Nine pieces of advice from a father to his daughter who just entered the university.

A father gave his daughter who was about to go to college at 9 o'clock, and she burst into tears after reading it.

A university teacher once wrote a letter to his daughter who just entered the university. In the letter, my father gave nine suggestions to my daughter who had just been admitted to college at that time, covering all aspects such as morality, professionalism, knowledge and love. This letter touched the majority of netizens. Today, let's read this love letter.

A father gave his daughter who was about to go to college at 9 o'clock, and she burst into tears after reading it.

Baby, time flies, the sun and the moon fly. A long time ago, when I was a baby, I learned English and was toddler in the yard. Unconsciously, you have grown up, and in a blink of an eye, you will go to college. It stands to reason that 18 is an adult, so I shouldn't have worried. It's just that you haven't left home since you were born. I've been worried that you can't take care of yourself outside.

I understand and support your saying that you don't want to go to college locally. The sky is vast outside, so you can fly at will.

You hate preaching, but I still want to say a few words when you go out to study. It may not have any effect on you, but it is a comfort to me.

9-point advice from father to daughter

1, on morality

Being a moral person is nothing new. I mainly want to talk about how to do it. Morality is first and foremost a kind of practice, and goodness cannot be confined to the heart.

I remember once taking a bus, I gave my seat to an old man. At that time, you and your sister both said that they didn't expect me to give up my seat. Let me ask you, isn't that what the teacher taught you? You said yes, but you felt a little embarrassed when you did it. I understand the psychology of young people. When I first started helping others, I was also very concerned about other people's eyes.

Now that I think about it, it's totally unnecessary. A good thing, no self-interest, what are you worried about, afraid to talk about? There are many small things in life, as long as they are handy, they are a kind of good deeds. Don't be stingy when you can help others The world will become a better place because of your little efforts. Dad has always owed others, so he should know how to give back to the society.

A father gave his daughter who was about to go to college at 9 o'clock, and she burst into tears after reading it.

2. About major

The quality of a major is relative and dialectical. A good major today does not mean a good major forever. Don't use the standard of interest to measure the quality of a major.

Choosing a major is choosing an interest. No matter how hot the major is, no matter how strong the subject is, it is meaningless if you don't like it. The interest rate is more stable and the interest rate is not long.

Doing what you like and reading your favorite books is a great enjoyment of life. Pick what you like, learn what you love, work should be happier, and life will have a higher quality.

Any major, as long as you learn it well, you won't worry about what others don't have. Just like traveling, as long as you go far enough, you can see scenery that others have never seen before.

With the continuous development of human society, the professional division of labor is more detailed, but the professional division of labor cannot be divided into two. All kinds of majors are ways to explain the world. If you dabble in them widely, you will be smarter.

3. About knowledge

There are people who get rich without reading. But the case can't explain the problem, and the common phenomenon is convincing. Anyone who knows a little common sense knows that knowledge can't be ignored even when measured by money.

As long as you do a simple statistics, you will find that knowledge and income are positively related. Whether reading is useful depends on how you look at it, not just on "money".

Knowledge makes life more possible.

Knowledge determines a person's temperament, interest, vision, appreciation level and values ... these are the key factors affecting the quality of life. These are the results of knowledge edification, not the products of money exchange. If you can realize that there are many more meaningful lifestyles after graduation, then this university will not be in vain.

A father gave his daughter who was about to go to college at 9 o'clock, and she burst into tears after reading it.

4. About reading

The biggest difference between a university and a high school is that there are more freedoms and more people who squander them. I hope you can take advantage of this rare freedom and read more books.

Nowadays, many young people don't like reading. They can spend a lot of time shopping, Taobao, playing games and chatting online ... but they refuse to spend time reading quietly.

I once wrote a reading message to students: "Fall in love with a good book while you are young." I emphasize that it is not easy to take time out to study when you are young and step into the society.

I also emphasize reading good books. Some books are really harmful, lacking in thought and mediocre in content. Reading is like making friends, you should carefully identify them, unless you are good, you should stay away. A simple way is to read classics, which are the product of time choice and the result of readers' picky. There must be a reason why a book becomes a classic. As long as it is a classic, watch it as long as you want.

5. About competition

Now, we need to speak with strength. Rules should be more and more fair, and competition will be more and more cruel.

Dad is a stubborn man. He doesn't like asking for help at work, and he seldom asks others for help. I transferred from primary school to junior high school because the principal thought I was capable of teaching junior high school. Later, the school in the county recruited six teachers, and I got the third place, but I didn't. It doesn't matter, I don't ask others. The next year, I was admitted to graduate school and left that place.

Do not rely on human feelings, rely on ability to compete. Although it's hard, it's great to win the respect of others outside and get peace of mind!

You know, if a person doesn't want to live a humble life, he must have the capital to hold his head high.

You should seize the opportunity, improve yourself, face the ups and downs of life and meet the challenges of the times.

A father gave his daughter who was about to go to college at 9 o'clock, and she burst into tears after reading it.

6. About beauty

Everyone loves beauty, especially girls. People should know how to decorate themselves. It's a pity that I have no experience in this field to teach you. It is ok to buy some new clothes, wear jewelry and add color with makeup.

Of course, beauty and charm don't just refer to appearance. Manners will convey a person's demeanor; Treat people with things, you can see a person's accomplishment.

It is very important to study both inside and outside. I don't want you to pursue vase-like beauty. Besides, no one in our family has the capital to be a vase. Knowledge is the best cosmetic, and good literacy will make people more attractive, which is the irresistible attraction of time.

7. About love

Love is beautiful. Dad hopes you can find the right person. My child, as long as you are happy, my life is complete.

Love is very serious and must be taken seriously. Feelings are not for fun, and love is not for show. True love is deep, not shallow, selfless and not greedy.

Your lover is not your private property. You can miss him, but don't disturb him easily. You can love him, but don't restrict him firmly. Love can make people do all kinds of stupid things without knowing it. As a girl, you should know what to do and what not to do, and think clearly on the way to a date.

The decision of love should be based on careful investigation, not on impulse. I hope your future boyfriend is honest and educated. If you are serious, I will bless you.

A father gave his daughter who was about to go to college at 9 o'clock, and she burst into tears after reading it.

8. About making friends

University is a place to study and make friends. A person must have several friends who have been friends for a long time in his life. A happy life depends not on money and wealth, but on social relations.

Friends are a wide range of social relations. Happiness is shared, you will be happier; Sadness is shared, you won't be too sad. There are people who deserve your care everywhere, and there are people who care about you everywhere. You will feel that the world is full of sunshine and your heart is like a spring breeze.

There is no love and hate for no reason in the world. I hope others will be good to me, and I will be good to others first.

In the university dormitory, four people sleep together, and everyone comes from afar. This is an encounter set by previous lives. If you are in trouble, let it go, and if you are in trouble, help it. And other people's roses, their hands are full of fragrance.

9. It's long overdue

Time is the fairest, everyone's day is 24 hours. Time is the easiest to get, but it is also the least cherished. I often hear people say in my life that I want to make up for my time.

Time can't be made up, wasted is wasted. Don't always feel young, it's too early to do anything.

There is a saying that "I remember a teenager riding a wooden horse, and he was bald in a blink of an eye." College students often spend their time in two aspects, one is club activities, and the other is surfing the Internet. It is indeed a good thing to participate in club activities properly, make friends and increase your knowledge. But too many extracurricular activities will waste time on all kinds of aboveboard names.

The network is very convenient, and the network is also very troublesome. Computers and mobile phones keep you in touch with the outside world at all times, and they also make you constantly disturbed by the outside world. You might as well shut down the internet at an appropriate time and spend your time on more meaningful things.

Baby:

Say 1000 sentences, say 10000 sentences, it is better to practice it yourself. Dad can't teach you everything, and he can't stay with you all his life.

As time goes by, life will not last long; One day, parting will last forever. I hope these suggestions are useful to you. Be happy whenever and wherever you want. If you are good, I will be very happy.