"Brother, I have no money to buy a house." "You are my brother, not my son." Did my brother do the right thing?

Parents have the responsibility and obligation to raise their children, but as the eldest son, they have no responsibility and obligation to take care of their younger brothers and sisters. But in real life, there are always some unreasonable people who are lazy and have no ambition and kidnap their brothers and sisters with affection. Whose fault is this? To tell the truth, on the surface, younger brothers and sisters must have made mistakes first, but from the root, they can't do without family education.

Shenlin's father has been dead for many years. At that time, he had just graduated from college. In the face of family changes, he shouldered the heavy responsibility of taking care of his brother. He thinks he is the boss of the family, and his father's support for his younger brother who has just been admitted to college is the best explanation.

Over the past few years, through his own efforts, he has not only made himself an executive in the company, but also achieved a monthly salary of 654.38+ 10,000. Shenlin believes that life will gradually improve. But what he never expected was that because of his love for his brother, it has become a habit for his brother to find him.

My brother always takes out his dead father when Lin Sen disagrees with his request: "Brother, have you forgotten what my father said before he died?" Dad asked you to take care of me. Can't you do this? " . "

Every time shenlin heard his brother say these words, he cared about each other's brotherhood and chose to compromise again and again. In the end, shenlin crustily skin of head to use the position of company director, let the personnel department leave a recruitment quota for him to decide. Shenlin thinks that if he does this, his younger brother will understand his painstaking efforts and work hard for a better future.

But shenlin didn't expect that his brother would leave without saying goodbye in less than a month, because he felt that the task assigned by his brother was too difficult during his work, which was simply difficult for him.

Shenlin let his brother enter the company through the back door. His behavior has been sorry for the company's training for him, and his brother left without saying goodbye. If it weren't for shenlin's average sales performance every month, I believe those who want to beat him would have succeeded.

After wave after wave of turmoil, shenlin has not recovered from the shadow of his younger brother's resignation, but his younger brother called for money and said he was getting married. As soon as he opened his mouth, he went straight to the point: "Brother, I have no money to buy a house. Give me 500 thousand. Your monthly salary is not 65,438+10,000, you are relaxed. "

"I won't give it to you. A person who can't even afford to support himself has to get married. Isn't this delaying others? " Shenlin said.

"Brother, have you forgotten what Dad said before his death? Dad asked you to take care of me. Can't you do this? " He shamelessly moved out of this routine again.

The younger brother moved his dead father out again and again, which made Lin deeply angry. He shouted directly on the phone: "You are my brother, not my son."

Shenlin hung up the phone and stood at the window thinking for a long time, but he still transferred 20,000 yuan to his brother and sent a message: I have been used to you for so many years, which led to your lack of hard work and progress. This is the last time I give you money. Take this money, find a job and earn money to support yourself. My brother is not self-motivated. Does my brother have the responsibility to take care of my brother? In view of this problem, I believe most of my friends will think that as the eldest son and daughter, it is the duty to take care of your younger brothers and sisters, and it is the duty not to take care of them. However, in real life, some spoiled brothers and sisters don't understand this truth. In their minds, they think that "as brothers and sisters, they have the obligation to take care of themselves", just like shenlin's younger brother. As an elder brother, shenlin took the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother after his father died. The younger brother not only didn't appreciate his brother's care, but also kidnapped his brother with affection, asked him to give him money, and even intensified his request for his own house. For shenlin's brother's behavior, the mistake is definitely the biggest, but it cannot be ruled out that shenlin's brother's mother lacks education for her son.

When a baby is born, it is like a blank sheet of paper, and it doesn't understand the concepts of good and evil. As the baby grows up, under the influence of family and school, he gradually understands what can and cannot be done. So in my opinion, in a family with brothers and sisters, the three views of brothers and sisters are incorrect, which is inseparable from the education of parents. This is not an excuse for brothers and sisters who have incorrect outlook on life and misbehave, but one thing: "Brothers and sisters have incorrect outlook on life and always kidnap their brothers with affection. Brothers and sisters make the biggest mistakes, but they can't escape the problem of improper education of their parents. " Advise some parents with two or more children: it is difficult for people with incorrect views to make great achievements in society and get recognition from others. It will only make it difficult for you to gain a foothold in society and be despised by most people. Therefore, as parents, if they want their children to have a correct outlook on life and a bright future, they should shoulder their responsibilities and obligations and educate their children well.