In xin tian zhen Central Primary School in Xinfeng County, family education has become a common practice.

In xin tian zhen Central Primary School in Xinfeng County, family education has become a common practice.

Correspondents Huang Yichun and Zhong Honglong reported that in order to achieve greater and better results in home-school education, xin tian zhen Central Primary School in Xinfeng County will issue home visit records at the beginning of each semester. The school requires home visits to be mainly at ordinary times, and the forms can be varied: to get to know students in depth, we must make a special trip to the students' homes to study and guide family education, and the cooperation mechanism between enterprises and schools; In case of emergency, call parents to come to school to solve it, or explain a few words when parents send them to school; Telephone home visits and class WeChat groups communicate with parents anytime and anywhere, with pictures and pictures, and the image is intuitive ... The school calls on everyone to actively innovate the home visit mode, but it should be based on traditional home visits.

Teachers from xin tian zhen Primary School have visited more than half of the students' homes since the school started more than one month ago. At the same time, on the way home with the children, teachers and students talked about everything, which quickly narrowed the distance between them. Teachers are also warmly received by parents. In a harmonious atmosphere, teachers and parents had full communication, which swept away the seriousness of the relationship between home and school in the past and laid a mass foundation for the development of all aspects of education in the future. After this period of home visits, xin tian zhen primary school teachers found some good family management practices, sorted them out and shared them with you, hoping to give you some reference:

A good family has good habits of work and rest.

Early to bed and early to rise. Go home from school and do your homework before playing. Xiaoxue goes to and from school by bike every day for nearly 20 minutes. However, she spoke boldly in class and achieved excellent results in all subjects. At present, it is supervised by grandparents and will do housework properly.

Grandparents have a hard and fast rule: you must finish your homework as soon as you get home from school, then do housework properly, and then you can watch TV properly. You are not allowed to be a guest at your classmates' home during your study. A family can go to bed early and get up early, usually at 8 o'clock. Adequate sleep makes the child's brain fully developed and ensures physical strength. The child's attention in class lasts for a long time. Nowadays, many young parents don't go to bed before twelve o'clock. Children have a "role model" and like to stay up late, which makes it difficult to get up the next morning. Even if I barely get up, I feel dizzy and no one is in class. Therefore, a good schedule is an important guarantee for learning.

A good family can effectively control the interference of electronic equipment.

It is necessary to prevent electronic devices from hurting children's body and mind like drugs. Xinyuan's performance is mediocre, but influenced by her sister, her composition also shows extraordinary development momentum. As she wrote in "Different Me", "I believe that the caterpillar will become a butterfly one day!" Currently under the guardianship of parents.

As soon as Xinyuan got home, she shared a room with her sister and finished her homework. Then go outside to play, and you can participate in family management in the evening. Parents never give them mobile phones, so they don't want to play. Parents' role models are important. Their parents don't play mobile phones at home, and the whole family has successfully avoided the interference of mobile phones in their lives.

Xiao Liu is different. Last semester, because I was addicted to mobile games, I often didn't hand in my homework, and my grades hovered around thirty or forty. During the home visit, he told his mother that out of doting, her mother lost control and Xiao Liu's performance did not improve. This semester, his father confiscated his mobile phone. Xiao Liu not only does his homework, but also often scores 100, which is praised by the teacher many times. His interest in learning is increasing day by day, and his grades are slowly passing, reaching the academic level of technical secondary school.

As for the attitude towards TV, some parents stipulate that it is not allowed to watch TV from Sunday night to Friday afternoon, and it can only be watched on weekends, and there is also a time limit. Children spend less time on electronic devices, spend more time outdoors and keep up with their physical development. This is a lifelong practice, especially for parents.

A good family guardian has high prestige.

There is a necessary condition for the effective implementation of the above two articles, that is, the guardian must have high prestige, to the letter, and the child must accept it unconditionally.

Xiao Yang's homework is sloppy, casual and often in arrears. It's been more than half a month since school started, and I haven't written a word in my exercise book. When I visited my grandmother at home, she told her that she was helpless and couldn't control him at all. She scolded him, talked back and hit him back.

Guardians have no prestige, there is a vacuum in management, and even the best educational methods cannot be implemented. Therefore, parents must have iron discipline, establish their parents' prestige and fulfill their responsibilities as guardians.

A good family guardian has good communication skills.

After Yuan Yuan entered the fourth grade, his grades improved. His parents are very satisfied and do well in school. However, he often stays at home with his grandparents, which makes communication difficult. Parents hope that the teacher will come forward to coordinate.

After the teacher's home visit, enlighten parents to update their educational concepts, treat their children equally, be fair and just, listen to their voices more, pay attention to positive guidance, and protect their self-esteem and self-confidence. Teachers also encourage children to express their inner thoughts to their parents in a euphemistic way, gain their parents' understanding and support, and create a happy life together. When children's ideas are valued, they are willing to accept their parents' opinions and suggestions. If parents are too strong, children's views are not expressed or always denied, children will give up communication and express themselves through resistance or sulking. In fact, this is also the instinctive self-protection of children.

Through regular home visits, the teachers of xin tian zhen Primary School fully demonstrated the school's educational philosophy and school-running characteristics to parents, so that parents could further understand the measures and effects of class management, and also listened to their valuable opinions on school management. Home-school education has become a common practice and received good social benefits. In the future, primary schools in xin tian zhen will further study measures to improve the home-school education mechanism, and provide greater impetus for the leap-forward development of primary education in xin tian zhen.