What are the ways to keep love fresh?

How can the fresh-keeping tips of romantic love be made public to keep the flowers of romantic love fresh for a long time? It's not as simple as putting two aspirin in a rose vase. Then, let's open this transparent plastic wrap and see the "sesame trick" of "opening the door"! On Jennifer's calendar, February 14th was painted romantic pink. Of course, it was Valentine's Day! This day is a festival of love. How many boxes of sweet chocolates are sent with love, how many fragrant roses are happily received, and every love is valued and cared for. But love is precious, and it is far from enough to rely on the care and nourishment of Valentine's Day. If you want to make love lazy for a long time, you can't do less "preservation" homework at ordinary times. One of the stories: "Koala" got up. Since the relationship with Martin was confirmed, Juanzi got the nickname "Koala", and Martin was the "eucalyptus tree" that she clung to. Juanzi keeps in three-dimensional contact with Martin by all-round means of communication such as telephone, pager, mobile phone and even writing letters every day. He tells Chen Feng immediately about the headache and brain fever, and drags Martin to do all the big and small things, and immediately sends an E-mail to Martin to see what he feels in his heart. After work, the two people spend time together, and they almost don't associate with others. Gradually, Martin's words became less and less, and every time he met listlessly, it didn't help to cry and make a scene. Juanzi really don't understand, I miss him everywhere, and I always want to be with him. Why is my feelings getting weaker and weaker? To add fuel to the fire, Martin was sent to Germany by the company to do projects for half a year. Juanzi's original life was broken, and without that person around him, he had to do what he was willing to do, and now he had to do it himself. What was originally poured out to him had to be dealt with separately. Doing all these things is as painful as being forced to get up early. In order to fill Martin's blank, Juanzi started to go clubbing with friends, went to the park with his parents, re-started the phone porridge with his girlfriend who had not been in contact for a long time, and even attended a folk paper-cutting training class at the weekend. Gradually, Juanzi would not miss Chen Feng and shed tears. The E-mail to Chen Feng changed from a few letters a day to a few days. Half a year has passed, and Juanzi has a feeling of growing up. He can not only arrange his life reasonably and calmly, but also learn to think. No wonder Martin kept boasting that she was becoming more and more sensible and feminine after she came back. [Mirror Talk] Chen Feng: When I fall in love with Juanzi, I feel that I am wearing several hats-driver, nanny, secretary, psychologist ... Every day when she calls, I have to travel from the east to the west, and I have to take care of her romantic mood, which has affected my work. More importantly, I feel less and less like a boyfriend, but I feel like raising a daughter. Several times I almost wanted to break up, not because I didn't love her, but because I didn't have the energy to cope anymore. When I first arrived in Germany, I was a little worried, thinking that the trickling water would wither as soon as a flower left unattended. But then she wrote in an E-mail: "Don't worry, I can take care of you now." When I came back, she really looked like a different person, but luckily she didn't break up at the beginning! Jennifer: A good relationship between two people can be expressed as attachment, but it must not develop into dependence. If you blindly rely on it, you will unconsciously turn yourself into a "boyfriend's daughter" or a "girlfriend's son". How can you love such a relationship? Story 2: Let's move on, it's more exciting. Wei Wei and Wu Jiang have been introduced to each other for more than a year, and their passion for love has gradually faded. It seems that it is still a little immature to talk about marriage. Both of them are bank employees from other places, and their work is stable, their personality is stable, and their dating is stable. They have no special hobbies, but they eat and go shopping. In this small city, they are just those places. Gradually, Wu Jiangdu is too lazy to date. On weekends, he often sleeps in the dormitory for a whole day. In a rage, Wei Wei takes a long-distance bus back to her parents' home every weekend. On March 8th, the company issued several free tickets for Meika Tennis Club. Weiwei is the kind of person who never plays sports except for the physical education exam at school, let alone tennis. She casually wanted to give the ticket to her colleague chick, but Xiaoya enthusiastically said, "Let's go together, I'll teach you. You see that you are fat now, and Wujiang will not want you if you don't exercise!" Vivian was surprised and blushed and agreed. In the afternoon, Wei Wei stood at a loss on the tennis court under the guidance of Xiaoya. She looked at her own shadow on the red rubber floor and couldn't help but take a deep breath and throw the emerald tennis ball in her hand into the sky ... In the evening, Wei Wei called Wujiang excitedly: "You must come on a friend's day. It's really fun. I've never sweated so much. Now I can connect three balls ..." The next day, after work, Wei Wei called Wujiang excitedly. The laughter of two young couples filled the stadium. After the exercise, four people had a meal together, laughing and laughing. Both Wujiang and Weiwei felt that the food that day was somehow particularly fragrant. Later, Wujiang and Weiwei became frequent visitors to Meika, and on weekends, they went straight to the stadium. Wujiang made rapid progress, and was selected to participate in the amateur group competition six months later. Weiwei's ball skills have not improved much, but she no longer has to worry about her figure. They made a group of happy friends at the club. Besides playing ball, they often went out to play together. Tennis opened a colorful door to their monotonous staff life. On Wei Wei's birthday, Wujiang gave her a Wilson tennis ball, which read: Marry me. [Mirror Talk] Wu Jiang: That day, I crustily skin of head came to "Meika". On the court, Wei Wei showed rare excitement and happiness, and seemed to be a few years younger than usual. I couldn't help being infected by her. I really should thank her for bringing tennis into my life. This kind of fun can never be realized by eating or shopping. The originally listless days seem to be a tonic. Every time we walk in the street with tennis rackets on our backs, I am particularly proud. Look, how healthy we are, how happy we are, and how much we love each other! Jennifer: Sports is actually an entertainment game for adults. The fun of sports is not limited to watching the broadcast of the ball game. When your love trend is a little "weak", I strongly recommend this "exercise" prescription for strengthening your heart and body. When two people are together, the goal is happiness, and exercise can bring you real happiness. Story 3: Carry out their love in the end. Xiao Nan and A Hao are model lovers among engineering graduate students. It's enviable to get married in pairs, and they also plan to get married as soon as they graduate. Xiao Nan loves to plan for Ah Hao's future: what kind of company to work in, what kind of city to live in, what kind of house to buy, what kind of company to run in the future ... But gradually planning has become a set goal. Xiao Nan said to Ah Hao: Let's start working hard now! So under the command of Xiao Nan, the two men kept looking for a part-time job in the company and worked all night to develop their own software in the computer room. During the summer vacation, I had agreed to go to Inner Mongolia with a few friends, but Xiao Nan changed her mind and resolutely urged Ah Hao to go to Beijing "New Oriental" to make up for TOEFL and GRE. When she felt that studying in Europe was a shortcut, she urged Ah Hao to start learning foreign languages, foreign languages and even foreign languages. Later, her strategy changed again, thinking that MBA would make them even more powerful, so she mobilized Ah Hao to take the exam together. Under the guidance of Xiao Nan's high-intensity study plan, two people are so busy that they hardly have time to meet. If they want to meet, they will also go to places like French Corner and library to study together. Until one day, Ah Hao took a picture of a boy and said sadly to Xiao Nan: "This is one of my brothers, an MBA from Peking University, and he will go abroad this year. You see, he has done everything you asked me to do. Let me introduce him to you. " Xiao Nan couldn't help crying ... [Magic Mirror speaks] Ah Hao: At first, we would be very much in love like other lovers, and we would spend time together, but later Xiao Nan completely omitted emotional communication. Together, we were either studying or doing things. She is not interested in anything else. Her new goals are endless. It seems that we have to strive to be Bill Gates to stop and enjoy a normal life. I was as nervous when I saw her as when I saw the leader. I was always worried that she would ask me if I had done this or not. It's not that I don't want to work hard for tomorrow, but what I care more about is the feeling of love when I get along with her, which has become less and less. I thought of her, too. I brought a picture of handsome brother. That time, she cried so sadly that she ignored me for a few days. I thought sadly that we must be finished. On Tuesday, she appeared in front of me in a beautiful dress. I asked carefully, "to the French corner?" She shook her head and smiled brightly. "No, let's go to the movies." Jennifer: How can there be "love" if you don't talk about it? Don't think that the established feelings don't need to be cared for. Love can't be done once and for all. Without emotional communication, even if you get married, it's just a name. Maybe some people are career-oriented people, but we should never pursue career-oriented love!