Show Lo, she has her own aura.

Become what you like first, and then meet people who don't need to please.

last words

Girl, you are unique, global limited edition.

As long as you shine, you can meet love and love what you love.