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Why do almost everyone fall into the "first degree trap" and do nothing?
I just fell into the trap, because I am essentially eager for a relaxed life, and I have no motivation. It has nothing to do with the school, the same school, the same major. Why do people fight back and I fall into the trap?
It is not an ideal school, but the majors with employment difficulties are also very talented. I got good grades in high school, failed in the college entrance examination, and volunteered poorly. I fell to an ordinary 2 1 1 in Beijing. Although it is 2 1 1, it is rubbish in Beijing, and the specialty was just established in the second year, which is an experiment.
Personally, I had a lot of ideas at first. I wanted to take a postgraduate entrance examination across majors and schools. The goal is very high (People's Bank of China). I don't work hard enough to get in. I want to find a job across industries, but I am not prepared enough and don't want to work too hard. Finally, I went home and took the civil service exam. After mixing a subject 10 years, I have two children. It can be said that I achieved nothing because of the wrong goal orientation, but because I was unwilling to suffer, unwilling to pay and asked for it.
Many students in the same major and the same school failed in the exam. There are more than 50 students in the whole department, including Bao Yan 10, Tongji, Beijing Institute of Technology, 3 people applying for scholarships to go abroad, and 10 people successfully took the postgraduate entrance examination. Our major is not good, and it is almost impossible to get employment by major, but the students have their own plans, which have all been realized. At the party of 10, some people settled abroad, some became university teachers, some became directors of financial institutions, some switched to programming with an annual salary of one million, some took the civil service rank in Beijing, and some jewelry designed by them sold well.
Although I didn't become famous, I lived a full life and realized my entry into a prestigious school and career change by my own efforts. You can completely attack the first level. It depends on individual efforts!
Comparatively speaking, the first degree is the fairest.
The first degree is very important, but it doesn't mean that college students who didn't graduate in 1985, February1/kloc-0 must be "sorry for life", "unhappy" and "mediocre".
In the short term, students who graduated from prestigious schools can get good employment opportunities and better treatment with their academic qualifications.
In the long run, everyone's development depends on their strength after work. Those who are capable are top students and those who are mediocre are inferior students. Graduates from 985 famous schools also sell pork, eat subsistence allowances and wander. These people's lives are not always smooth sailing.
From the competitive platform, most of the graduates from prestigious schools are in research fields or high-level management systems, and they are not on the same channel as ordinary people. What are you worried about?
The competition among graduates from prestigious schools on the same stage is also fierce. They don't work hard, they are eliminated by better people at any time, and their lives are very wronged.
With the development of all walks of life, every industry needs talents, scholars, workers, peasants and businessmen, and outstanding people in all walks of life. You can make a fortune and live a good life through your own struggle.
College students' friends look at the problem from a one-sided perspective and compete with their own shortcomings. Of course, people are more popular than others. We should see the vast world of society, where everyone has room to live and a place to use.
The poet Li Bai said, "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!"! , spin a thousand silver, all come back! " . This sentence has inspired people to pursue happiness and realize their own life value for thousands of years.
Finally, I want to warn young friends:
Don't think that your first degree came from a prestigious school, so you just lie in your comfort zone and sleep. The times are constantly developing and progressing. Just because you were better than others in the past doesn't mean you are happier than others all your life.
Don't feel that your first degree is not as good as others, just give up on yourself, complain about others and do nothing; I thought the sky was falling, and I was in pain.
Friends of junior college students, abandon all troubles, find their own way of life, work hard, fight the sky, there is always a rainbow after the storm.
I'm: @ 中中中中中中中中 Thank you for reading and paying attention!
More than 20 years ago, I went to a key university, and later I became a 2 1 1 university. At that time, I was in a state of neither high nor low, and I had long been in contact with classmates who graduated from different schools at work. Does the first degree have any influence on a person's growth, and what effect does it have on his future life development? This article will talk about my feelings based on my personal experience.
First, the style of study in colleges and universities has a great influence. Most students with low first degree did not get excellent grades in high school, so they are very lucky to be admitted to the university. These students generally hold the psychology of becoming a monk every day and fully release themselves in the relaxed environment of the university. Playing games, playing cards, skipping classes and shopping have become the mainstream of daily study and life, but studying hard will be laughed at. A small number of students failed to achieve their goals in the college entrance examination and stayed in psychological self-blame for a long time in school. If you can't reflect on yourself in time, you will take the initiative to change the status quo, feel sorry for yourself and give up easily. In such a school environment, those students who want to study will easily drift with the tide and lose themselves if they are not determined enough to continue their studies under pressure.
Second, the quality of school teaching is uneven. Like high school study, there are great differences between key high schools and ordinary high schools, which are mainly reflected in the teaching staff and learning atmosphere. Many ordinary high school students are making the same efforts, but the final result is not satisfactory, and the success rate between schools will be very different. There are also such differences between key universities and second-degree and higher vocational colleges. Key universities have a strong learning atmosphere, and the classrooms for self-study are crowded every night. It is common to catch up with each other in study or prepare for further study in advance. Many well-known international and domestic enterprises come to recruit after graduation. Students from neighboring schools come to play and sometimes talk about topics that seem like jokes. During the final exam, they can leave their seats to copy other students' papers. I always thought it was just a joke, but I didn't think it was true. Whether the students from this school can learn knowledge is unknown. I once stayed in a work unit to recruit secretaries and recruited several Chinese department graduates from two schools. The deputy director in charge of writing in the office thinks that the quality of students now is really bad. The writing materials for Chinese majors are all typos, and there are still many places where sentences are not fluent.
Third, there is no life plan in advance. More than 20 years ago, I spent four years in college, only knowing how to study hard. I know nothing about anything except some professional knowledge. I didn't realize that I had to plan my life as early as possible, and I was at a loss for a long time after graduation. If I had been assigned a job at that time, with my strength ranking first in my major, I believe I should also be the top technology in the enterprise in a few years. Unfortunately, I happened to meet the reform of graduation distribution system at that time, and I didn't find a company suitable for my major. Changed jobs several times before and after. My present job has nothing to do with my major. I always feel that I am more suitable for technical research. But after half a lifetime, I have adapted to my present job and can only go to the black. Sometimes the right direction is more important than hard work. A good school is not only professional and solid, but also enables students to understand, set goals, make plans, and conduct targeted study and exercise in advance, which will make it easier to study or enter the workplace. Many students from top universities usually come into contact with top experts at home and abroad, and what they hear and see is cutting-edge technology and knowledge. The goal of people around us is to study in world famous schools (of course, I don't agree with those who forget to belittle the motherland after going abroad and regard domestic education and resources as a stepping stone to fame) or work in famous enterprises. Everyone works hard, including those who are very talented. Most people have defined their goals and career direction very early.
Fourth, favorable resource advantages. In colleges and universities, professional knowledge is often not the first, and colleges and universities bring people resources of knowledge and contacts. In the popular business schools a few years ago, many successful bosses spent a lot of money to study, but they didn't really want to learn any management knowledge. Many bosses are already successful businessmen, and they are still full of confidence in their management methods and ideas. What's more important is to seek personal resources, seek development resources from classmates and teachers, and seek relationship support for yourself in the future. Most students in good schools get along well with each other. It is relatively easy to find some high-quality resources from classmates and alumni, and you can get more guidance and help.
Fifth, the development prospects are different. A few years ago, Wuhan organized a job fair for college graduates, which better reflected the level difference of schools. In front of the booth of a Fortune 500 company, the recruiters haven't come yet, and the graduates from various schools have flocked to the booth. "Students from Wuhan University and Huake can submit resumes, and other students will make way." With the voice of recruiting staff, the crowded crowd barely flashed a way, and the students of Wuhan University and Huake accepted the eyes of the students around them, as if they had walked down the red carpet. From the perspective of fatalism, all this seems to have been doomed when choosing different schools. No matter how hard students in other schools try, they can't get the chance to cross the threshold. Of course, there are also many students who attack back, and there are also many successful cases. The above-mentioned secretaries have already become good players in various positions of the unit through hard work, and one of them has also become the leader of the unit. The teacher who once attended an English training class was admitted to Peking University graduate students from two schools, and then returned to China to study in Canada to offer English remedial classes. His wealth has long been free. Born in a prestigious school, there are also places where development is not satisfactory. For most people, they all follow certain rules. The first degree represents not only the achievements that have been made, but also the height and breadth that can be achieved in the future.
I am not an advocate of academic qualifications, survival theory and class solidification theory. On the contrary, I hope that more people will break their academic qualifications and make greater achievements through their own efforts, but this requires a firmer will and harder efforts to overcome the shortage of the first degree in order to win the opportunity to stand on the same starting line with others. Borrow a sentence from Maotan Factory Middle School reported in the news, "I am willing to exchange a year of inhuman life for a three-point chance of winning the rest of my life" to encourage everyone.
My humble opinion, please forgive me for the improper place.
Academic credentials are only proof materials, and lifelong learning will achieve something.
The following answers only represent personal opinions. Please correct me if there is anything wrong. Speaking of 985,211,I estimate that all college students in China are familiar with it, and the problem of refraction should be obvious.
I am fortunate to be a member of China university students, and I have a little experience. Personally, I graduated from an ordinary undergraduate school in 2009 and took the postgraduate entrance examination after working for three years. The first major in the postgraduate entrance examination is Xi 'an 985 Aircraft Design School, with a score of 34 in the initial test and more than 30 in the independent test. When you are waiting for an interview, you will face a major problem, that is, whether you can be admitted to the preferred 985 school normally. If you are admitted, you will face the problem of choosing a job after graduating from a master's or doctoral degree. After graduation, you should go to Xifei, Cheng Fei, Shanghai Commercial Aircraft or some domestic aerospace research institutes with high probability. Then a very serious problem is the first degree. Many students who know graduate students simply brush down their resumes because their first degree is not 985 school. I don't even have a basic interview opportunity. If my tutor is awesome and has written many papers or participated in projects during my postgraduate or doctoral years, I can find a good job (except other ways to find a job) through the introduction of my tutor. In addition, if my first degree is not good, it is difficult to find an ideal job.
The reality is cruel, so for students whose first degree is not very good, they should realize the cruelty of social competition now and don't give up their original ideals and ambitions. There are thousands of roads in life, and all roads lead to Rome. Think about Chairman Mao's action of encircling the city from the countryside. It's a good idea. A single spark can start a prairie fire. Think about the achievements and glories we have made on the road to Socialism with Chinese characteristics. To sum up, for students with poor first degree, they can change their thinking, focus on social practice and skilled jobs, give full play to the characteristics of theory and practice, constantly transform and improve themselves in their work, and shine brilliantly in ordinary jobs. When our strength is enhanced, those units that give up you because of the first degree will also be unattainable.
Any failure in the college entrance examination is a lie. You play less games for a few years, fall in love too many times late, and you have everything. Look at the current admission score, 180 can go to a higher vocational school, and 300,400 points is a junior college, which is very shameful. This is an expansion of enrollment. In the 1980s, you were a shepherd. If you don't study, there will be no grades to support your college ambition. You see, there are more than 700 and 600 marks in the same class. You can fool your parents with 300,400 marks. Fool the country, fool colleges and universities, fool the society, okay? Is it possible? The first degree is the watershed between high IQ and low IQ. 2 1 1, the child of 985, that's not top student in the district and the city. If you are not satisfied, go back and get a 2 1 1, 985.
The "first degree" is indeed important, but it cannot be a decisive factor. Education only shows a person's learning experience and education level, and education is the basis of ability, not ability. Education needs to be tested by practice, and ability can be improved in practice. Simply emphasizing "the first degree" belongs to academic discrimination and is harmful to social development.
The first-class trap is harmful. If a person's future development is completely limited to the first degree, then those non-famous universities will lose their meaning and value of existence, and those students who can't get into famous universities will lose the meaning of their efforts. This is a very wrong idea.
This idea of touting famous universities to the sky and belittling ordinary universities to the ground denies that one can gain mental growth and academic progress through subsequent efforts, which is a wrong idea of looking at the world from a static point of view and must be thoroughly criticized. There are many people whose first degree is not a prestigious school, but they have achieved great success.
For example, Qian Mu, a master of Chinese studies in Taiwan Province Province, was born in 1895. His first degree was transferred to Nanjing private Sino-British Middle School on 19 10. 19 1 1 year, Qian Mu dropped out of school because the Revolution School of 1911 was closed, but he persisted in self-study all his life and eventually became a master. As far as his first degree is concerned, he is a middle school dropout. And the famous mathematician Hua. He was born in 19 10. 1925 After graduating from junior high school in Jintan County, I went to Shanghai China Vocational School. Because of poverty, he dropped out of school and went home to help his father manage the grocery store, so he only had a junior high school diploma all his life. In this way, a person who only had a junior high school diploma all his life later became a famous mathematician. What does he rely on? Teach yourself by him! Later, although he was promoted by Professor Xiong Qinglai, director of the Department of Mathematics of Tsinghua University, he entered Tsinghua University to teach, but he also got the opportunity by his own self-study results. And at that time, Tsinghua didn't think how great he was. Instead, he can put a low profile and invite a junior high school graduate to teach in the school. If everyone rejected Hua because his first degree was not a prestigious school, I'm afraid Tsinghua wouldn't be here today and Hua's life would be rewritten.
There is also a famous writer, Er Yuehe, who joined the army after graduating from high school. His first degree was high school, but he persisted in self-study and worked hard, and finally created a series of novels about the emperor, which were also put on the screen. Become a well-known writer in the country.
Practice has proved that whether a person can become a success depends largely on his own efforts, not his first degree. Those who have a high first degree will eventually be unknown everywhere. For them, the most glorious thing in life is to go to a famous university, and there is nothing else to say.
The reason why there is a trap of the first degree in society is that all kinds of colleges and universities have the hope of survival in order to compete for students. At the same time, taking the first degree as a measure, we can further consolidate the dominant position of famous universities, and then obtain more resources, strive for more interests and maximize our own interests. Some time ago, the United States listed a list of entity sanctions against China. Many universities in China are among them, but there are not top universities as people think. On the contrary, universities like Xigong University are on the list. This means that the United States has reviewed the strength of higher education institutions in China. Who is more glorious, the students from the top universities in China or the students from the unknown universities like Xigong University? Who is more proud? Who is the pillar of the country?
So don't haggle over every ounce at the level of the first degree, but continue to work hard and make contributions to the country through your own efforts, so as to realize your own value. That's all that matters.
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