What was it like after you resigned naked?

1,

I live a planned life and cannot accept a life that is not within my control. However, not long ago, I resigned myself to death.

I never thought about what would happen after my resignation, so after I got my resignation certificate, I started thinking about what to do next rather than what to do. Friends say, you have been busy these years, it’s good to stop and take a rest, don’t put too much pressure on yourself. So since I happened to get the full episode resource of the TV series "Ode to Joy" that I was following after Naked Ci, I started watching the series comfortably and relaxedly.

In the past few days, I have been watching dramas every day. I slept until I woke up naturally in the morning, got up and washed myself, without changing clothes, and became completely lazy. I watch dramas every day, check Weibo, eat all the food in the refrigerator and snack box, and don’t want to cook at night. When it’s about six o’clock, I start counting the minutes. I’m waiting for Mr. Z to come back, and he gets home after eight o’clock. He would call me downstairs, and then I would go downstairs dressed casually and follow him to dinner. Days like this lasted for a long time.

Until the TV series ended, I suddenly found that life had no purpose or focus. That day happened to be the day my father-in-law finished his surgery, and my mother-in-law accompanied him to live near us after he was discharged from the hospital. Since the attending doctor did not come back, my father-in-law still had some things to figure out and had not decided on a specific time to return home. Our house did not have a key, only a combination lock, so at about nine o'clock in the morning, I heard the beeping sound of unlocking and jumped up and ran to the bathroom to change clothes quickly. They were also surprised why I was at home. They explained that they had a few days off, so after chatting, they took what they needed and left.

In the evening, they made an appointment for them to go home the next day, and they began to worry that my husband was at work and could not see them off. At this time, I suddenly realized that I was an idle person, so I said I would go see them off. At that moment, I suddenly remembered that during the period when I was unemployed and at home, I took care of the cat poop and did the housework. Now it was my turn to send my parents-in-law to the station. Everything was due to my lack of work. .

After seeing off my parents-in-law, I went to have lunch with my colleagues near the company where I worked and talked about some things. It was also on that day that I learned about a policy in Beijing’s lottery that was beneficial to us. It was the only time that day. harvest. In the afternoon, I was in a good mood and went home to continue updating the drama. On this day, I symbolically submitted a few resumes.

Finally, the weekend is approaching. When I got up on Friday, I started looking through Meituan and Nuomi to see where I would go for the weekend. After booking the escape room, I contacted a friend to go with him. On Friday, I kept making appointments to discuss going there to spend the night.

I went to the escape room as promised on Saturday and came back very late after eating and shopping. On Sunday we split up. My husband went to play ball with his colleagues. I made an appointment with a friend to eat fried chicken in Wudaoying Hutong. We arrived. When I ate it, I learned that there was no fried chicken at all, it was all vegetarian. That day was not a happy one because we took a selfie together, and next to my friend who was as thin as lightning, my fatness was clearly exposed. No matter which angle you look at, I'm fat. After the separate operations, we had skewers together with my husband’s colleague and his wife, and we didn’t start driving home until around ten o’clock in the evening. The weekend passed in a hurry.

My state has not been good since Monday, because I suddenly discovered that I have been unemployed for a week! And because I was not attentive in submitting resumes, there were very few interview invitations. I started to panic and doubt myself. I felt like the whole world had abandoned me and no one could save me.

2,

That day I went out to interview two companies, but the results were not ideal because the company's projects seemed unreliable. At noon that day, I stood on the street in Wangjing and watched people coming and going. It was the first time I felt disoriented after four years of drifting in Beijing. I don't know what I should do next, I don't know who to tell these things to, because no one can help me. Tired of standing and seeing enough, I took a taxi home. Another day passed.

On Tuesday morning, when I woke up, Mr. Z had already gone to work. I felt very depressed when I got up, so I sat at the dining table and cried. I was so helpless. I was scared to think that I was only 27 years old and would be unemployed.

I also thought about Mr. Z, who had just married me and had to take on the responsibility of raising me. Although this was right, my strong self-esteem made me feel frustrated again. So the more I cried, the sadder I became, until the cat was killed by me. It woke me up with crying, ran over, jumped on the table, patted me, and then yelled at me. I turned my head, curled my lips and said, Meo, I am unemployed and can no longer buy you dried fish. It patted me again, He kept yelling, but he couldn't understand what I was saying, just like I couldn't understand what she was saying, so I cried even louder.

After the cat patted me to no avail, he simply lay down on the table next to me and looked at me quietly. Then I cried enough and continued to revise and submit my resume. I received a few interview invitations this day, but they were not ideal.

At around four o'clock in the afternoon, I looked through the photos out of boredom, and saw my friend who was as thin as lightning and the indescribable me. My emotions started to get out of control again, wow...

Okay, I admit that there has never been a day in my life that was as hopeless as that day. I was tired. I hugged the cat and looked at myself in the mirror. I said to cheer up and don’t give up on yourself just because you are unemployed. Being fat is temporary, just like being unemployed. You must work hard to change the status quo.

The first thing I did was not to open the recruitment website, but to open Zhihu and search what it was like to be unemployed and what it was like to post naked words. I must know that there are people like me in this world, and these people have found jobs again after going through pain. Zhihu gave me a lot of strength, so I opened the Maimai anonymous area again, well, it’s not me As expected, many people resigned from their jobs at home, and some people have been unemployed for two months. I told myself, look, there are so many people, don’t worry.

Time passed like this while I was crying. In the evening, Mr. Z came back and I showed him my new skirt. After he complimented me on my beauty, I felt better. I kept talking because I really hadn't spoken a day.

I said, you know, my classmates said that I am not lucky enough to be a full-time housewife at home. He laughed at me and said, "You should take a good rest if you are in a hurry. I make enough money. At most, half of it is yours." I went on to say that if one day I become a full-time housewife, just remember to find me a nanny who can chat with me. After we finished talking, we laughed together and the cats meowed and nuzzled around us. I felt the warmth from home. I said I don’t have a job, am I particularly bad? Mr. Z said no, he likes me, I am the best, I am better than other people with jobs. He will never find anyone as good as me, I laughed and said my ears were going to cum, hahaha.

Mr. Z said, you can’t cry or deny yourself. You are so good, you just don’t have a job temporarily. Take a good rest and go back to work when you have the right opportunity. In the evening, a good friend gave me a blood injection, so I was alive again and recommended all the positions I could get my hands on.

3,

On this day, I interviewed with a company, next to Mr. Z’s office building. It went very well. I still have to wait for the person in charge to come back for a re-examination, but as the number of interview invitations increased, My path is becoming clearer.

Thursday is a good day. I came to Zhongguancun for the re-examination today. I had a very strong aura of responsibility. I was really shocked at first, but then it calmed down. I gradually regained my confidence through asking and answering questions. An hour later, I started negotiating salary with the human resource. No surprise. Got the offer. I can finally relax. I bought a movie ticket for Beijing Meets Seattle II and went to watch a movie by myself while waiting for Mr. Z to come home.

I re-interviewed another very good Internet financial company on Friday morning, and successfully got another offer.

Then I received interview calls, whether from large companies or small companies, and I didn’t go for interviews again. The reason is that in my mind, taking all factors into consideration, I already have a company I clearly want to join.

After I responded to the offer, I took another three days of rest. These three days were extremely happy, because I knew that after this, I would be greeted by new colleagues, a new company, and new challenges.

On the first day when I returned to work, Mr. Z and I went to take the subway together. For the first time, I felt that the people I was taking the subway with were all so cute!

Before I quit my job, I did a lot of things, including working, giving micro-classes, writing books, and receiving consultations. During the time I quit my job, I could actually do other things besides not working, but I After letting go of everything, I felt like a useless person who had to rely on the negative energy in the anonymous area of ????MaiMai to survive every day. People really get busier when they are busier, and when they are less busy, they become less busy. But having said that, during the days when I was naked, I still had a small gain, that is, I signed a contract with Dangdang.com for my fourth book, and received a royalties of 7,500. My mother laughed at me and resigned from my salary during this period, and the royalties were used to make up for it.

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