Chongqing recruits female security guards

Every community will have a security booth, and the security booth exists to maintain the security of the community and the personal safety of the owners. It is undeniable that there will be some contradictions and conflicts where there are people, and the owners and security guards can't avoid them. Why do two people who should have ruled out the river have conflicts?

A mediation column in Chongqing received a mediation appeal from a female owner. The woman with gauze tied to her head and glasses complained to reporters in the mediation column that she just wanted a glass of water, but she was beaten to death by the female security guard at the security booth. I thought strict father's loving mother would make women more kind, but what I never expected was that the female security guard laid hands on him.

The hostess also said that she spent thousands of dollars on medical expenses to sew up the wound. Her current appeal is to hope that the security guard can apologize to herself and compensate some medical expenses.

The reporter was also very surprised that drinking a glass of water would not hurt anyone, so they went to the security booth to find a female security guard, and later found a security guard. When they were asked to clarify the facts to mediate the contradiction, the ins and outs of the matter gradually became clear.

A female business owner with a broken head, a female security guard with black eyes.

In the high temperature of 38 degrees in Chongqing, a woman wanted to drink a glass of water, so she went to the security booth in her community. Unexpectedly, it was because of this water connection that both of them were injured.

After entering the security booth, the hostess made it clear that she wanted this glass of water to drink, but was rejected by the female security guard. The reason for refusing is that there is not enough water in the water dispenser, so she can't drink it herself. She won't get off work for a few hours.

However, the hostess seems to be dissatisfied with this answer. She naturally said that she had collected water many times before. Why didn't she let the female security guard get the water?

The female security guard still resolutely refused to let her go to other places to pick up water, and let her go to the supermarket to buy water. The water here is not allowed to be connected.

Obviously, the hostess didn't take the refusal of the female security guard seriously, but also forced herself into the security booth to get a glass of water. As a last resort, the female security guard had to close the door hard, trying to stop the female host from breaking in.

Then in the process of closing the door, she accidentally caught the woman's leg. The woman thought it was the female security guard, so they scuffled, and finally the woman was beaten by the security guard with a walkie-talkie.

However, the female security guard did not get away with it, and was beaten black and blue under the injury of the female host.

After being rejected, the female host goes to other places to collect water, or the female security guard asks the female host to collect water here and go to other places to collect water herself, but if one of them is willing to give in, it will not cause such an embarrassing situation.

The hostess insisted on collecting water: in essence, it is a habit to be greedy and cheap. If you are not greedy for a while, you feel cheated.

It is also the nature of many people to be greedy and cheap. After being rejected, the hostess said that she had collected water many times before, so why didn't she stay with her this time?

It can be seen that this woman often comes here to receive water for free and has not been rejected by others. So after this habit was formed, she felt that it would hurt her interests not to let her receive water.

The water in the security booth is often for security guards to drink. If you are thirsty, you can go to the supermarket to buy water or bring water from home. There is no need to drink the water in the security booth, and the security guard has no obligation to give it to her.

This is because the hostess has developed such a habit of being greedy and cheap, and is unwilling to give up the "legitimate rights and interests" of herself and the female security guard.

So she insisted on collecting the water from the security booth, and even after being strongly rejected, she didn't want to "suffer".

This kind of psychology is not only owned by this woman, but also represents many people. If someone keeps giving them sugar, they will naturally feel that it is that person's obligation to give sugar.

They completely forgot their position and kept asking others for it. Once taking is a habit, they will take it for granted that others are good to her.

Just like this woman, because drinking water is a habit, she naturally decided to feel that she has the right to drink water at the security booth, and even thought that the security guards at the security booth should give her water to drink.

If she never got permission and never succeeded in getting water from the security booth, then she wouldn't be so taken for granted and overbearing.

Conclusion:

Even family members have no obligation and responsibility to be good to themselves, not to mention those strangers, who are good to you, may only be polite and cultivated.

Don't treat others' courtesy and self-cultivation as a tool to push your luck. Whether it is a family member or a stranger, it is a mutual affection to be kind to you, not their duty.