Which six bad habits of parents will affect children's intellectual development?

1. About dining Now many families have lost the habit of cooking breakfast. When sleeping in the afternoon, breakfast and lunch are eaten together, and children can only form the habit of not eating breakfast like their parents. However, I don't know that breakfast is the longest meal between two meals. The ingredients in the stomach have been digested and absorbed all night, and the calorific value has been exhausted. If you don't eat breakfast immediately to make up for the lost kinetic energy, you are very prone to hypoglycemia, dizziness and nausea. If this disease is reflected in children, the children's logical thinking will be very popular all morning, and their teaching energy will be unfocused and groggy. In addition, if children eat too much at every meal, it will also endanger their intelligence. If you eat too much, your brain will be dull and always groggy. In the long run, children's brain nerves will age and their intelligence will be suppressed. Therefore, every meal parents give their children needs to be good and full, but not too full.

2. Regarding the quality of sleep, many parents now have the habit of staying up late, watching TV dramas, surfing the Internet and working overtime ... staying up late with their children. Children are in the stage of human development. If they often stay up late, it will not only affect their figure and immunity, but also cause a series of health problems. The most important thing is that children stay up late for a long time and can't stand up the next day. As a direct result, they can't eat breakfast and are often late for school. Because of poor rest, children will definitely feel groggy in class, and their brains and nerves will be inactive, which will endanger the intellectual development trend and reduce their academic performance.

As we all know about reading, reading is a good way for a person to exercise logical thinking, because in the process of reading, people are always thinking about situations. And a person who often thinks must be on his own initiative. But in real life, many parents repeatedly ask their children to read more books, but they watch mobile phones and play games in front of their children, thinking that their personal behavior has nothing to do with their children, then you are all wet. Parents' habits are harmful to children's behavior; The family environment created by parents immediately affected the temperament of children. A parent who often reads books and newspapers in front of his children, a parent who keeps books at home, will definitely have a child who loves reading; On the contrary, if parents don't like reading and don't want to go to school, and there is no natural learning and training environment at home, children certainly don't like reading articles. Children don't like reading, don't want to go to school, and don't use their brains for a long time, which will accelerate the decline of human brains, and even the cleverest children will become dull.

About criticizing and educating children, it is normal to make mistakes. Every time you try to make a mistake, it is a development for your child. However, it is not easy for parents to put themselves in other's shoes. Children have always been defined according to the values of adults. Therefore, when they make mistakes, they can't help shouting at them, and some even use their strength ... Yes, your shouting can really scare the children and make them quiet. However, this conclusion can not only make children very clearly aware of inaccuracy, but also easily lead to anxiety and depression in children's mentality, resulting in an introverted and introverted temperament. In addition, an authoritative expert on punishment and domestic violence in the United States conducted a four-year follow-up scientific study on 15 10 children aged 2-9, and found that among 806 children aged 2-4, the average intelligence quotient ratio of unpunished children was often higher than 5, while that of another group of 704 children aged 5-9 was 2. In other words, punishing children will reduce their intelligence.

The key word "play" has always been a sensitive word for parents, because parents feel that children are wasting time and delaying learning and training. Parents will feel comfortable as long as they see their children reading and writing; When you see a child playing, you won't play, and you will start to think, "You know how to play day by day. Have you finished your work?" The most important thing in learning and training is to pay attention to the reasonable arrangement of time. If you only know about learning and training, it is very easy to give people the impression of "scholar". It is easy to do things wholeheartedly, and it is not easy to get along with people without knowing how to improvise. And if you only play all day long and learn nothing, it will certainly not be easy to make a difference. Therefore, what parents should do is to help their children find a balance between "learning" and "playing". Establish an effective schedule with children, when to study and train, when to have fun, and ensure relaxation. Let children learn to arrange their own time reasonably and give them a chance to release stress. Only when the bad mentality is released can we use new professional knowledge.

6. About Modesty Parents often behave modestly in front of others, saying that their children "gossip". Although the adults are tacitly aware, the children are still young and simply don't understand the meaning behind this sentence. All they heard was the literal meaning: Mom called me stupid. Once or twice, children are probably not easy to put in their hearts. If he keeps hearing this, it will give him a self-suggestion and make him work hard in these directions. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their own language in front of their children, try to say some positive language expressions and use positive social energy to hurt their children. In order to improve children's mental health and have a bright future, parents should restrain their negative emotions and bad habits, create a positive, healthy and enterprising natural environment for their children, and prepare them to become "smart people".