How many Chongqing girls don't want to marry foreigners?

Everyone says that Chongqing girls are white, beautiful, straightforward and frank.

It happens that these girls are unwilling to marry foreigners.

Zhou Hao, a scholar from Peking University, made a statistical survey on the intermarriage circle of more than 300,000 people in China. They found that the "off-site marriage rate", which is positively related to education level and social civilization level, is the lowest among the four municipalities in China, only 13.42%, even less than half of that in Beijing.

Briefly explain why Chongqing girls don't like to marry themselves to other places.

The concept of marriage has a "high threshold"

Some time ago, there was a post saying that a beautiful woman from Chongqing went to her boyfriend's house in Hebei for the New Year, because the girl didn't include jiaozi.

Some netizens in Chongqing can't sit still.

Chongqing girls have a high status in marriage, not groundless. There are always people who scold her husband for "raking his ears" and describe him as soft-hearted, "henpecked" and obedient to his wife.

Speaking of it, the name Chongqing was given by an "ear rake" emperor.

Zhao Dun of Song Guangzong was crowned king in the Duke of Zhou, so he came up with a saying that means "double celebration"-that is, the origin of Chongqing today. This emperor is famous all over the world, but because he is the only emperor in the history of China who suffered from heart disease because he married a "fierce queen".

Li Xinyu Fengniang didn't allow any woman to compete with her, but she suppressed Song Guangzong.

According to "History of the Song Dynasty", one day when Song Guangzong was washing his hands, he smoothly praised the maid-in-waiting for her beautiful white hands. Unexpectedly, a few days later, someone sent a box to Emperor Li. As soon as I opened it, it was those white hands that were chopped off.

Although there is "ear raking" in Chongqing, people all over the country know that it seems that women are superior to men, but in Chongqing, "ear raking" is not shameful.

A ten-year survey shows that 72.7% of Chongqing women and 70./kloc-0% of Chongqing men think that the social status of men and women in China is almost the same at present, with only 59.5% in the whole country.

89.8% of women and 89. 1% of men in Chongqing agree that "daughters should inherit their parents' property equally with their sons on the premise of fulfilling their maintenance obligations", and the national data is only 76.3%.

It is enough to show that the status of Chongqing daughter-in-law is indeed relatively high in family relations, but it is also based on equality and respect.

This makes Chongqing people's concept of marriage and love unique. According to the survey data, 92. 1% of women and 82.6% of men in Chongqing strongly agree or quite agree with the statement that "men should take the initiative to undertake housework".

There is an international student from the International College of Chongqing University who likes China very much. He has lived in Chongqing for 8 years, and has dated two Chongqing girlfriends, both of whom broke up.

In an interview, he said that in his hometown, love and marriage belong to "the man is outside, and the woman is inside", hoping that his girlfriend can cook and do housework for him.

"Every time they hear me say this, they get angry and say that Chongqing girls don't have to do housework." He is confused about it, but he is firm. "I must find a virtuous girl, which I will never compromise."

Zhou Xiaoyan, a professor of psychology at Chongqing Normal University, said, "In time, maybe fate will come."

The following netizen commented, "You believe it will pass, maybe you will wait until you are 60."

Xiao Liu, a 27-year-old boy from Shenyang, has the same confusion. "I can accept that the other person has no job, but I hope she can listen to my arrangement." He worked in Chongqing for two years and had contact with two Chongqing girls, but they didn't think the same way.

He hoped that after marriage, he would not hand in his salary card and spend it according to their salary ratio, but the other party thought that in Chongqing, both men handed in their salary cards and the woman decided to spend it. In these thoughts, he often feels that he is "out of step" with Chongqing girls.

Chongqing girl this first level, I don't know how many China men will be killed.

The average person can't hold it.

"Now, I'm thinking, is the crisp coloratura of Sichuan voiceless sound made by the lingering fragrance of tea and the tinkling of bowl lids still there? That is a very sultry voice, from which we can see the charm of women. " -Composer Guo Wenjing described this when he recalled old Chongqing.

Some people say that Chongqing people talk violently, but the problem is easy to solve; Chengdu people next door speak softly, which is even more troublesome.

"The man came home late, and when he knocked at the door, the mother of Chongqing sister RI poured out a burst of abuse, which made you want to die, but 15 minutes later, I guaranteed you to go to bed.

In the same situation, Chengdu sister did not scold, but whispered, "How did you come back?" ? Did you come back with claws? Play three, alas, the girls outside are so gentle that they won't come back until they have had enough fun ... Anyway, my family will be reorganized in five years ... "

As a result, I haven't entered the door until 5 am.

The host Morphy wrote in the article "Chongqing in My Eyes", "If a beautiful girl is gentle, it will be perfect for men, but most women in Chongqing are not so gentle, and their overall personality is very pungent."

It is a strong expression of emotion that one side of the soil nourishes the other side. In the hot urban atmosphere, it is natural to cut to the chase.

Deng Jie, who plays Wang Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions 1987, grew up in Chongqing.

The staff who worked with her commented, "She is very straightforward and says what she has to say; She loves to laugh, and it is a hearty smile, and she does not hide it; She has a quick temper, eats fast, makes up fast, and even speaks fast. "

From this point of view, pungent is a commendatory term, an advanced version of straightforward, and can not be confused with uneducated unreasonable troubles.

Some experts say that Chongqing's unique geographical and climatic environment, Chongqing's rivers and lakes culture, dock culture and food culture are all reasons why Chongqing girls are frank.

It must be difficult for foreigners who don't know such a unique romance to enter the hearts of Chongqing girls.

Belonging is above everything else.

From a historical point of view, Chongqing girls have a natural advantage: the "types" of people are diverse.

The second volume of Chongqing Historical Atlas was published in 20 17, which recorded the migration route of Chongqing people in history.

Because of the historical war, the population of Sichuan dropped sharply, and after the large-scale immigration of "Huguang filling Sichuan", people from Hubei, Hunan, Guangdong, Guangxi and other places began to flock here.

The Survey of Chengdu in the late Qing Dynasty recorded that "Chengdu people are all from other provinces today". According to Chongqing Business Daily, 80% of Sichuan and Chongqing people are descended from other provinces.

From this perspective, Chongqing's culture is diverse and highly integrated, and "self-production and self-marketing" is enough to solve the problem, so Chongqing girls don't have to leave their homes to find suitable husbands.

It can be said that returning to the foundation of life, dialects and delicacies that accompany Chongqing girls' growth are important factors for Chongqing girls to miss their hometown.

Chongqing dialect in a broad sense belongs to southwest mandarin and is the representative of eastern Sichuan. There is no difference between "n" and "l", and there is no difference between a flat tongue.

Miss Cao, whose hometown is Shandong, stayed in Chongqing to work after graduating from a university in Chongqing. She found that in many cities across the country, local dialects are also respected, and people usually choose Mandarin for work and business occasions. But in Chongqing, many people insist on communicating in Chongqing dialect regardless of the occasion.

"Chongqing people are more persistent in local dialects than many other cities." What puzzles her is, "in life, if I switch to Mandarin, they think I'm pretending."

If foreigners want to marry Chongqing girls and take root in Chongqing, language is a sad hurdle.

There is also "eating" that cannot be ignored, which is the absolute pride of Chongqing girls.

Chongqing noodles, Chongqing hot and sour powder, Chongqing hot pot ... those spicy tastes that you can't get tired of all your life, if you change to a city that is never "authentic", I'm afraid it will kill the girl.

I don't want to leave because people here have a strong sense of belonging.

Although the sky is foggy all the year round and the climate is not so pleasant, Chongqing's human touch, liveliness and joy are nourishing Chongqing girls.

No matter how much money you earn, no matter how stressful your life is, the language and food in Chongqing give the local people an innate sense of superiority, which makes the girls here "narcissistic".

Not to mention getting married, Chongqing girls just appreciate themselves, and I'm afraid it won't be enough for a lifetime.