Why in today's society, women require men to have a car, a house and a deposit when getting married?

What is love?

I don’t know if it’s because I’ve watched too many idol dramas and become emotionally dull, or if the food in today’s society is unhealthy and has damaged my sensory nerves. Many people begin to become less easily moved.

More and more people are becoming single, and more and more people say that they cannot feel love. More and more people find a similar person to get married at the urging of their parents.

"Do you love her?" "No, you don't hate her?" "Then you decided to marry her?" "My parents are urging me, and I think I can't find love, so I might as well find someone else." Forget about getting married personally."

Love needs management

Many people of the older generation have no love at all for marriage. Maybe they have only met each other a few times, and they are in the presence of their parents. After arranging a hasty meeting, the parents felt that the other person's conditions were not bad, so they made a lifelong decision for the two of them. The two of them may not have even exchanged sweet words of love, and have just spent their lives living on daily necessities. At that time, they may have paid more attention to finding a companion! Perhaps this is due to the increasing demand nowadays. What is more important is not the companionship of having a meal together, but what is more important is having something to say spiritually.

Let’s get married

I was chatting with Xiao Jin a while ago and talked about the divorce of his classmates. He said that three of his classmates had already been divorced. In 1992, the classmates who got married were always** *I can count, there are actually three divorced people. Are people nowadays taking divorce too seriously? Or getting married too hastily. After thinking about it, maybe it is because people’s living circles are larger now and they come into contact with a wider range of people. Thinking about the rural areas in the past, some people may have never left the county where they were born. By the time they get married, The farthest place may be the home of relatives in the neighboring village. Often relatives say that Wang Xiaohua in our village is good, and he wants to marry you. Then he gets married, starts a family, and continues to work in the fields, repeating the cycle from generation to generation.

Trends

Perhaps this is the result of a more open society. People are no longer bound by marriage. They can live together if they get along, and leave if they don't. Such a stable and unstable society Not to mention, this view of marriage is a bit childish.

I think most people still hope to meet a good man and grow old together, so that they can live in peace forever!

You need to be careful when getting married, and you must not get married hastily because of the urging of your parents.

***Mian!