A letter to a classmate.

Four years of black adulthood, a lifetime of black love. Dear teachers and students, hello! I am Wang Xu, a student of Grade 20 13 in the School of Software, Heilongjiang University. My student number is 20 1342 1 1. I have graduated for two years in a blink of an eye. I wonder if the bells in Huiwen Building are still so nice? I don't know the sentence "Black Big, remember I love you!" " On the wall of the underpass. Still colorful? I wonder if C 19-5 13 dormitory is still laughing? I wonder if the rice noodle crossing the bridge on the third floor of the canteen in Area A still tastes like this? Hello, Haida. I am very excited. I will meet you on March 27th. I think when I first met you, there must be a sentence in my heart: "Long time no see ~".

The first campus job fair in Qiqihar came to our alma mater, including the selection of "excellent students from famous schools" and the introduction of talents from large enterprises in Qiqihar. My alma mater, considering that everyone will have a lot of questions about job hunting when they graduate, in order to find a satisfactory job and better understand the large-scale campus recruitment in Qiqihar, it happened that I, as a black college student, went to work in Beijing after graduation. After working in Beijing for two years, I was admitted to the "elite student" team in Qiqihar, so my alma mater asked me to share with you the truth of my "elite student" position since I worked in Beijing after graduation. I feel that I am duty-bound to my alma mater and my job responsibilities. I hope to present it in a natural, objective and close face-to-face communication way. The original intention of this letter is not to make choices for everyone. I just hope that after reading this letter, everyone can put down themselves, calm down, seriously think about what kind of life they want, and think about their life planning responsibly.

Why do I want to go to Beijing after graduation? How about working in Beijing?

I majored in computer software. When I was looking for a job near graduation, I still didn't think clearly: "Do I work in this major or in other industries?" Which city should I go to? Which city is good? Which city can I go to? ".Like you, I have also experienced this stage. Looking back on myself at that time, I simply felt that Beijing had a big platform and many opportunities, and I was eager to go; On the other hand, it's not that I don't want to go back to work in Qiqihar, but I didn't know what I could do in Qiqihar at that time. Due to my major, there are many employment opportunities in the IT industry in recent years. When I was a junior, some students around me had already found a job in a large Internet company in Beishangguang. At that time, I thought, I must also go to a big company to get a high salary and show myself on a big platform in a big city, so I didn't seriously think about how I would live, nor did I take other jobs, my parents' ideas and my girlfriend's ideas into account. I also insist on doing so. During the summer vacation of my junior year, I came to Beijing Xiaomi for an internship. I was very happy to find such a job. What's more, she didn't want to go to Beijing, but accompanied me to Beijing (she was a 20 13 student in the School of Economics and Management of Heilongjiang University).

In this way, we came to Beijing full of fighting spirit, looking forward to the future life and seeing what Beijing is like.

Get off at Beijing station

This is what I saw in Beijing:

If you ask me, "How is Beijing?

I will answer "Yes!"

As the capital of China, Beijing is the political and economic center of China. There are countless outstanding talents from all walks of life gathered here; There are a lot of top enterprises and employment opportunities here. It can be said that this city is full of opportunities and challenges. As long as you have the ability, ideas and hard work, it will help you grow to your "upper limit". Vast space and great achievements.

If you ask me, "How is Beijing?

I will answer "no!" ?

As we mature, we will become more and more rational. While acknowledging Beijing's advantages, we also found Beijing's shortcomings. We must also acknowledge the problems we face in living in Beijing. There are many "northern drifters" living in this huge city, including me. Because of traffic jams, poor air quality, no hukou and fixed residence, and long-term hospitalization appointments, many people love and fear Beijing. The living conditions of many high-level companies with a monthly salary of 50,000 or even 65,438+10,000: children go out in the morning and fall asleep when they go home at night. Parents meet once a year in their hometown, pay off the mortgage and squeeze the subway. In fact, they have been very successful, but their life in Beijing is still not so happy. Many seniors told me that they want to go back to their hometown, but it is impossible to go back to their hometown for development at this time. I think these are previews of my future life in Beijing. No matter how well I develop here, what is the purpose of making more money? For parents? I'm sorry I can't accompany them; For the children? Sorry, I may have to send my children back to their hometown; For a better life in the future? I'm sorry I overdraw (there are many examples of young colleagues or colleagues who are seriously ill or even working overtime to sudden death, not to mention that I was young at that time). These problems are really realistic for "drifting north", and such predecessors are everywhere in Beijing! I can see their passion and hope at work, and I can also see their pressure and helplessness in the subway at night ~

Having said that, some people may think, "After all, these people are still not successful enough!" This is really a big mistake. Let's not say whether we can reach the "height" of these predecessors. Some of them are not about wages. Yun and Lei Jun, the great entrepreneurs, must have many practical problems that cannot be avoided.

Let me make up my mind to return to Qiqihar. One day, my girlfriend fainted in the subway because of heavy work pressure and irregular work and rest for a long time. I rushed to the hospital more than an hour after I got the news and saw the picture of my girlfriend burning a bottle with an oxygen inhalation machine. Afterwards, I thought, am I too selfish? I don't think it's what I want to sacrifice my family's health and happiness for my own pursuit. I think what I gained in Beijing is far less important than what I lost. Of course there is nothing wrong with us pursuing our dreams, but it is most important to think about what kind of life we really want. Even if I can't bear to part with my work in Beijing, my playmates and so many traces, I still bid farewell to Beijing and chose a completely different life. At that time, I told myself that I might have regrets, but I didn't regret it.

Successfully passed the "prestigious high flyers" exam and returned to Qiqihar's life;

Fortunately, when I decided to go home, I met the recruitment of "elite students" in Qiqihar. Qiqihar has formulated such a talent policy for "elite students". For us, we don't lose opportunities or challenges. I am still very full in my present position, making progress every day, and enjoying a good life while working. Now, apart from work, I can be accompanied by my family and have hot meals every night, which is completely different from Beijing. At work, many kind seniors patiently teach me how to do it, and I can also play basketball with my colleagues every week. I used to shuttle through the subway station like many people in Beijing every night after 10. I feel that everyone is a lonely individual. Everyone seems to want to get into the bed of the rental house quickly, but now I can finish dinner at 7 o'clock every day, and I can think about the work of the day and the plan for tomorrow while listening to the laughter of my family. In the past, if I wanted to go out for dinner with my friends and play in Beijing for a while, it meant that my only free time disappeared. If I want to visit the surrounding scenic spots, it means that I have to leave at six in the morning and get home at midnight. But now I can take my family to Zhalong Scenic Area for 20 minutes, and I can invite my parents, grandparents and grandparents to go out for dinner anytime and anywhere, so that I can easily go out in the sun and enjoy the company of my family comfortably at home. In retrospect, I still thank Beijing for seeing the forefront of the Internet industry and earning the first bucket of gold in life. But I don't regret choosing to come back, because my life now belongs to "my happiness". [If! vml]

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How should we choose Qiqihar and Beishangguang?

I won't give you specific advice on this question, but only give you the real situation for reference:

First of all, let's find out the most real thing, "money". Of course it's good to talk about money. After all, after graduation, we all have to support ourselves with our own hands, let alone support our families and give them a better life. Because I am a computer major in the IT industry, I just graduated from Xiaomi with a monthly salary of 12k, but after all, there are very few graduates in this major, and not all undergraduate graduates in the IT industry can earn more than 10,000 yuan at the beginning. Most recent graduates come to Beijing with the same monthly salary as my girlfriend. Let me ask you a question, "What do you think your salary will be in Beijing? After deducting taxes and five insurances and one gold, how much can you really control at will? " . When I was in Beijing, my girlfriend and I were not too strict in spending money, so the average monthly expenditure was about 6.5438+0 million yuan. Before the salary increase, all we can save in a year is the year-end bonus. However, after being admitted to a prestigious school and returning to Qiqihar, the monthly salary is above 4k, which is still very attractive compared with 4k-6k in big cities. There is no trouble with rent. There are meals cooked at home every morning and evening, and there is a canteen with 2 yuan at noon, which basically doesn't cost much. Suppose your home is not in Qiqihar, it is much easier to settle here than in Beijing.

Secondly, if we consider family, environment, happiness index, etc. The previous article also said a lot, depending on your thoughts.

Let me briefly talk about the talent policy for "elite students", including applying for young talent apartments according to regulations; Focus on the training of reserve cadres with excellent assessment; The initial appointment of professional and technical positions may not be restricted by the proportion of the post structure of the unit; The "prestigious students" in the direction of party and government cadres' reserve candidates have outstanding performance. After the probation period expires, they can be promoted to deputy department level or official department level in time or abnormality ... Please refer to the published recruitment brochure for detailed talent policies. In a word, Qiqihar has really made great efforts for talent work. In addition, this "unprecedented" campus recruitment didn't leave you an impression as complicated as an internal exam. After the interview, you can directly sign the relevant agreement on the spot. So, I won't say more. If I talk about this too much, I will become more and more like a lobbyist. The real situation is here, and everyone must have a judgment.

? Ok, class, I have basically shared my feelings by writing this. My mother-in-law wrote late into the night, and I'm still worried that you can't calm down and think about what you really want and where your plan is. If you see this, I think it will help you more or less. If you think these are not enough and choose to trust me, a greasy senior, I will wait for you at the Black University Gymnasium on March 27th.

Finally, I want to say that in our future life, two factors are very important, one is hard work and the other is choice. When we make a choice, we will gain something and lose something at the same time. I hope that no matter what choice you make, you can be responsible for yourself, the people you love, the people who love you, and strive rationally to make our future life closer to what you really want. "If you choose Beishangguang, you will enjoy it with your heart; If you choose a small city, please work hard and live a good life. "

Good wishes!

Heilongjiang University Wang Xu 20 13.

March 23, 1965 438+09

I'm ready, welcome home! It is irresponsible for people who are important to themselves and their lives.

Four years of black adulthood, a lifetime of black love. Dear teachers and students, hello! I am Wang Xu, a student of Grade 20 13 in the School of Software, Heilongjiang University. My student number is 20 1342 1 1. Blink of an eye, I have graduated for two years. I wonder if the bells in Huiwen Building are still so nice? I don't know the sentence "Black Big, remember I love you!" " On the wall of the underpass. Still colorful? I wonder if C 19-5 13 dormitory is still laughing? I wonder if the rice noodle crossing the bridge on the third floor of the canteen in Area A still tastes like this? Hello, Haida. I am very excited to meet you on March 27th. I think when I first met you, there must be a sentence in my heart: "Long time no see ~".

The first campus job fair in Qiqihar came to our alma mater, including "elite students" and large enterprises in Qiqihar. My alma mater, considering that everyone will have a lot of questions about job hunting when they graduate, in order to find a satisfactory job and better understand the large-scale campus recruitment in Qiqihar, it happened that I, as a black college student, went to work in Beijing after graduation. After working in Beijing for two years, I was admitted to the "elite student" team in Qiqihar, so my alma mater asked me to share with you the truth of my "elite student" position since I worked in Beijing after graduation. I feel that I am duty-bound to my alma mater and my job responsibilities. I hope to present it in a natural, objective and close face-to-face communication way. The original intention of this letter is not to make choices for everyone. I just hope that after reading this letter, you can put yourself down, calm down and seriously think about what kind of life you really want, and think about your life plan responsibly so that your future life can be closer to what you really want.

Why do I want to go to Beijing after graduation? How about working in Beijing?

? I majored in computer software. When I was looking for a job near graduation, I still didn't think clearly: "Do I work in this major or in other industries?" Which city should I go to? Which city is good? Which city can I go to? ".Like you, I have also experienced this stage. Looking back on myself at that time, I simply felt that the platform was big, there were many opportunities, and I was eager to go; On the other hand, it's not that I don't want to go back to work in Qiqihar, but I didn't know what I could do in Qiqihar at that time. Due to my major, there are many employment opportunities in the IT industry in recent years. When I was a junior, some students around me had already found a job in a large Internet company in Beishangguang. At that time, I thought to myself, I must also go to a high-paying company! Go to the big city platform to show yourself! So I didn't really think about how I want to live, and I didn't take other jobs, my parents' ideas and my girlfriend's ideas into account. I also insist on doing so. During the summer vacation of my junior year, I came to Beijing Xiaomi for an internship. I was very happy to find such a job. What's more, she didn't want to go to Beijing, but accompanied me to Beijing (she was a 20 13 student in the School of Economics and Management of Heilongjiang University).

In this way, we came to Beijing full of fighting spirit, looking forward to the future life and seeing what Beijing is like.

This is what I saw in Beijing:

If you ask me, "How is Beijing?

I will answer "Yes!"

As the capital of China, Beijing is the political and economic center of China. There are countless outstanding talents from all walks of life gathered here; There are a lot of top enterprises and employment opportunities here. It can be said that this city is full of opportunities and challenges. As long as you have the ability, ideas and hard work, it will help you grow to your "upper limit". Vast space and great achievements.

If you ask me, "How is Beijing?

I will answer "no!" ?

As we mature, we will become more and more rational. While acknowledging Beijing's advantages, we also found Beijing's shortcomings. We must also admit the problems faced by living in Beijing: there are many "northern drifters" living in this huge city, including me. Many people love and fear Beijing, because Beijing has traffic jams, poor air quality, no hukou and fixed residence, and it takes a long time to make an appointment for illness. Every day, we can see the living conditions of many company executives with a monthly salary of 50,000 or even 65,438+10,000: the children are not awake when they go out in the morning, and they are already asleep when they come home at night. Parents meet once a year in their hometown, pay off the mortgage and squeeze the subway. In fact, they have been very successful, but their life in Beijing is still not so happy. Many seniors told me that they want to go back to their hometown, but it is impossible to go back to their hometown for development at this time. These may be a preview of my future life in Beijing. No matter how well I develop here, what is the purpose of making more money? For parents? I'm sorry I can't accompany them; For the children? Sorry, I may have to send my children back to their hometown; For a better life in the future? I'm sorry that I was overdrawn. Many young colleagues or colleagues around me were seriously ill and even worked overtime until they died suddenly. What's more, I was already young. These situations are really realistic for "drifting north", and such predecessors are everywhere in Beijing! I saw their passion and hope at work, and I also saw the pressure and helplessness when I took the subway at night ~

Having said that, some people may think, "After all, these people are still not successful enough!" Then I can only say that it is all wet, not to mention whether I can reach the height of these predecessors. Some of them are not about salary. Big entrepreneurs like "Ma Yun" and "Lei Jun" certainly have unavoidable practical problems.

Let me make up my mind to return to Qiqihar. One day, my girlfriend fainted in the subway because of heavy work pressure and irregular work and rest for a long time. I rushed to the hospital more than an hour after I got the news and saw the picture of my girlfriend burning a bottle with an oxygen inhalation machine. Afterwards, I thought, am I too selfish? I don't think it's what I want to sacrifice my family's health and happiness for my own pursuit. I think what I gained in Beijing is far less important than what I lost. Of course there is nothing wrong with us pursuing our dreams, but it is most important to think about what kind of life we really want. Even though I can't bear to part with my work, good friends and traces in Beijing, I still bid farewell to Beijing and chose a completely different life. At that time, I told myself that I might have regrets, but I didn't regret it.

Successfully admitted to a famous university and returned to Qiqihar's life;

Fortunately, when I decided to go home, I met the recruitment of "elite students" in Qiqihar. Qiqihar has formulated such a talent policy for "elite students". For us, we don't lose opportunities or challenges. I am still very fulfilling in my present position, making progress every day and enjoying life while working. Now, apart from work, I can be accompanied by my family and have hot meals every night, which is completely different from Beijing. Now I can go to work at half past eight and go out at eight every day. At work, many kind seniors patiently teach me how to do it, and I can also play basketball with my colleagues every week. I used to shuttle through the subway station like many people in Beijing every night after 10. I feel that everyone is a lonely individual. Everyone seems to want to get into the bed of the rental house quickly, but now I can finish dinner at 7 o'clock every day, and I can think about the work of the day and the plan for tomorrow while listening to the laughter of my family. In the past weekend in Beijing, if I wanted to go out for dinner and play with my friends, it meant that my little free time disappeared. If I want to visit the surrounding scenic spots, it means starting at six in the morning and getting home at midnight in the evening. But now you can take your family to Zhalong Scenic Area in 20 minutes on the weekend, and you can also invite your parents, grandparents and grandparents to go out for dinner anytime and anywhere, so you can easily go out in the sun and enjoy the company of your family comfortably at home. In retrospect, I still thank Beijing, where I saw the forefront of the Internet industry and earned the first bucket of gold in my life. But I don't regret choosing to come back, because life now is "my happiness".

How should we choose Qiqihar and Beishangguang?

I won't give you specific advice on this question, but only give you the real situation for reference:

First of all, let's find out the most real thing, "money". Of course it's good to talk about money. After all, after graduation, we all have to support ourselves with our own hands, let alone support our families and give them a better life. Because I am a computer major in the IT industry, I just graduated from Xiaomi with a monthly salary of 12k, but after all, there are very few graduates in this major, and not all undergraduate graduates in the IT industry can earn more than 10,000 yuan at the beginning. Most recent graduates come to Beijing with the same monthly salary as my girlfriend. Let me ask you a question, "What do you think your salary will be in Beijing? After deducting taxes and five insurances and one gold, how much can you really control at will? " . When I was in Beijing, my girlfriend and I were not too strict in spending money, so the average monthly expenditure was about 6.5438+0 million yuan. Before the salary increase, all we can save in a year is the year-end bonus. However, after being admitted to a prestigious school and returning to Qiqihar, the monthly salary is above 4k, which is still very attractive compared with 4k-6k in big cities. There is no trouble with rent. Every morning and evening, there is a home-cooked meal, and at noon, there is a canteen with a unit of 1 yuan, which basically does not cost much. Suppose your home is not in Qiqihar, it is much easier to settle here than in Beijing.

Secondly, if we consider family, environment, happiness index, etc. The previous article also said a lot, depending on your thoughts.

There is also a brief talk about the talent policy for "elite students", including applying for young talent apartments according to regulations; Focus on the training of reserve cadres with excellent assessment; The initial appointment of professional and technical positions may not be restricted by the proportion of the post structure of the unit; The "prestigious students" in the direction of party and government cadres' reserve candidates have outstanding performance. After the probation period expires, they can be promoted to deputy department level or official department level in time or abnormality ... Please refer to the published recruitment brochure for detailed talent policies. In a word, Qiqihar has really made great efforts for talent work. In addition, this "unprecedented" campus recruitment didn't leave you an impression as complicated as an internal exam. After the interview, you can directly sign the relevant agreement on the spot. So, I won't say more. If I talk about this too much, I will become more and more like a lobbyist. The real situation is here, and everyone must have a judgment.

Ok, class, I have basically shared my feelings by writing this. My mother-in-law wrote it late at night. I'm still a little worried that you can't calm down and think about what you really want and where your plan is. If you see this, I think it will help you more or less. If you think these are not enough and choose to trust me, a greasy young man, I will wait for you at the Black University Gymnasium on March 27th!

Finally, I want to say that two factors are very important in the future, one is hard work and the other is choice. When we make a choice, we will gain something and lose something at the same time. I hope we can be responsible for ourselves, the people you love and the people you love, and we must strive rationally, so that our future life will be closer to what you really want. A sentence for my schoolmates: If you choose to go north to Guangzhou, then enjoy it with your heart; If you choose a small city, please live a good life.