There are more and more older young men in rural areas. How to solve this problem?

A widower can't talk about it, but it is a topic to talk about. The emergence of widower problem is an important embodiment of social form and consciousness change. The social status of men and women has changed fundamentally, and women gradually occupy a dominant position in the marriage market. The continuous increase in the number of rural widows is a reality that cannot be ignored, and it needs to be solved urgently, even more urgently than solving the problem of rural old-age care.

There are one or two widowers in the village. Because of the loss of a wife or disability in middle age. Today, there are more than a dozen widowers in the village. Nobody wants to get married because they can't get married. It's disappointing. The problem of widower is not taken seriously. In a few years, it will affect social harmony, cause contradictions and contradictions, and cause financial burden.

In the early days, only one family was advocated to have children. At that time, the countryside was seriously patriarchal, which eventually led to disharmony between men and women. The imbalance between men and women is the root cause of widower. The marriage market is completely dominated by women, and men can only make relatively passive choices. In addition, as women work in rural areas, a large number of women flow into cities, and the imbalance between men and women in rural areas is increasing.

The imbalance between men and women leads to the imbalance of the marriage market, which requires high-priced bride price. The bride price of hundreds of thousands of won is a pain that men can't say. The high-priced bride price is just the first course. Houses and cars are the last straw to crush camels. The RV is based on marriage, and the cost of marriage has risen sharply. The psychology of blindly comparing is like adding fuel to the fire of bride price, and the psychology of comparing is constantly rising.

It is a common phenomenon whether the ratio between men and women is not harmonious or the bride price is high. Because it is a common phenomenon, the remaining widowers must find problems from themselves. Lack of money, not handsome, not handsome and not confident are all important reasons for the failure of marriage.

Now that we know the causes of chocolate bars, in order to solve the problem, what we have to do is to prescribe the right medicine and find a suitable solution. The problem of widower can be solved according to the thinking mode of normal rate, stable bride price and increasing ability, but it is impossible to improve the big environment, stabilize the marriage market in the small environment and solve personal problems and widower problems.

We can consider encouraging the birth of two children, giving women a certain subsidy to give birth to two children, guiding the proportion of men and women to gradually reach a balance, delaying female immigration and attracting foreign women. Set the maximum bride price limit, improve publicity, set an example, and form a good wedding mayor/market style. Continue to learn, constantly improve your ability, not stupid, and increase your personal wealth. Whether it is balancing men and women, stabilizing the bride price, or improving one's own ability, it is a long and long process, so we should be fully psychologically prepared.