Horror stories before and after cohabitation

Hello, my name is Xin (a pseudonym). I come from Sichuan. When I first came to Shanghai, I was curious about everything. I don't know how to be polite and honest. I think it doesn't matter what I do as long as I get the money. It turns out that I started working in KTV at the age of 18 and spent 1 year. At first, I worked as a waiter, then I went to the health center to do essential oil back opening and thai massage, and then I did that kind of service-oil duck, and then I changed places, but all of them worked in this entertainment place. Because of what I do, the environment I live in, the people around me, the whole environment is a dirty magnetic field. Staying here all day, people close to Zhu Zhechi are all black. In this way, I gradually lost myself.

As a child, I went to work in this entertainment place as soon as I left the society. Living this black-and-white life all day, sleeping during the day, going to work at night, used to eating big meals. Often walk by the river, where can I get my shoes wet? Ordinary people should not go in and out often, let alone stay and work there every day, or even commit adultery in such a place. I met a special person, who is my customer. He often makes me press my feet and hook up with thai massage. After a while, I became his virgin girlfriend. He is very kind to me. He buys everything for me, helps me with my things and bags, and Chen (a pseudonym) gives me 500 yuan pocket money every month. Finally, he encouraged me to live with him.

On second thought, this is a good thing. I save 800 yuan rent every month. He is so kind to me that Chen (a pseudonym) is from Shanghai. He must be rich. He is in his thirties. He must be very anxious. He is single now, why don't I try to have a future with him? So I took 16-year-old brother to live with him. A person has no family outside, so after living with this man for a while, he feels that he is not a promiscuous person. I'm sure I'll be happy, so I found him a job of express customer service and quit his disgraceful job. From then on, he and I had the beginning of sugar paper arsenic. In the end, there is always no result, no commitment and great regret.

We often have fornication, but we didn't know it at that time and thought we were very happy. It hurts to think about it now! Because he doesn't love me, he just takes advantage of my infatuation and treats me like a fool. I am really sorry for my parents, sorry for myself, and I regret it very much. Because the people I know when I work in that place are not good people, because of the environment I work and live in, and the people I come into contact with. The whole environment is a dirty magnetic field. I stay here all day and meet all kinds of people. He is a romantic, and many girlfriends will accompany their girlfriends back to their hometown to see their parents for the New Year. I am a veritable uncle of central air conditioning. All this was buried in the darkness, and I was famous for him.

When my brother was only 16 years old, I didn't value his sexual orientation. It's my sister's fault that she didn't wear a good hair, and he has no scruples. She openly asked my brother to discuss love and homosexual feelings together, and continued to lead my brother into the abyss, while those who approach Zhu Zhechi are all close to the ink. I'm really sorry about my brother and parents. I really feel guilty.

There are indeed many people who live in prostitution without knowing it. In Beishangguang, many young people who come from other places to work here should live together, because cohabitation leads to disharmony, unsatisfactory work and meager income. If they knew that cohabitation was a very important reason for all this, they wouldn't be stupid. I didn't know at that time that the karma of unmarried cohabitation was so powerful!

Later, his friends sneaked out during work hours and often came to our house to eat and play cards, having a good time. When I am away, they often discuss the topic of women. It is also a very bad thing to be overheard by my brother once. It was also a coincidence that his great achievements and romantic deeds were spread out. Someone told my brother that he didn't know that the little boy was my brother, so he exposed it. My brother told me the truth angrily and questioned my liar boyfriend, but he got the reply that if you want to stay here, stay here, leave here early and pack up and leave at once. There is no expression on his face. He is a heartless man. My brother and I had to pack up and leave.

It is also a coincidence that I saw the article "karma", which corresponds to my own experience one by one. I just suddenly realized! Ah, it turns out that cohabitation without marriage is a crime! The result is true! I knew these results before, but I was carried away by lust, and now my dreams are awake! I would also like to thank the kind people who sent messages on the Internet to keep me away from prostitution and awaken my conscience. Because after sexual liberation, there appeared dissolute, amorous and secretive sluts and fickle and disloyal men, living together and having a one-night stand. What is the reason for love at first sight? It is people like me who are criticized. I really shouldn't work as an oil duck. Knowing some bad guys is also doomed to be cheated, and what goes around comes around.

My experience of blood and tears tells me that everyone must insist on not getting married and living together, even if they break up, it will not hurt both sides much. Breaking up together will bring endless pain to the one who has not let go of his feelings and will bear the mental torture of being abandoned. Feelings are sometimes really fragile, and the last straw may ruin the feelings that have been established hard. Therefore, when you are in love, don't care how charming his vows are, you must act according to the rules. We must put an end to premarital sex, cohabitation and adultery. It's really not worth a moment of sensual pleasure and a long-term pain after breaking up.

I was going to get married after living together for a while. Unexpectedly, after living together for a year, I found that he had no intention of getting married at all; Under questioning, he said that he wanted to live together all the time and had no burden to relax, so he finally broke up. "Everything is my problem. I have been complaining before, and I am surrounded by complaints and hatred. In fact, all the pain is inspired by my disrespect for cause and effect and my addiction to prostitution. Here, I want to warn you through my true karma that if you don't find someone, you must not commit adultery. What attracts you is an dissatisfied wife or husband. If you have someone, you must not commit adultery, which will break up the family and let the loving couple go their separate ways.

I know from my brother that he had a marriage before. There is a 10-year-old daughter who divorced because she gambled all day and ignored her family. She gambled for an hour and easily lost 10 thousand yuan, and finally lost all her houses. Her parents broke up with him, and her ex-wife completely broke up with him with her children, so she kept renting a house with nothing. Then he gambled for a while and began to cheat women into living together and playing with women. There are girlfriends from Xinjiang, Henan, Chongqing, Anhui, Sichuan, Shaanxi and other places. And they pieced together the map, and I was just one of the playthings he cheated. He is simply a master of time management, a fickle and ungrateful person, which is terrible!

If I had led an honest and clean life and refused premarital sex, if I had chosen a proper career to work, maybe it wouldn't have ended like this, then I would be happier than now. I realize that all virtues of filial piety come first, so I should listen to my parents. There must be parents' reasons for parents' disagreement, so I must keep the bottom line of protecting myself, cherish my body, stay away from lewdness, refuse premarital sex, and lead a totally clean life. I really regret it now. No matter whether you have an object or not, adultery will make you lose everything, wealth, lover, family, body and career will leave you, and all you get is a wretched face, a turbid mind and an extremely weak body, so never commit adultery. Don't know that I will turn back until I have lost everything. I must remember that it was because of my previous fornication that I was inspired by this result.

The fact is that cause and effect wait for no one. Later, I heard a friend talk about him, only to know that his financial management work p2p is to cheat the old man and the old woman to invest. As a result, the company ran away, and the customer investment100000 was wasted. People looked for him everywhere, chased him and asked him to pay back the money. He disappeared and began to hide for several years. So adulterers are rewarded.

Once you start a romantic cohabitation, your friends and colleagues, as well as each other's friends and colleagues, will be known to everyone. Once cohabitation fails, your reputation is actually damaged before you face a new relationship. Meet some unkind friends again, make a few sarcastic remarks behind your back, or give you a hard time. Will the new love be smooth sailing? However, life is like this. We must bear all that we have done. We can't control other people's mouths, but we can definitely control our actions. Living together before marriage, others will inevitably make an objective evaluation of you with colored glasses. On the one hand, it hurt my reputation, and on the other hand, I became a cheap product, and I was humiliated by his playing and clapping. If you don't live together before marriage, just fall in love, the damage will be reduced by at least half, and the healing time will be shortened by at least half.

The most intuitive expression of the pessimism of lovelorn is listlessness or distraction in life, study and work. In the unit, all leaders are waiting for employees who have the ability to work, and the only thing they can get is not to be reused or even fired. At this moment, it is easy to fall into the double blow of emotion and work, thus feeling that there are ruthless people around, leading to pessimism, and a few people may even have suicidal thoughts. The harm of outlook on life is that I planted cause and effect with my own lewdness, and all kinds of lewdness are the first. I went to work in a bad place and met the bad guys. Those near Zhu Zhechi are black, because I buried myself in hell with my random and messy hands.

So why do people who live together before marriage have so many bad consequences? As we know, fornication is one of the most harmful behaviors, and the so-called "head of all evils" is a very serious immoral behavior. Moreover, the scourge is the fastest and heaviest. Once we commit adultery, retribution will soon come, which will not only lead to career failure, but also seriously consume the blessings of our marriage and make our marriage unhappy. And unmarried cohabitation belongs to lewdness, which will bring us great pain.

Unmarried cohabitation is an informal marriage, and it will be easy to do informal work. There are few benefits for contract workers, temporary workers, assistants or people who help others. Unmarried cohabitation is to enjoy married life in advance, and the fruit is delicious when it is ripe. The fruit is still in the growing period, so it is very small and bitter to pick it hastily and eat it. Most unmarried cohabitants live in a narrow working space and have a hard life.

The marriage of unmarried cohabitation does not belong to you legally, and the house certainly does not belong to you. It is easy to rent a small room to live in. Why do most people regret living together? Because the fruit is immature and small, many have paid the price! You don't have a marriage certificate, and being together is not protected by law. If a better woman appears in front of him, can you change your cohabiting girlfriend at any time and have a better choice! Therefore, cohabitation has no result and no future, and the party who cohabited and broke up paid a lot of money and youth, which is not worth it! Live together casually, get it easily, and most of them are hard to cherish!

Unmarried cohabitation encourages seedlings to wither and it is easy to break up. Unmarried cohabitation means not wanting to wait and eager to experience married life. It will happen in life that people who are in a hurry are crowded, such as crowded buses and subways. Waiting for a long time, queuing for dinner, queuing for shopping, etc. Unmarried cohabitation means that without the consent and knowledge of family members and relatives, they will stay away from their families and even go to places where there are few relatives and friends in other places.

Unmarried cohabitation is easy to abort, because unmarried cohabitation itself is a matter of damaging yin virtue, damaging yin virtue, attracting evil with evil, and easy to abort. Cohabitation without marriage is childish. In many aspects of life and work, your thoughts and actions will be considered immature and despised by the public. Unmarried cohabitation is to enjoy the life of two people in advance. After the failure of cohabitation, there will be a long period of loneliness, living in a lonely environment and paying the price for the previous behavior. My story is a terrible case, please take a warning, don't live together unmarried, please lead an honest and clean life.

I hope young people don't rush to eat bitter, small and immature fruits, and wait until the fruits are ripe. Never live together before marriage. Whether a person's moral character and family education are good or not is the basic standard, not the definition of material and superficial phenomena. These are all things that are easy for ordinary people to live together before marriage. Please don't compare with the people in Dafubao. Generally, the above situation will basically happen to the lucky people. So don't go my way. I regret doing that kind of work and even fooling around with that kind of person.

My feeling: what goes around comes around is really true. Telling one's own experience, on the one hand, is to confess one's crime of prostitution, on the other hand, it is also hoped to arouse everyone's vigilance and take a warning.

Cohabitation before marriage belongs to lewdness, and all kinds of lewdness are the first, and the result of lewdness is the fastest and most violent. As we know, fornication is one of the most harmful behaviors, and the so-called "head of all evils" is a very serious immoral behavior. And the scourge is the fastest and fastest. Once we commit adultery, the consequences will come the fastest, which will not only lead to career failure, but also seriously consume the blessings of our marriage and make our marriage unhappy. And unmarried cohabitation belongs to fornication. Everyone must be careful not to take detours. Advise everyone to stay away from lewdness and never live together unmarried, you will pay the price!