You have to work very hard to live an ordinary life

Milan Kundera said in "Immortality": "There are great immortality and small immortality in the world. The great immortality is the name that everyone in the world will say to you, and it is those who are strangers to you. People still remember you after you die, and small immortality is just that the people who love you still remember you."?

Small immortality is an ordinary life, with not many highlight moments, just following your thoughts. Live your life and leave a mark on the hearts of the people you know and love.

Internet success studies, surrounding voices, and social definitions all tell us: the life we ??see at a glance is mediocre, unchallenged, and a life in this world for nothing. But in fact, we work hard all our lives just to live an ordinary life.

The female guest Jiang Fangzhou in "The Round Table" said: "The life that can be seen all the way is a very luxurious life."

In 2019, Internet giant Didi laid off 2,000 employees overnight, and Huawei laid off employees over the age of 35. Various recruitment requirements read: Undergraduate degree or above, 211,985 priority, under 35 years old. , the spread of the Wuhan epidemic in 2020 nearly paralyzed the national economy, countless small and medium-sized enterprises went bankrupt, and countless people faced instant unemployment. Living an ordinary life is difficult and cannot be done casually.

The young writer, Vice President of Enlight Pictures, studied hard during college. After graduation, he spent three years planning his life, two years adapting and adjusting, three years of workplace purgatory, two years of self-breakthrough, and ten years of hard work to grow. Now I have a stable and enviable job. So you have to work very hard to live an ordinary life.

In reality, how many students go through the purgatory of the college entrance examination and then go to university to let themselves go, how many girls regard marriage as a rebirth of life, and how many married men go from being energetic to becoming prosperous in two years.

They think that hard work is just a stage requirement.

Lifelong learning is no longer a concept put forward in books, but a concept that everyone needs to practice. "Learning is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat." Lifelong learning is a general trend, and if you don’t do it, you are regressing.

Some people will retort: ??"No, my uncle worked in a company all his life and retired honorably at the age of sixty!" You know, he has retired and he has caught the last train for an iron job. , His era was different from ours.

My best friend’s department head received the news that he was fired from the company when he was still a year and a half away from retirement. Not to mention that his situation was not bad. He had experienced all the major events in his life, but he had no income for a year and a half. , and then you can enjoy your old age.

How many people are not as lucky as him? In "Little Joy", Fangyuan works in a company. He is middle-aged, raising fish and watering flowers. But when he received the news that he had been dismissed from his job, he didn't dare to talk to his wife, tell his children, or let his friends know. He went out on time every day and pretended to go to work in the company.

This is not the embarrassment of one person, but the current situation of a group of people who are unwilling to work hard and do not see the formality clearly.

Just like the writer Somerset Maugham said: "I tried my best to live an ordinary life."

A college classmate of mine worked in human affairs in Beijing after graduation. After one year of graduation, I got tired of my job and dissatisfied with my salary, so I quit my job and rested at home. Later, I heard someone say that big data is very profitable, so I found a training institution and started an eight-month training.

After the training, I was not in a hurry to find a job. Today I said the weather was too hot, tomorrow I said the company I was interviewing at was too far away, and the day after tomorrow I said I wanted to take a break. In the end, my job search for five months ended in failure, so I turned around and started working in human resources.

She can resign as soon as she wants to leave, and get training as soon as she wants to be trained. The fundamental reason is that she has a financially wealthy family. After graduation, I can accept the money from my parents with peace of mind and live a life without having to work for a year without worrying about food and drink. Most people do not have such family conditions, so they can only run as hard as they can to avoid getting caught in the rain.

Some people say that the highlight is the campus, some say that the year of your birth year is not going well, and some say that life after graduation is bumpy. In fact, it does not matter what your destiny is after graduation and what society is like. Social competition has always been cruel. You were once beaten by your family. Protected by the campus, now you need to fight the world alone, using knowledge as a sword and shield.

Our growth is a process from being protected by others to protecting others. You have a wonderful childhood, which is earned by your parents who have worked hard all their lives for you. If your children want to have a happy time, you need to work hard to satisfy it.

The so-called peaceful years are just an appearance, just like the calm sea surface, "the autumn water is always the same color as the sky." In fact, there are rough waves and undercurrents under the sea level, and you may be involved in it if you are not careful. swirl.

Those of us born in the 1980s and 1990s have never experienced a social period of ups and downs due to lack of food. Our understanding of war comes from history and foreign news.

We don’t understand that corpses can be eaten in war-torn times, we don’t understand that people can betray their loved ones in the face of self-protection, and we don’t understand that being alive is already a miracle. People in turbulent times have extraordinary lives, and even everyone's life is a novel of ups and downs. They spend their whole lives just to live an ordinary life.

Our current ordinary life is obtained by how many people spent their extraordinary lives.

In "The Ordinary World", Sun Shaoan, as the eldest son, took on family responsibilities prematurely, fought against poverty all his life, guarded against frame-up by the village secretary, endured the indifference after the failure of his first business venture, and started his own business again regardless of past suspicions and help. Help your neighbors. That was the epitome of the 1970s and 1980s. Sun Shaoan didn't think about fame, fortune, or career, he just wanted to live an ordinary life in his own world, but it was so difficult!

It is countless people like Sun Shaoan who have created an era where you can live an ordinary life now!

Watching the 70th National Day military parade, the strength of the motherland’s military and the uniform soldiers can’t help but burst into tears. It is they who guard the country’s territory on the border and make our lives just for Just run around with daily necessities.

There are two episodes in "Xiao Shuo" in which Sansha City invited Gao Xiaosong to do interviews and promote tourism. The soldiers on the frontier endured the bitter cold environment of the frontier and lived a simple life. They had not seen their wives and children for many years. Their passion for serving the country and the people was the driving force for them to persevere.

As a Chinese, when a plane crashes, the Chinese People's Liberation Army rushes to the scene thousands of miles away, because we have the same motherland.

All this tells me that I cannot live in peace. If I am not cruel to myself, life will be even more cruel to me.

I want to live an ordinary life, I want to provide ordinary life support for my parents and children, and I want to express my gratitude for the peaceful era with actions.

You have to work very hard to live an ordinary life!