What if you are afraid to find a job? What should I do if I am nervous and afraid to face it?

The subject can calm down. What causes fear? Tracing back to the source, there is always a way to overcome it. Simply put: the way to overcome fear is to face it!

Let's share my personal job hunting experience: an experience from high pressure to collapse to excitement.

The article I published has the experience of opening a shop, a failed experience! Before the store closed down, all bank cards WeChat Alipay could barely cover the expenses. In July of that year, the store closed down, and all my money was only over 12 thousand. I was still renting a house at that time. If I want to survive, I must find a job as soon as possible.

At that time, the mentality was really high pressure, and high pressure was high pressure. I wrote a programmer for half a year and two years' experience in a tea shop on my resume. I frantically submit my resume, what sales position, what customer service, and what intermediary I can contact. In just one week, I interviewed intermittently for five days, and finally decided to go to an intermediary company to open an intermediary.

I won't say which institution. Their intermediary is called consultant for short. At that time, the starting salary of undergraduate course was quite high. During the probation period of 4,800, an old employee (tour guide) was arranged. Three weeks before joining the company, we conducted ultra-high-intensity training, memorized the process and simulated the house-viewing scene. In the fourth week, we will look at the invitation rate, and then in the next few months, we will look at your turnover rate. In the first phase 12, less than half of them really turned positive. In this state of high pressure and self-pressure, my training progress is not very satisfactory, and my instructor (A for short) is cold and social, and he always takes me as an outlet for bad emotions. In the third week, I went directly to the company leader and said that I wanted to change my guidance. The leader talked directly to A. In the middle of A, he angrily told me to go out and question me, and even kicked me first! I immediately fought back, scuffled together, and later called the police, who characterized it as a fight! Of course I resigned. I heard that A was demoted and didn't get fired.

After this resignation, I didn't immediately jump into the next round of job hunting as I did after the store closed down. Instead, he became very depressed. I was depressed for more than 30 days. Those more than 30 days were simply a torment for me, and I wanted to die. I thought about why I was so weak every day for a while and why I suffered from this series of disasters. ! I began to self-deny, self-doubt, and even felt that I was nothing but a complete loser. Sleep in bed in a rented house, read novels and order takeout every day. I picked up the blade and put it down several times. At that time, I thought I was really interesting, and I had to pull a cushion when I died. But is that garbage man worth changing my life? The answer is not worth it! Do it if you are not afraid of death!

That city has given me too much sadness. After I figured it out, I came to Suzhou, giving myself a new environment and a new start, reloading and selling building materials.

Fortunately, I didn't meet a garbage man like A this time.

Ok, topic, this is my job-hunting experience! Do you have to find out what scares you? Is it psychological or environmental? Have you ever had the same self-denial and doubt as me psychologically? Is the environment not well adapted? Well, from now on, open your heart and overcome your fears.

I wish you an early job!

Nothing, many people are nervous. I was so nervous when I first interviewed for a job from school, but the interviewer was reasonable and saw that my academic performance was good and I passed it smoothly. Many years later, the company asked me to go for an interview. I was nervous at first, but later I became better.